Who Am I?  

poohpooh61 55F
136 posts
6/11/2006 10:47 am

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1/12/2007 8:51 pm

Who Am I?


Sometimes I think I have a serious identity crisis. I think my life is a joke because I end up doing or with things and people which I never thought I would or which I said I would never be. Life is full of ironies....... I said I would never marry a asian but I did. I said I would travel the world before I settle down, and which I didnt....I ended up in a profession which I said I would never be in (I would like to keep this private)......I said I would never have kids and I have 2 now .... I said I would never fall in love again.... which I did again.... sigh...... ironic isnt it.... or has everything in life been predestined the day one is born?
People tells me we only live once and so go and seize the day and do what you want. If only it could be so easily done as it is being said ....

John Lennon once said " It dont matter who u love and where u love or when u love.... what matters is that u did love....." What was he trying to say?????? Can I throw caution to the wind and do what my heart desires?? But then I m not really sure what my heart desires.... I m not seeking answer here because I know no one can give me any answers except myself and meanwhile until I find the answers, my life stays status quo which could mean by the time I find the answer, I could be too entrenched or too old to do anything about it... the latter being the most likely scenario hahaha....
Thanks for listening to my heart........

rm_Blinded1969 38M
916 posts
6/12/2006 4:14 am

your welcome... like i said earlier.. do what you deem right.. f words can mean alot to you. good luck in finding "you"


yuhoo2006 55M
3 posts
6/14/2006 12:20 am

Is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved at all.

The answer to knowing what you want is to follow where hearts leads you. All things works out for those who love themselves.

There is but one life for each of us to live. At the end of it, we regrets not what we have done but what we wanted to but failed to do.


dewey4chat_153 105F

12/21/2006 8:15 am

Pooh, once again you had said something what I have seen before.

All this happened because circumstances in our life. It happened maybe because you need to fulfilled someone dream. Instead of yours. You think of other happiness instead of your own. But all had happened and we can't turn the clock backward althought we wanted so much to do so. The older we get the more we understand about ourself. Human's life had many espisode...we had to go thru all this obstacles in order to see where we are heading and wat we are.

Some are born to fight for their own life, some are left to bear their misery. I know nobody can help you to solve this problem. But...........if you have found the man who loves you and know what is your life are liked....am sure he will be there all the way to comfort you and still love you.

My only feeling goes to your kids. They are the most pitiful one. Such is life dear Pooh and I shared the feeling with you.


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