Alot of blathering about nothing....  

pretty_blue_eyes 38F
3045 posts
1/29/2006 10:57 am

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Alot of blathering about nothing....

Have you ever noticed when you read someone's blog they go on and on about nothing. Which, I'm pretty sure mine goes on and on about nothing. Anyways...

Not much has been going on with me lately. Working, sick, staying home, working, sick, staying on. I believe its becoming a terrible habit.

Now, on to something that really burns my butt. Now I'm sure all guys are not likes this, so please don't leave me alot of comments saying how you aren't like this. I realize not all are and also that there are some moms like that as well. When you have a family, you get divorced. Ever noticed how some men act like its TERRIBLE for them to have their kids 2 days out of the previous 12? Its like they are doomed or something! What about the mom who has them all the rest of the time except the 4 weekends in the month? Now, I am not divorced, but I do have a bit of how it tastes. Should I desire to go out of town, visit my best friend, yes he will keep our child. However, he throws it in my face how he had to stay home, how he didn't get to go out, how he couldn't do anything. Ummm...hello???? He might have our child alone, for a night and a day, not even 1 time a month. I'm with our child at work, at home, at night, and almost every weekend.

I just want to tell him to step up to the plate and be a dad!

TTigerAtty 62M

1/30/2006 9:02 am

PBE - I suggest you have a serious talk about this with your husband. He needs to pitch in and help. You need a break in order to have some time to yourself or to be with your girl friends. He needs to spend time doing things with his son in order to bond. If not, he'll wake up some day and wonder why he doesn't have a good relationship with his son. Don't let this pass without explaining to your husband what he may be jeopardizing with his son and with your marriage.

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