WANTED...A GOOD MAN  

prettypussy4004 86F
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7/22/2006 2:08 pm

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WANTED...A GOOD MAN


This is the sign I would have to post if I were to lose my significant other by Divorce, Desertion or Death. What is a good, not perfect recipe for a man? Good is great because I don't want anyone that thinks they are perfect so why create a perfect recipe, right. Okay as I am getting older I'm not as physical as I use to be, so now having someone nice to look at is a BIG PLUS. I love looking out the window at my husband (or any body's husband if he is fine)while he is cutting the grass... today he had on some black zip away pants that he loves and a black T-shirt, white socks and a pair of black work boots...sexy huh. Well, I love the look of a rugged man and as he went pushing the lawn mower I could see the muscles in his calves and arms flex, now that is down right sexy to me if you are the right size man...mind you.
Personality is a must and for me this just means having the personality to put up with me part bitch, part angel and a part not there at all. He needs to be confident enough in himself that he does not need someone to mother or smother him.
He must be a strong provider and a builder. In the beginning I worked outside of the home as well as inside but once he was able to carry the bills I could just work at home taking care of the family. I now have a 5 year old home business that I am trying to grow and he is financing. I joke all the time that he is taking care of me but as he tells me and I know, we take care of each other. I am not fooled into thinking that if I stopped being the incredible wife that I would still be taken care of the way I am now.
Trust is the last ingredient I think I will add for now and by trust I mean we would be committed to the relationship not to the people in the relationship...at my age I just need companionship the next time around so we don't have to have fidelity but we would have to have respect.
Those are my top ingredients for the good man stew and as you notice sex is not part of the equation, so although it would be great to have it every now and again, I have found out you won't dry up and die without it. Not that I'm staying celibate much longer but during this time it has really opened my eyes to a lot of things I needed to see. So, thank you to all the sexy guys who cut grass in shorts and a t-shirt, not to take away from the not so sexy guys who are always in the yard without a shirt.amp;

No road is traveled alone, just know your journey is a shared one.
{=}Pretty


SingleWarrior 52M

7/22/2006 3:40 pm

I often wonder truly just what people are looking for in another person.

I read profiles. It says one thing. I read a blog from the same person. it says something else. I e-mail a person based on their profile. Find out that's not what they want.

...oye

Glad you found what you want!


prettypussy4004 86F

7/23/2006 2:49 am

It only took 3 divorces to find him but even without sex he is worth it. Now if I could find a long term sexual friend that could understand how special me and my husband are to each other and that I don't want to leave my husband for any man. Although I'm not looking right now, me and my husband are not sexual and I often say that is the reason we get along so well. It's always harder for me to get along with someone that can tap into the deepest parts of my emotional maze. I know many might say how can you stay in a non-sexual relationship but it is better than all the fighting and arguing I did in sexual relationships, so for me it's worth losing the sex as long as I can have sex with someone else if I choose too. It sounds better than it is and my husband knows it, finding an appropriate sex partner is hard enough but then to ask him not to get emotionally attached is going a little far. By the way when I was looking my profile did match my blog but sometimes if I blog about my husband's traits and someone mistake this as what I would want in an affair...well that's not my fault. I go by the profile but the way people on this site lie on their profile you really just have to rely on the positive forces in your life to guide you to the truth on this site, if there is any.

No road is traveled alone, just know your journey is a shared one.
{=}Pretty


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