Should ......  

poohpooh61 55F
136 posts
5/27/2006 8:00 pm

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1/14/2007 2:14 pm

Should ......

I stay with the one who loves me or go to the one I love.... such a dilemma..... always.... to stay with the one who has been with u for more than 15 years or to leave with one u love for the past 8 months??????

Is it always more fortunate to be loved than to be the one who loves....

Life is short? Should we go all out and do what our heart desire?

Should i stay or should i go??????????


rm_GenuineTaste 51F
261 posts
5/27/2006 8:41 pm

Hummm!!! Risky Dilema indeed. Only you will know the ultimate conclusion on wheather or not to follow your heart ends up the best thing for you. How long have you known you weren't in love your mate of 15yrs? Or is this feeling you have just a sudden urge you feel from your present fling. How does your guy on the side feel. Would is be worth risky what you now have, for what your lustful urges are feeling. What's LOVE got to do with the big picture, on both sides. It's possible neither guy is what your inner soul seeks. Search yourself deeply. Their in your inner soul lyes your answers.

Live&Let Live...Live&Learn

mindz0ne 41M

5/28/2006 12:03 am

15 years to grow a tree. 15 years of nuturing, patience, sacrifices. 15 years of sitting by the tree, enjoying the tree. Now the tree is mature, strong, reliable, PREDICTABLE.

The hunter within us all seeks the adrenaline rush of new, fresh prey. The thrill of the hunt stays within our blood. Romeo & Juliet comes to mind. "Romeo oh Romeo, where for art thou Romeo?". Thrilling. The high of new love, new passion, new unknown... the new unknown... how exciting... hmm...........

The 'love' of 15 years or the 'love' of 8 months. Which is love then?


rm_Blinded1969 39M
916 posts
5/29/2006 4:10 am

should i stay or should i go?

GO, trust me, all good things must come to an end.
THings happen for a reason. Make full use of it.
first things first, dont keep on looking coz the ryte one will come to you...

happy blogging

goodtry 55M
918 posts
5/31/2006 8:23 pm

Hmmm, together for 15 years don't tell me there is no love and feeling in between. So trying to love another and move along with it, the question is are you going to spend another 15 years with it and move on again. What do you achieve at the end of the day.

I view love and being together two seperate things.

dewey4chat_153 106F

12/21/2006 7:46 am

Awww Pooh, your so romantic!!!

I'm not a romantic adviser but I can only say that wat I believed.

As for your question dear....I rather die a spinster then having go thru all this pain and hurt. If the man had to love me then there are many thing he had to gone thru to proof to me that he really love me. Afterall, true love never smoothly.

NthDimensions 49M
177 posts
1/14/2007 12:52 pm

flip a coin - head or tail - and you will know the answer.

I am not joking.
Try it.

Works every time.

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