My pussy, not my tit's  

poyntz4us 60M
162 posts
5/27/2005 6:43 pm

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My pussy, not my tit's

Play with my pussy, not my tits (re-run from this morning because it was caught up in blog space and was posted 4 hours later, so no one saw it.)

Every high school boy with more hormones than brain cells knows the order of childhood (teenage) seduction:

1 sweet talk (usually shallow at this age)
2 Hand contact and shoulder contact.
3 The kiss on the lips.
4 making out. (1st base)
5 Hand down her shirt and rub her chest.
6 Fondling her tits. (2nd base)
7 time to start removing her cloths.
8 touch her cunt.
9 finger her. (3rd base)
10 Finally fuck her. (home run)

Got to admit that most guys claimed success much farther than reality. It cracks me up remembering those high school days.

In all my life this is basically the order I have heard boasted, as well as experienced. Though I never hit the home run until my wedding night. (yup there was a time I had practicing Christian morals.)

About 12 years ago, shortly following my divorce, I was involved with a wonderful woman. We were both hurting and needed each other. Friendship grew as well as romance. So did the chemistry and eroticism.

I remember the day in my pickup talking. We started kissing, then making out. The air was so heavy. Something was going to happen. Her hands were all over me under my shirt and on my thighs.

I couldn't resist the temptation any longer. I had already pulled her shirt from her wranglers as I had been rubbing her tummy.

I slid my hand up to her braw from below. She was moaning and breathing heavy. I nudged my fingers under her braw between her tits and pulled it away to allow room for my hand. As I did so, I slid my hand side ways and rested it directly over her left breast.

With that contact she pulled away and grabbing my wrist yanking my hand out and said "no". Not my breasts.

I had crossed the line with my best friend. I felt so sick. I had betrayed our friendship.

Understanding what was going on inside of me, she lifter her hips, undid her wranglers, drew them down , took my hand in hers and firmly placed it over her pussy.

What? I thought. I didn't get it. Tits=taboo, pussy=play? This isn't following the rules of engagement. I was very confused. I froze with hand in place, trying to figure out what had just happened and where exactly I stood.

She pulled her head back so she could focus her eyes on mine and said. "What's wrong are you scared of a little pussy"? I may be confused, but I wasn't going to pass the first pussy up in over a year. So I slid her underwear to the side and started heavy petting, followed by fingering her eventually to orgasm. She was a slow cummer.

Similar nights followed. Finally I swallowed my "know it all sexually" male ego and asked. "I don't get it. Why won't you let me touch your tits, yet your pussy is totally fine"?

"I just hate to have my breasts touched, that's all".

Over the next month, we fondled fingered, stroked, got totally naked several times. But only twice had she allowed me to touch her tits. And only once did I get to kiss and suck on them. This, during an orgasm as she was out of control. After which she drew my face away and said. "Not my breasts".

Years have passed, we have made love many times, giving into carnal desires. I have learned how and when to advance to those wonderful tiny "B" cup tits. ONLY when she is so horny she is climbing the walls. Then I can go for munching her mamorys.

To this day, she is the only woman I have been with whose tits were more taboo than her pussy. I have been with several who draw there line after tits and before pussy. This is the normal. (I think)

I want to know how un-common or common the situation I described is. Some men are lips men, some are ass, men, some legs, feet, even pussy. But me? I'm a tit man. That is the biggest turn on part of the female anatomy. "I LOVE TITS"!!!!!

Do any of you women dislike breast contact? How many cringe at it?

How common is it to "offer the snatch", but protect the titties?

Please tell me where your comfort zone resides. Please tell me why? This poor confused man simply wants to understand. Is my friend unusual? I want to understand a ratio of OK's vs Taboos.

Thanks my cherished kittens. I look forward to reading your thoughts.

xoxoxo
Poyntz \8


CrackCracker 60M

5/27/2005 7:13 pm

Wow, Never known a woman who skiped the tits.

Comon ladies, I want to read your replys to this on.

cracker


rm_BigDnLady 43M/40F
1140 posts
5/27/2005 7:42 pm

I love a man to make love to my tits!!! It drives me insane!! Pinch my nipples, nibble, then bite then and make me squeal!!! My breasts are a weak spot of mine, you can have me grinding all over the bed if you tease and suck my tits right!! Love it, don't know why some women do not like it!! However everyone is different, like not everyone likes to suck dick, or eat pussy!! Don't understand it, but they exist!!

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rm_jayR63 59F
1884 posts
5/27/2005 8:30 pm

Your ladyfriend must be one in a million in that department.


poyntz4us 60M

5/27/2005 11:55 pm

jayR63: Too bad your so far away. I just read your profile.

But, being I'm bearded, it wouldn't work any way

xoxoxo
Poyntz \8


MsLoveRose 33F  
2432 posts
5/30/2005 10:23 am

thats kind of ironic....i have never had too many complaints with a guy playing...and when he cant i just show him....the ability to lick my own nipples can sometimes be a shock to some guys....anyway when i am really really aroused they get really sensitive and a non-careful person can make that sensitivity into pain. thats prob what you friend felt...who knows.....i do know women who feel the same way...mainly becaus they have had guys who dont know what they are doing(which was not in your case) so they just rather not be touched then to be touched the wrong way....

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