World War III  

pretty_blue_eyes 38F
3045 posts
7/21/2005 6:42 am

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World War III

Oh my gosh...I got home last night. Started cooking dinner and washing dishes. Husband comes in, and what does he do? Goes and sits on the couch. Ugh! Didn't offer to finish washing dishes, help cook, or pick up anything. I had planned to do several things after dinner, walking, shower, giving son shower, but no...I couldn't b/c I had to finish cleaning. So after dinner I had to pick up the dining room, clean up the kitchen, and finish washing dishes. What did he do???? He went and sat on the couch. Well, WW III erupted. I am sooooo tired of having to do everything. So he calls me a b*tch, how I spend his money, and how much more he does than I do. No matter what whether at work, around the house, everywhere! I told him that the only reason he wanted me around was for a maid or his momma. Grrrrrrr......I'm soooo tired of the crap. So tired......

MUTigerinOPKS 48M

7/21/2005 8:07 am

I am sooooo sorry Blue Eyes. It sounds like you need a vacation away from it all. Take a girls night out or a long weekend and focus on you. When you return, you can implement the "split" chore chart. It really sounds like you need a man to take care of some of your needs emotionally rather than physically but Im no psychiatrist, just an observation.

pretty_blue_eyes 38F
2091 posts
8/3/2005 7:34 am

Ocean, don't know if you will see this or not, but yes we did talk about this stuff before we got married. I was a full time college student and he worked. Back then he helped, he didn't mind doing stuff. Maybe it was just the newness. I have always told him that he is a hard worker and he provides very well for me and his son. I will not deny that. He does, and he is a good father. Its just that he thinks now that he has a new job of 3 yrs.....he is "THE MAN" attitude. Everything he does is more than I, and better. Although I'm sure he does better than I in several things, just not everything.

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