pretty_blue_eyes 38F
3045 posts
10/30/2005 10:51 am

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8/11/2006 11:32 am


I'm so tired of all the judgements I get from those in my family, extended family, and from those on the net. I want things to work out, to go well. I just have no way of making things do that. Yet. I am trying. Hopefully it will start coming together for me.

redmustang91 57M  
8599 posts
10/30/2005 11:32 am

Gosh I thought you would be tired from sex! Spending your energy on the wrong stuff!

surf54thStreet 48M
6 posts
10/30/2005 11:44 am

There's no way youu can make everybody happy. That's just the way it is. Family will eventually accept whatever you decide & who cares about the rest.

rm_simon234233 39M
37 posts
10/30/2005 11:49 am

Only you can know what is best for your self. Do not worry about others too much.

Good luck!

jimbo19682005 49M
1 post
10/30/2005 12:02 pm

I'm with you blue eyes . I am constantly judged by people in my life who surely have no business passing judgement on ANYONE. I am not perfect but still a really great guy. Everyone just shut the hell up and let me figure it out. You ever noticed how so few people are ever around when you actually need good advice or direction. Nope. Most are only there when it serves to boost their own ego. Who ever you are blue eyes I'm with you.

GuestInFrance 33M
16 posts
10/30/2005 12:32 pm

Sometimes its hard getting through the day without feeling the pressure of the judgements from others. But you should know that it WILL come together for you. I had a period of my life where I felt down a lot, i wouldn't say depressed, but down. I read a book by Paolo Coelho called 'the alchemist' or 'the alchymist' (unsure of how it is spelled in English). You should read it and I promise you will feel lighter at heart.

zoopc42 47M

10/30/2005 1:33 pm

I am glad to see that just guys don't have the problems. hang in there, and remember the happy times and not focus on the bad. negitive energy brings negitive results

in2allthingswet 52M
1 post
10/30/2005 10:01 pm

Judgemental people are those that have nothing better to do in there lives and waste there time on others out jealousy of others. Not to worry about what they think. It is how you truely feel about yourself that matters! Keep your chin up for things could always be worse.

pretty_blue_eyes 38F
2091 posts
11/1/2005 7:42 pm

Thank you for your comments. Very much appreciated and know that I'm not the only one that has had moments like this. I plan on checking for that book as well.

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