pretty_blue_eyes 38F
3045 posts
2/22/2006 1:13 pm

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In all honesty I didn't believe that anyone would particulary want to know what the developments were. However, there is at least one that wants to know. So here goes it...

One of the developments is as simple as can be...I caught him. His cell phone rang, I answered it, it was her. We got in a "who is this?" conversation, when I told her who I was, she was like "Oh really" I told her yes. She then asked me if I would have him call her back, I said well sure! Needless to say, he did say that he had been talking to her, knew it was wrong, etc. I'm still deciding on what I will do. Although I have laid out some ground work.

Another interesting development, I received a call about a possible job interview. I'm looking forward to that. Wish me luck on it!

Since I have nothing to do this weekend, I might go in search for that toy Loose always seems to think I need. Grab me a bottle of nice wine, or shoot, why not tequila or make daiquris have myself a very nice and relaxing Friday evening. lol. Any suggestions?

ByteChaser2 52M

2/22/2006 2:36 pm

Damn... I wasn't going to respond to this - not being the shining example of fidelity myself and all... But damn...

Can I make a suggestion for the weekend? Whatever you plan on doing, don't do it alone. Get you a girlfriend - boyfriend? Turn about, fair play and all that - and let it go till next week.

Loosetooth 41M
1146 posts
2/23/2006 2:27 am

Hiya. The toy thing.....well I do not reckon you need one but you are always saying you're bored and want to fill time, so why not?

The developments are indeed harsh, but not unexpected. You always knew what he was doing. However, I also understand that a human can live in a certain amount of denial whilst the truth is unconfirmed (denial or hope are the two applicable words here). On the bright side at least your trauma is reaching some kind of conclusion. What I have observed here over the past few months is a young lady frustrated that she was not more in control of her life, control is slowly returning, I hope it does not slip away again.

I reckon Bytechaser is right here. Your week has been an interesting one and I recommend that you avoid alcohol and seek solace in a friend (you can double ententre that as you please!). With the news that you have had alcohol will only unbalance you at this time of high emotion and will not help you at all (indeed it will allow you to make things worse). So although I will wish you luck for the job interview I hope you create your own and do not drink until after it. Easy.

pretty_blue_eyes 38F
2091 posts
2/23/2006 4:59 am

Okay okay okay...not the toy b/c I need one...but b/c I'm always bored. Okay!

Now as far as not being alone this weekend will be kind of hard to avoid. Best friend had a new baby, other is working, yet another is pregnant, other has b/f, one lives out of town to far to go. As far as a guy friend. I really haven't one of those. Not one is interested, so I guess its alone. Although, I will stay away from the alcohol. I do understand that.

TTigerAtty 62M

2/23/2006 9:14 am

Good luck with the job interview and with resolving in your own mind what to do about a cheating husband.

shispook 46F

2/23/2006 9:21 am

deal with however you need to x

Just remember to breathe... that last one stood me in good stead many's a time

focus on the interview, be hot shit!

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