Flirting in cyberspace  

puntachueca 105M
2534 posts
6/4/2006 11:26 am

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6/6/2006 10:34 pm

Flirting in cyberspace

There’s a point in life when one feels old and jaded. But it is really neat to suddenly find out you’re still kind of a virgin in some things.

Flirting, for example.

I don't actually remember ever being the flirt-or or the flirt-ee.

Reading some of the exchanges that have taken place via this blog, unless I’m reading this wrong, some of us a flirting with each other.

I love it!!!!

Here we are on a “sex site” being shy, slowly sticking our necks out, saying nice things to each other, making little sly innuendo comments that could mean nothing or a lot...what fun!!!

I really look forward to the comments here.

As they say in the song..."this could be the start of something big..."

Thank you all!!!!!

MyHeartLost4U 52M
2303 posts
6/4/2006 4:56 pm

Are we on a "Sex Site" or an "Adult Site" that is geared around sexuality has always been a Q of mine. When I think of a "Sex Site" I normally think of porn; consequently, thinking of "Sex Site" and of flirting with a woman is not of the norm for me.

Now when I think of this site as an "Adult Site" that is geared around sexuality, I find it quite normal and easy to flirt with a woman as it being a compliment of some sorts to show an appreciation of her beauty (inner, outer, or both) and to bring a smile, a blush or even a laughter of my silliness at times. Flirting is one of the main things that many women need to receive from a man, be it through words or actions. It is also one of the main keys that draws a woman's attraction to a man and also helps keep a relationship a woman may have with a man alive.

Men have ego's that need be fed, and women have self esteem that need be fed.

Your1-Nick (a big harmless silly flirter here on A.FF)

puntachueca replies on 6/4/2006 8:03 pm:
Thank you for your comment. It is good to see there are gentlemen here. Best of luck!!

catkit13 66F

6/4/2006 9:16 pm

flirting can be some of the best fun around! i doubt you're as naive as you'd like us to think, but in any event, just smile and enjoy it!

puntachueca replies on 6/4/2006 9:29 pm:
you'd be very surprised. i am much more comfortable hiding behind a cloud of words, especially electronically, then in real life.

demonicsexkitten 41F
10671 posts
6/6/2006 10:10 am

Now... shocking is when some of the things you say electronically suddenly comes out of your mouth in person hahaha.

In my case: i then turn bright red, and deepen to purple as people always have to comment on it.

puntachueca replies on 6/6/2006 7:14 pm:
That's what makes this so much fun. it flirting when you tell me your thighs are an erogenous zone? Definitely not something people would say face to face early on....But I can imagine slowly caressing your thighs....

demonicsexkitten 41F
10671 posts
6/6/2006 9:50 pm

actually, i've taken to warning guys about that when i'm driving in the car. assuming they're the passenger, that is. nothing worse than having a guy reach across to squeeze my thigh, and my leg-jerk startled overflow of sensation and hormonal reaction driving my foot to the floor on the gas pedal. "Don't touch while driving!" The other rule is "No kissing the driver while driving!!" of course... after the warning they *have* to try, just to see if the consequences are as dangerous as I warned. I've finally learned to ignore them long enough to brake. Oh yeah... had an accident that way in the past. Warning comes from experience. heh.

puntachueca replies on 6/6/2006 10:36 pm:
Us guys kind of always respond to "don't..." with immediately doing that which we've been told not to do...this could be useful information....

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