Is it possible to make freinds on here?  

problklover 53M/F
46 posts
5/23/2005 9:22 pm

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Is it possible to make freinds on here?

I am alone in this city and am trying to make freinds here. It seems that the guys when I approach them , theink I must be GAY or the like. If I appraoach a couple then then most think I am only after their wives( with a few guys want to share the bull...) As for the ladies, ....well I have to laugh. Granted there is at least one who has a gleam in My eye....well that is a horse of another color as well as another story (that I will most likely NOT post....LOL sorry) Perhaps it is best to keep ones thoughts or comments to one's self... tru love is so hard to find...

What is a guy to do if He wants people to chat with and share some good conversations with. Yes,I have to say that the VASTE MAJORITY of the ads on here are for sex. Sex is not a bad thing.....It is a VERY GOOD THING. But what good is it when you have nothing but sex all the time and there is Connection? I would like to think there is something more to life than just sex.

I would like to think that we are more than just body parts. Please I would ask that if you have rude or self serving comments, that you keep them to yourself. I have had people launch attacks for no other reason other than they disagree and want things their way. I am human I make mistakes...I am a poort typist and I have to put My pants on the old fashion way.

Maybe I need to really focus on what is important to Me. I hate that thought, but maybe it is time to look out for NUMBER ONE. I guess the heart can only be opened so many times before it needs to be protected.

Any helpful comments are welcome


rm_Elysia2005 43F
412 posts
5/23/2005 10:14 pm

Teddie, hon... you are on the "World's Largest Sex & Swinger Personals site." They make no secret of that. So yes, most of the people you meet here, are going to assume some interest in sex with them on your part, if you contact them. Now, there are actually a fair number of men I've met on here, that I can consider friends. But our initial interest was in sex; the friendship was kind of a side effect, if you will.

I don't really know where to suggest you go to meet someone who is JUST interested in being friends, but I'd venture to say this is not it.

funlovingredhead 67F

5/24/2005 7:47 am

I agree totally with Elysia, get with the program. You can not make friends with someone by not being a friend first. Saying you will call and don't, giving out false phone numbers in not the way to make friends. Be honest if not interested say so. You must be a friend frist in order receicve in kind.

problklover 53M/F

5/24/2005 10:58 am

I totally agree with you and sadly there are those that seem to ONLY think with their body parts. When you are new to a city / state, it is hard to meet others when today it is consider taboo to socalize with co-workers and the like. Personally, I hate sitting in a bar, but at the same time I know that there is not much else I can do.

That does not mean I do not want have someone to be sexual with. It just means that I would like to see if it is possible to have people to do something with BESIDES just quickly hop in bed. Oh I do love my se....that is not a problem. It is better to be sexual with someone that you have a friendship ( tends to be more complete ) than with a total stranger. But there is nothing wrong with stranger sex...*S*

problklover 53M/F

5/24/2005 1:35 pm

Well ask and you shall receive. It is nice to get a few good freindly responses. Now if I only had the time...LOL Work just kicked up several notches and I have to see what My schedule is like. *S*

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