How To Finger A Woman..  

pragmaticCTcpl 61M/50F
3614 posts
8/23/2006 9:32 am

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How To Finger A Woman..

Let's face it...some guys are just better at "putting their finger on it" than others. As a bisexual woman I can definitely say that women have a better understanding of what other women want and what gets other women off. Like anything else we all learn from trial and error. It sometimes amazes me how some guys know so little about the female sexual workings. Those types of guys know one thing....fucking. Guys, also sometimes forget that our clits are just as, if not more so, sensitive than their penises. Keep that in mind the next time you have sex with a woman. Below are six ways to "finger" a woman.

I prefer method...3.

1- The Rubber
The clit is the place to be for most women. Once the clit is moist, use the tips of your index and middle fingers to rub her clit softly in circular motions. The woman's reaction will let you know that you're on to something. Continue your pace and slowly begin to increase speed. The right pace and touch is so important.

2- The Fastest Finger
This one is good if the woman is moist. Using your middle finger to go in and out of her at high speed may be beneficial in the orgasm department. Make sure your nails are clean and trimmed or you could cause unwanted pain and damage.

3- The Helping Hand
This one is juicy. This creates multiple sensations. While you use the tips of your fingers on one hand to rub her clit in a circular motion, use the index and middle fingers of the other hand to glide in and out of her vagina. Let her call the speed.

4- The G-spot Indicator
Sitting in front of her with palm facing up, when you insert your finger inside her, make a "cum here" motion. Try to tap her belly button from the inside, in effect hitting her G-spot. Start off slowly, and, judging by her reaction, keep the same pace or increase speed.

5- The Shocker
This one is only for a woman that enjoys experimenting the back door. While you're using your index and middle fingers in her vagina, stick your pinky finger in her anus. Your hand must be sideways and your palm would be facing her thigh. While you go in and out, both holes will be stimulated simultaneously.

6- The Jerk-Off
This one needs really good lubrication. With your index and middle fingers, start off by placing the tips of your fingers on either side of her clit, then slowly and gently move your fingers up and down on her clit. Keep repeating this and vary the speed.


MWWwantmore 51F

8/23/2006 9:56 am

That is so true, that woman have a better understanding

I like #3 too!

I'll have a cafe, mocha, vodka, valium latte to go please!

Good girls go to heaven.....bad girls go down!!

pragmaticCTcpl replies on 8/29/2006 7:22 am:
I agree with you, MWW. #3 seems to be popular.

fantasylover_05 62M

8/23/2006 10:17 am

Here are a couple more......

Take the clit between your thumb and forefinger and kind of "roll" it around.. much as you might do with a nipple.. you can also "stroke it" in this fashion as though jerking off a small penis

Also... with one, two or more fingers in her vagina (and preferable on her G spot LOL ).. place your thumb on her clit.. this fits and works quite easily with your plam up position

I also have found that moving my finger or thumb "back and forth across" the clit works well and at sometimes better than the circular motion

So what do you think ladies... do I pass the test?? LOL

pragmaticCTcpl replies on 8/29/2006 7:24 am:
Do you have sex on the mind or what? LOL

"UNCLE" pass.

fantasylover_05 62M

8/23/2006 10:19 am

ps... the key is truly location the clit and experimenting to find the most sensitive part of it for each woman! It is not simply a matter of rubbing her pubic area or all over her labia!!!

You will DEFINITELY know it when you find it.. for one thing it feels very destictive and secondly by her REACTION!! LOL

pragmaticCTcpl replies on 8/29/2006 7:25 am:
Reaction is everything..!

lostmydrinkagain 43F
2272 posts
8/23/2006 10:31 am

I like all of those, and yet I have a strange desire to ask for fries with that.

pragmaticCTcpl replies on 8/29/2006 7:26 am:
Would you like that "super sized"?

redmustang91 57M  
8572 posts
8/23/2006 10:45 am

Another technique some women like is heavy pressure from a thumb on the clit, slowly pressing it against the pubic bone and grinding. This move is used only after heavy stimulation and heavy lubrication. Works well to create a multiple orgasm situation. I find pulling on hood also can be fun, and back and forth works better than circular for some... Two fingers in vagina or a vibrator or dildo, while sucking and licking clit also make good magic... A fist in the vagina pressing slowly up, while pressing slowly and hard on the clit also does wonders.

pragmaticCTcpl replies on 8/29/2006 7:28 am:
redmustang~ Sounds like you know what you are doing...! Good tips. Thanks for stopping by our blog.

CongaFelixRubes 54M  
1223 posts
8/23/2006 10:48 am

Very nice. Thank you.

pragmaticCTcpl replies on 8/29/2006 7:29 am:
My pleasure...your welcome.

Thanks for stopping by our blog.

TickleMeBBW 36F

8/23/2006 10:53 am

Ohhhh yeah....#3

pragmaticCTcpl replies on 8/29/2006 7:30 am:
I'm right there with you Tickle..!

Thanks for stopping by our blog.

CB_2 51F

8/23/2006 11:25 am

Hmmm, some things I didn't know, there. I'm going to put a link up on my blog.

Blogito ergo sum.

pragmaticCTcpl replies on 8/29/2006 7:31 am:
Glad I could help.

Thanks for stopping by our blog.

quietmansect 41M
729 posts
8/23/2006 6:22 pm

Always good to get a nice lesson from those who know from being on both ends of the experience.


pragmaticCTcpl replies on 8/29/2006 7:35 am:
Thanks, quietman. Glad you enjoyed it.

docdirk 47M

8/23/2006 8:25 pm

I usually just hire someone to do this for me!

Ah, Its you again, Your Angel Feathers and your Blood Stains...

pragmaticCTcpl replies on 8/29/2006 7:36 am:
1-800-FLUFFER ????????

libgemOH 56M/52F

8/27/2006 7:15 pm

hmmmmm, they all sound good but will need to experiment to see which one I like the best....any volunteers??? -B

pragmaticCTcpl replies on 8/29/2006 7:42 am:
I see how you are....You want the sampler package..!!

Smart girl. Glad to see you again, my friend.

Garth10000004 56M
63 posts
11/23/2006 10:01 am

Wonderful stuff....ever heard of “the tap” ?. For “the tap”, the giver needs to be holding the the receiver really close. Basically she is open wide, lube well, place hand palm down just above the slit and place your finger lightly on her lips, (I use my longest finger it seems to just feel right) start to lift and drop the finger onto the slit. In no time there is more than a slit, wonderful bumps and lumps of erotic flesh begging for the tapping finger. (BE CAREFUL let the babe dictate the pressure and intensity/speed)

pragmaticCTcpl replies on 11/24/2006 1:59 pm:
The "tap" sounds like the "touch." Both good, but a tease..!

Thanks for stopping by our blog, Garth..!

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