One position....  

pretty_blue_eyes 38F
3045 posts
8/18/2005 6:29 am

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8/11/2006 11:18 am

One position....

Wouldn't a person sometimes just lay there b/c she wasn't getting any pleasure out of sex? Not turned on, hurting, etc.? Whereas at a different time or different partner wouldn't be just lying there?

rm_forsecretsex 37M

8/18/2005 8:51 am

i hate to say this but after reading several of your last few blogs i think you are starting to fall apart on us.

wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
8/18/2005 10:20 am

but most people would speak up or guide or even encourage their partner in the right direction a different partner makes no difference to is how you communicate what you desire....


pretty_blue_eyes 38F
2091 posts
8/18/2005 11:09 am

For...what do you mean fall apart on you all? lol.

Wyvern...true, but what if the partner just really doesn't care about what I want. As in the case with husband, if its feeling good for me. I tell him yes...that feels great...oh yes..right there. Then he moves to where its there for him. Not me. Doesn't matter what I want. Sex is about his pleasure, he feels if he goes down on me. Then I'm good to go, the rest is for him. I've tried talking to him about it. He gets mad.

rm_dw573 52M
15 posts
8/18/2005 1:01 pm

that sounds is for him....GARBAGE, it's a pleasure meant for the both of you. Perhaps someone needs to give him a dose of reality concerning selfishness versus selflessness


rm_forsecretsex 37M

8/18/2005 1:49 pm

I just think you are doubting yourself and getting stressed out in the process. look at your last few blogs. you are beginging to wonder why you are on here or if this is even the right place for you to be. and you show severe doubts in your relationship. If you are that unsatisfied in your relationship then leave. no one is keeping you there. if the guy is as much of an asshole as you make him out to be. then i wouldnt stay there

NiceGuy19691 47M

8/22/2005 5:58 am

Sex is something that 2 people share. It is selfish of him to be concerned about only himself. It means the doesn't care whether you are satisfied or anyting. Lord knows that everyone wants to get off during sex,but when both of you do,it's even better. Especially after seeing and hearing your partners face durning and after their orgasm....

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