Different 1st meeting ideas  

poyntz4us 61M
162 posts
6/12/2005 10:34 am

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Different 1st meeting ideas

Different 1st meeting ideas

I understand the concern and need for discretion and public openness when two Internet strangers meet face to face. Especially for women. I go along with that need. That isn't a problem.

But I'm getting bored with the fast food restaurants. I always ask her where she wants to meet and that's the answer I usually get.

Just like 1st dates where I strive to make it a "wow" date, something totally different than the norm. I'd like to come up with some unique suggestions for a more exciting first encounter.

Keeping in mind that these new ideas must still allow my new friend to feel like her concerns and safety measures are covered.

What do you suggest? Can you give me some fresh ideas?

Thanks a bunch

MsLoveRose 33F  
2432 posts
6/12/2005 3:55 pm

how about a park you can walk through...thats always a good place to start...if weather permitting....lets see i like coffee houses....book stores....some place where i can relax and feel calm....even if its a shopping mall or something....if you live in a wet area...or at lease close enough to a beach or lake or river...something thats always a good spot...did i mention romantic!!!

live more, laugh often, love much

Guen1981Again 35F
53 posts
6/12/2005 4:17 pm

I personally prefer coffee shops. Barnes and Noble is a little too public for my tastes, but good. I moved from Poky the beginning of this year, and down there I'd love to meet at the CollegeMarket or the 5th Street Bagelry. Basically anywhere quiet and quaint and cute. Somewhere where you can get a good cup of coffee as well as a small bite to eat. Another idea is if you're meeting people who enjoy wine is to find a local wine tasting evening. The Grapevine in Poky had one every Monday evening. For $5, you'd get five different kinds of wine and the chance to wander and socialize. It was a great place to meet up with new people, get some alcoholic relaxation and still feel pretty comfortable.

Just my personal preferences.


poyntz4us 61M

6/12/2005 5:30 pm

Hay Guen girl. Nice to see ya. Did you answer my last email? I better go look.


SugarPussyIdaho 41F

6/13/2005 8:49 am

The best 1st meeting I ever came up with..... the lego table in the childrens' section of the library........ I took him home later.....

I've also made them wait for me in the parking lot at my work... when I'm not working until midnight. That one's not very friendly though......

It'd be fun to meet a total stranger in the bedroom sets at the furniture store........heehee......try out beds together........

I'm a bit the opposite of most cuz I'm not looking for romantic locations.... I guess it depends on your mood/interests.

FOr that matter, had I known then what I know now Poyntz, I'd have met ya at the Shooting Range.

I'm thinking that meeting someone at the golf course and spending 8 or 16 holes with a person could be a very sexy event too

Heya Guenny....... I'm gonna host again next month I think, ya gonna be around????


poyntz4us 61M

6/13/2005 9:35 am

Hay sugar:

Great to see ya. Of corse I want to see a lot more of you *Y*

Thanks for the post. I got an Idea. How about you and Guenn an I meet for lunch. We can make a yummy sandwich. happyf; happym; I'll bring the meat. /8 \8 ...\8


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