Pain and Pleasure  

pragmaticCTcpl 61M/50F
3614 posts
3/30/2006 9:02 am

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4/1/2006 7:21 am

Pain and Pleasure

I was thinking about the following question.

While having sex, have you ever experienced something that hurt you? Yet, you kept on doing the act.

You see if the pain brought on pleasure. Now, I'm not talking S & M or B & D. I'm talking about, unintentional pain being inflicted by your partner. I'm talking about a teasing nibble on your clit or a playful rubbing of teeth on your cock.

Have you started off by saying, "WHOA, THAT HURTS!' and find yourself easing into saying, "MMMMM, DON'T STOP!!!"

If so, has it opened your mind up to being a little more adventurous in the bedroom and to experience different things? For example, trying anal or double penetration. Having sex with a HUGE cock till your pussy was raw and sore and feeling like you'd never walk the same way again. Then thinking back, with a smile, and saying, "Yeah, but it was so worth it."

Do we secretly, deep down, want to experience a little pain to see what all the fuss is over? I mean, there has to be something to it. Right? After all, any adult sex toy store you walk into these days has a wide variety of whips, paddles, collars, restraints, and nipple clamps. They must have some sort of demand from a customer base for this type of sexual forum. Otherwise, I'm sure it would be much harder to find.

Then, people would need to get creative. I can see it now. A woman goes to hang the clothes, she has washed, on the line...only to remember that all of her clothespins are in the bedroom. Or a man goes to walk his dog...only to remember he is still wearing the dog's collar.

John Mellencamp sang, "Come on baby make it hurt so good. Sometimes love don't feel like it should. You make it hurt so good."

After you ponder my question and are done hiding and tucking away all those handcuffs, blindfolds, gags, pussy pumps and arm binders....tell me, does it really hurt so good?

49AK 55M
1823 posts
3/30/2006 10:28 am

It is counterintuitive, but one should try it... and do it more than once. I think it is a conditioning thing, where you start to associate acertain sensation with something pleasurable. Start small...


3/30/2006 11:52 am

OHHHHH yeah, baby! singin just trying to give myself a little bit of fun yeah

just a squirrel trying to get a nut

libgemOH 56M/52F

3/30/2006 4:19 pm

OK, darlin, you tryin to tell us something here? I know what it is, it's all those girl scout cookies and the girl scout sash! -B

NSAAddict 42F

3/30/2006 6:52 pm

Great post Prag! I have to say I have found myself in that very situation... I just keep buying new clothespins


3/30/2006 9:12 pm

well....I have learned to say... Never say never.. shhhhhhhhhhhhhh But don't think I would be into the hardcore, leave a mark stuff.


a hand print on the sagging ass maybe

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pragmaticCTcpl 61M/50F

4/1/2006 6:54 am

49AK - Start small.....hmmmmmm....I already had that with my ex-husband..!

pragmaticCTcpl 61M/50F

4/1/2006 6:59 am

MOfunNOWWOW - Rock on, sister...!

pragmaticCTcpl 61M/50F

4/1/2006 7:07 am

libgemOH - Don't forget the mailman...that thing with the long pole attached to the wheel chocks that they always use...and the UPS guy...did you know there was a multiple buzz / vibrate setting on their trackers...God, I can't wait until the garbage pick-up next week...those big strong guys picking me up and throwing me around....!

pragmaticCTcpl 61M/50F

4/1/2006 7:09 am

NSAAddict - Plastic or wood..? Hinged or push-on..? Enquiring minds want to know..!

pragmaticCTcpl 61M/50F

4/1/2006 7:13 am

MRSMUFFLAND - Giving (and better yet, GETTING) hickeys are STILL one of my favorites..!

pragmaticCTcpl 61M/50F

4/1/2006 7:21 am

mzhuny - Hmmmmmmm...about that plate on the wall with the devil holding the bow & arrow...or the buzz saw edging on it....there are many possibilities in both the sporting goods and Home Depot / Lowes stores to expand your mind and pleasure..!

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