Words and sex  

puddledyke 43F
16 posts
9/4/2005 6:42 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Words and sex

My wife and I go through dry spells sexually. Long ones. I get angsty for multiple reasons.

I rediscovered I needed to say when I wanted to have sex. Yes, its true, J is not a mind reader. We agreed that we both need to say when we're in the mood. After long dry spells, it is hard for sex to happen spontaneously. Scheduled sex can feel like a chore. Sultry glances aren't enough, even if they feel telepathic. My cunt screams "fuck me" and I'm the only one that hears it.

Sometimes it is amazing how difficult it is to put into words the things we want. But when you do, it's so much easier to get it!

sexysweetlover25 36F

9/4/2005 7:35 pm

For me I don't like when my hubby says "I want to fuck you" instead he has learned to pick me up, carry me to the bedroom, take off my clothes and ravish my body. All without saying a word, until afterwards. It's so primal and exhilarating. You should try it don’t speak just act no matter what the other person is doing, everything can wait sex should always come first.

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