time to think about others.  

problklover 53M/F
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8/31/2005 11:07 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

time to think about others.

There are those who are sufferring a great deal. There are those who have lost more than a few small items. A few weeks ago, I contacted someone to offer My support because they were ripped off. They were rather blunt and rude, mostly because I told them how they treated Me and how I felt it was wrong. They took My offer of support as an attack on them to which they were rather blunt, told Me that if I was not going to be nice to them, that they did not want to talk to Me. While I do believe I was right in that you do not treat people that you call a freind the way I was, I let it drop.

Now see the destruction that has happened to those poor people out there in the New Orleans area, made Me think again how important it is to treat those you call freinds as the family you pick. These people black, white, asian, hispanic, all races, colors and creeds need to support each other. Never ignore your freinds or make them feel as if they are not important. Never turn your back on them just because they tell you the cold truth and you can not accept it. One day you will need them. Like the mother who handed off her children to a total stranger to make sure they were safe, you never know whos hands your life will be in.

These people have nothing. Nothing but each other to rely on. No homes, food, water, eletric, jobs anything. They have to rely on each other for support, love and life. Nothing will show you how much someone is there for you like fighting Mother Nature.

Whites hate blacks, black hates white, one race hates another. Mother Nature comes in and forces all to work together. I ask that everyone think about it. Do to others what you would want them to do to you. If you say you are going to do something, then do it. If you say you will be there for them, then do it. Do not make excuses. Do not vanish for weeks on end and ignore them. You will be surpised what a 5 min phone call can do. There is not much I will not do for a true freind. I have not found that yet here in Vegas, mostly because there is NO REAL force to Mother Nature that forces us to work together. Give each other the respect and honor that you want.

If a freind can not speak their mind to you and you not end that freindship, then they must not have been a real freind in your mind. I rather have a real freind than someone who will lie to My face. A real friend is someone who I can place My life in their hands. That is the kind of person I want.


islandgirl_702 54F

9/2/2005 9:15 pm

Unfortunately, I useto trust everyone...my motto was everyone had an A+ in my book, but to remain my friend they had to maintain that grade. Stay true to honesty, communication, trust...I found it harder for my friends to maintain their A+ then it was for me to invite a complete stranger into my life. All in all, I learned the hard way, full of lessons of peoples prejudicy, hatefulness, bigots, etc... Everyone needs someone, and they should not be used in an experiment. In the end, my best friend is the man that I am with and I know when it is all said and done...once I leave this world, I want to know that I can lay my head on that pillow every night with NO regrets. Someone hates someone for any apparent reason...freedom of choice is great. But, the way to end all that stuff in the world starts with OURSELVES....we need to break the cycle...noone will do it for us! I believe we come into this world alone...chances are you will leave alone..... xxoo


problklover 53M/F

9/4/2005 1:01 pm

That is so true. It is very easy to hate someone becuase they may speak the truth. however, has it not been said that the truth hurts?
I have to agree with you in that I want to go to My death with happiness in My heart and soul. That is why I reach out to help people. Never know when I would need their help. Even with the pain and suffering that I am going through now, I am still reaching out to help others. It is the only way to be if you want to have a good life.


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