Is that so wrong ?  

prince4me2please 35F
11 posts
9/22/2005 9:54 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Is that so wrong ?

Yes i know what i want! Is what i want wrong for one who's to say what's right or wrong?i want fun and excitment in my life and i know that takes money,and yes i can make my own infact i do.Yes i want the whole package,Good looks,Money,Romance,and if someone tells you sex isn't important well let's just say they are not being honest.Please don't get me wrong i don't have expectations that can't be met,but i will lower my expectation's for no one.I know what i'm looking for,and that's what i want is that so wrong?

9Simon9 66M
292 posts
9/23/2005 6:18 am

Don't let our society's double standard about women play games with your head.
You're a normal young women with a healthy sexual appetite, so enjoy yourself to the fullest! (and please supply some pics every now n'then for us geriatrics )

ithacaneedsit 43M
36 posts
9/24/2005 4:40 am

Frankly, to me it is VERY sexy when a woman knows and states what she wants. There's nothing wrong with honesty and some of us guys actually appreciate it.

prince4me2please 35F

9/24/2005 6:42 am

that's nice to seems the guys are w/me on this w/is cool.however it's some other women that i run into judgements.

rm_mr_ruepp 40M

9/24/2005 4:33 pm

im sorry i disagree with you... no one.... man or woman... should expect things from people. give first... remember??.. i do all the time.. and im respected for it.. and i dont expect alot for it..yes.. im human .. and i do expect certain things now and then.. but i feel you are setting the bar way too high... which basiclly tells me that you are all about yourself and that not attractive to no one..i hope im wrong ..but thats how you are coming off..and the worst part.. i think inside you might think it might be wrong too cause your fishin for approval everywhere...if you are wondering where all the good guys have gone?? theres one right here!!! answering your blog!! also remember.. what your putting out there...your getting back...the kind of guys that you like also expect alot from you if they are gonna spend lots of money on you....just my opinion...ED

prince4me2please 35F

9/25/2005 3:27 pm

and you have every right to ,i respect everyones opinion!however who said i didn't give.i'm a very giving person,and it seems to me you jumped to a conclusion to i'm not all aboout myself at all,and why should any one "lower the bar" i always try to give 100%so why shouldn't i try to find someone who's going to give me the same,and in that respect;i expect a guy to want alot from me.Also there was more to my blog then money but the fact that that's all you got out of it does tell me something about you!

rm_mr_ruepp 40M

9/25/2005 7:01 pm

im sorry.. i might have jumped to a conclusion but i did so because of how you worded things.. now.. i dont know you or anything about you.. but... i took what you wrote.. and defined it logiclly..and came to that conclusion.. remember in my response that i said that i hope that im wrong???..well i wasnt lying and mean no disrespect in my resposes and i never said anything about lowering the bar..i was just talking about being unrealistic..thats all...i too have standards for a partner or girl friend.. so im with least half oh and yes i want alot too...but i dont expect anything.....ED

ynglookingman 50M
1 post
9/26/2005 8:23 am

There's absolutley nothing wrong with knowing what you want. The fact that you're honest about it is all the better. How many people live day to day not knowing what they want and just go throught the motions.

prince4me2please 35F

9/27/2005 12:43 pm

well thank you for seing my point of view.i truely am a kind , caring person,who just happens to believe in my oppinions wether others agree or not.everyones entitled to there own oppinion.and i thank those of you who agree!

rm_luv2chat69 61M
1 post
9/29/2005 10:53 pm

You sound pretty normal to me. What you describe as what you want in a man is nothing less than chivalry...something that is hard to find these days. good luck. and careful what you ask just might get it...hehehe

prince4me2please 35F

9/30/2005 1:17 pm

well thank you ,you sound like a very nice guy.chivalry is hard to come by now days lol.

rm_deaminveni 50M
116 posts
9/30/2005 4:05 pm

Knowing what you want is always a good thing. Telling people what you want is the only way to get it (I have yet to meet a telepath, although I've met people who think I should be one and it's very fustrating).

I find that people I feel are being honest (rather than saying things they think people want to hear) are much more attractive. It also avoids disappointment later I suspect, based on the many "NO TIME WASTERS PLEASE" notices on people's profiles, that there may be quite a bit of this going on (not a problem I have first hand experience of yet, but then I've not been on AdultFriendFinder long enough to be troubled by it yet, it's just a suspicion).

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