Lonely not desperate...  

prettypussy4004 87F
1033 posts
5/16/2006 11:24 am

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Lonely not desperate...

Why does it seem that people take being lonely as being desperate. I'm not desperate, I have a husband with all the trimmings, we just choose to live our lives differently. All anyone else needs to know is that there is no drama between us and we nor I will bring drama to anyone else. I would like to step outside my world from time to time but when I connect with someone my marital status gets in the way, I thought this site would be a safe place for a married person to search out a partner but I find some people come to this sex site to find morals. I'm not saying you should not have morals just save it for church not when you are looking to fuck someone you don't know.

No road is traveled alone, just know your journey is a shared one.

rm_Gentle12553 67M
1378 posts
5/16/2006 12:19 pm

I couldn't agree more....this is indeed a sex site...and you would be surprised at the women that I write to all wanting to go holy on me...seeking husbands, committments....LTR's and again your are correct with them morals....If you want to step out, then enjoy the fruits of your labors...and the orgasms.

Oh yes, having any fun....you can always chat with an ole bulldog from NY?

prettypussy4004 replies on 5/24/2006 10:49 am:
Thanks Bulldog we also are cut from the same cloth.

photoslayme 50M

5/16/2006 3:58 pm

I'm not looking for morals but there is some that are.
Wrong site people, try a standard dating site.

prettypussy4004 replies on 5/24/2006 10:55 am:
Yes, my sentiments exactly.{=}

rm_Casualmtgs 46M

5/23/2006 7:56 am

Society runs on morals. If an individual chooses to be different they are ridiculed for not following the correct path. Most of the people who ridicule the unique individuals are blind to their own daily problems but rely on the neverending moral society to get them through no matter what. Without faith what would everyone do?

In my opinion if people started thinking for themselves everything would change for the better. Nothing wrong in taking care of yourself and your needs. Everyone else should mind their own sheep.
You can be lonely at every holiday surrounded by everyone in your life.

But I'm sure you already now this. Just thought I would say not everyone knows this. Only those who have felt this way too. Wow... that reads way too deep.

prettypussy4004 87F

5/24/2006 10:47 am

Your words are deep and revealing, thank you for coming into my world and understanding.{=}

No road is traveled alone, just know your journey is a shared one.

rm_blknurmouth 47M
5 posts
6/1/2006 6:57 am

why can't we just fuck and share these memories within our own boundaries!.I agree most people are only here for love! this is just a search em, find em and fuck em site! that's it. But it's all in whom we share our most inner experiences that matter the most.

prettypussy4004 replies on 6/6/2006 6:33 pm:

MrSmokesomething 39M

6/2/2006 8:31 am

If your looking for love they should be on Match.com paying $99. I'm Trying to get my freak on with the freaks. >>!

HelmetMan2006 51M

6/4/2006 9:15 pm

I'd say that 70-80% of the women I meet here at AdultFriendFinder end up confessing that they have a problem with my marital status. 100% of these ladies are single, and (bless their hearts) they generally fantasize about the knight in shining armor who will whisk them off their feet and carry them off on his steed. It is the result of a repressive paradigm imposed on us all from the cradle all throughout our formative intellectual development.
I've found that a marriage, and any relationship in general, is each its own snowflake: beautiful in its own varying degree, but predominantly unique. I'm not going to apologize for loving my wife, and yet I'm not going to make excuses for my sexuality to anyone. I am more than happy to explain my own circumstances, and more often than not the women remain my friends (if they get that far listening).
The irony of this judgmentmental process is that the women who automatically write me off as a "cheater" are usually the ones who introduce themselves with a plethora of sexual innuendoes fashioned specifically for the head between my legs, not the one on my shoulders (which, I must admit, is oftentimes vey effective). Once I "take the bait," they back off and let me know what their intentions really are.
I commend you for your candor, pp4004. This entry of your blog has given me hope that maybe I'm not such a scumbag afterall
You are no less than an oasis for this thirsty wanderer.

prettypussy4004 87F

6/6/2006 6:31 pm

If what you do as a man makes you a scumbag then what would I be viewed as being a woman. I really love the way men approach me, they want to just fuck me and leave but when they get caught up and can't have me completely then they don't want me at all because ...take a wild guess...because I'm married.

No road is traveled alone, just know your journey is a shared one.

fukmesilly1956 60M
1 post
6/15/2006 1:14 pm

you are correct, most men can not accept the fact that a woman, married or single can be in this just for the sex. Good sex is hard to find, I don't let my morals interfere with me getting good sex. Not every lover is a good lover.

prettypussy4004 87F

6/18/2006 3:42 am

You've said a mouthful, but oh soooooo true

No road is traveled alone, just know your journey is a shared one.

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