What Are You Looking For?  

pragmaticCTcpl 61M/50F
3614 posts
7/5/2006 8:13 am

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7/6/2006 6:33 pm

What Are You Looking For?

We all are here looking for something. What is that "thing" your looking for?

An occasional lover?

A friendship?

A mistress?

A companion?

A spouse?

A distraction from reality?

The "perfect" fuck?

A date?

A forum to express your sexuality?

A way to talk about sex without ever doing it?

We started our profile because early on in our marriage my husband was curious about seeing me with another man or seeing me with another woman. He has even gone so far as to give his consent for me to have sex without him present. Hearing about my sexual adventures is exciting for him. While, in my past I've already had my fair share of MFF, FMFM, FF, MMF...my husband never had experienced it in any such sexual combinations before and he expressed that it was a huge turn on for him. Don't get me wrong. It has been a huge turn on for me too. Otherwise, I would not have done it.

We recently spoke about why we are still are here after most of our sexual fantasies have been lived out. Neither of us have any further must dos or if onlys ... I have a long term male fuck buddy or booty call whichever you prefer to call it. We have done the couple sex ..FMFM...thing more than once. I have found a very special married female friend that I have, and will again someday have sex with. We also have met and made friends with local CT-Bloggers and other A.F.F. members who we truly value and respect. These people are entertaining, witty, friendly and a great deal of fun to talk to and be with. So what is left for us? More new cocks...more new pussies... We both have agreed that we are open to the possibility for a new sexual adventure down the road. I'm the one with the say as far as all of the external marriage sex decisions goes. That was an important factor on us being here. I had way too many bad past experiences in other relationships/marriage and wanted to insure that this didn't become the sexual and relationship nightmare that it had been before for me. So for now...it is all about the blogs along with keeping an open mind about sex but we agree on one very important thing.....

We both have what we want, and need right here in each other, and that is what is most important to both of us. Otherwise, it would never work for us.

Have you found what your looking for?

rm_PurryKitty2 48M/49F
9753 posts
7/5/2006 9:39 am

We are looking for friends and "friends" to hang out with on a regular basis.

Purry {=}


pragmaticCTcpl replies on 7/6/2006 5:48 pm:
We wish you well and hope that you have either found those friends or will soon. You and Sal seem to be soooo much fun and are both very attractive people. {=}

WildWon1982 34M

7/5/2006 9:44 am

I'm the U2 song of the group (10). I came here on the rebound desperate for sex, desperate to be the swinging bachelor I always wanted to be. Obviously, that has yet to work out. But as I mentioned in my one year post, I found a whole lot of stuff that I wasn't looking for, yet I wouldn't trade it in.

pragmaticCTcpl replies on 7/6/2006 5:53 pm:
U2 singing..."But I still haven't found what I'm looking for..."

You are a great guy and some lady out there is going to one lucky ass woman..! She just doesn't know it yet. Not to mention..... you can sing too!!!

You are one of the gems we have found here on A.F.F.

fantasylover_05 62M

7/5/2006 10:06 am

I have no idea what I am looking for!! Maybe all of those things.... maybe NONE of those things????? Well okay.. I know at minimum I am looking for friendships which I have certainly found some incredible ones here... including the two of you!!

I simply must say here.... as you of course know and I will share here with others.. I have met you and Mr Prag and I was thrilled to do so and it is soo obvious you do indeed love each other and TRUST each other like no one I have ever met before!

You do seem to have one amazing relationship and I am honestly envious!

So now tell me Mrs Prag... are YOU the "perfect fuck"??? LOL LOL Sorry... that was nasty.. but I simply could not help myself! I do know Mr Prag would extoll that you are indeed that!!! He is one lucky guy!

I do value your friendship and also hope we meet again!!

pragmaticCTcpl replies on 7/6/2006 6:08 pm:
fantasylover, our dear friend...life is a journey...one that has brought wonderful people such as yourself into our world.

Mr Prag and I are not perfect. We have are ups and down...our fights and our passionate sex life. What we have, came from years of mistakes...previous marriages and relationships.

As for.. "So now tell me Mrs Prag... are YOU the "perfect" fuck???"
I guess that all depends on who you ask. I have no complaints at home. However guys before him, came and went ( no pun intended) and had no idea what the "perfect" fuck for them was. I suppose for those types of guys...they require quantity not quality. Always looking for something better....

We value you too. You are a wonderful guy..and we are happy to call you our friend.

Be well sweetie!!

rm_DarknStar 54F
2823 posts
7/5/2006 12:36 pm

No I havent found what Im looking for, and I may NEVER! Just keepin my chin up and moving On!...

pragmaticCTcpl replies on 7/6/2006 6:10 pm:
I guess you have to ask yourself this:

While you are looking...are you having a good time?

expatbrit49 62M

7/5/2006 1:41 pm

sort of... but not 100% there yet

Thank You for Your Time and Attention

pragmaticCTcpl replies on 7/6/2006 6:12 pm:
expatbrit49~ I have a question for you. What is 100%? And better yet...Do we all ever really get that 100% of what we are looking for? Kisses... {=}

firestarter665 42M/39F

7/5/2006 4:02 pm

Unfortunately, no. We have not found what we are looking for. We are here mostly for me. I am and always have been attracted to women. I want my first experience to be special, with someone I (and my husband) are attracted to (Physically and mentally). We both have found people here that we are attracted to, but they live far away.

We are patient people and know that when the time is right it will happen.

pragmaticCTcpl replies on 7/6/2006 6:15 pm:
firestarter~ I know that given the time you guys will find those special people you are looking for. It will be VERY special.

If you need a reference...just let me know..! You guys are great!

AtomicKisss 58M

7/5/2006 5:12 pm

Prag & Prag,

Hi, it's imLadyBambi (both of us). Unfortunately, for the second time AdultFriendFinder has deleted us from their system (we used to be imBambi). Why? Your guess is as good as ours.

Anyway, starting all over and building up a following for a third time isn't worth it to us. Therefore, we have decided to terminate our participation in Blogland.

In parting, we just wanted to say, "thanks" for your blogs, insight, humor, and friendship. If anyone asks about us, please let them know what happened (we are going to contact some folks in a similar manner but we can't contact everyone).

We love 'ya and may God bless,
Connie and Chuck (aka imLadyBambi, imBambi, AtomicKisss)

pragmaticCTcpl replies on 7/6/2006 6:18 pm:

I can undertand how you both are feeling but please try and keep in touch. We look forward to your writings and would miss you both sooo very much! Wishing you both happiness and love always.

docdirk 47M

7/5/2006 5:22 pm

I'm here for the free coffee and donuts!

Ah, Its you again, Your Angel Feathers and your Blood Stains...

pragmaticCTcpl replies on 7/6/2006 6:22 pm:
Doc~ I didn't realize that you were a policeman in real life..! So how often do you play with your
hand-cuffs and night stick..!

Nightguy_1961 55M
4866 posts
7/6/2006 1:39 am

I honestly don't know......thought I did, but now....


NG61....quietly slips back into the darkness...

pragmaticCTcpl replies on 7/6/2006 6:24 pm:
Look at it this way...you have met some very interesting people and written some awesome stories!!

mycin62 54F

7/6/2006 2:49 am

I have found something I WASN'T looking for, but VERY glad I found it

pragmaticCTcpl replies on 7/6/2006 6:26 pm:
That is always the way, Cin. When you're not looking you find it.

champagnechaser 41F
1639 posts
7/6/2006 5:30 am

I agree with Cyn, I have found something i wasn't searching for, and i think i'm gonna keep it

I do enjoy reading the blogs, this place is full of intelligent and open minded individuals.

pragmaticCTcpl replies on 7/6/2006 6:28 pm:
Like I said to Cin...When your NOT looking is when you find it.

The people here are cool.

NSAAddict 42F

7/6/2006 3:22 pm

When I first joined it was with the purpose of finding two FWBs for an MFM. Haven't found that yet, but what I have found is one perfect FWB, some really great guys, many incredible dear friends and a wonderful community that I now call home. I'm here for the blogs now and still searching but only halfheartedly for that MFM

pragmaticCTcpl replies on 7/6/2006 6:32 pm:
Shhhh...Don't tell anyone this is your home. They may start charging you rent. Oh wait...we pay for our profiles...I forgot.

Glad to know you, sweetie. You are one of those gems here on A.F.F.

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