Why can't men tell the truth?  

playwithme372 59F
6 posts
2/4/2006 11:57 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Why can't men tell the truth?

I have had a relationship for over 10 years on and off with the same guy. His main problem is that he cheats and can never tell the truth! Why do we stay with guys like that? What power do they have over us? I am a successful, independent woman who earns twice as much money as he does, so I don't need him financially. I have joined this site for some rendevous, cause if you can't beat 'em, join 'em. I am starved for sex. Any suggestions on how to toss this guy to the curb? Our families love us both, so it's breaking up a lot of folks. I need to be free!

rm_ewroughtik 49M

2/5/2006 12:26 pm

If you are not happy you have to get out. Just because both families love you both is reason no stay. If all the parties involved truly love you hopefully you can work that part out. If not, you have to think of your own happiness.
Wow..I'm sounding like Dr. Phil

1 post
2/5/2006 1:03 pm

There is nothing realy holding you back, just yourself, if you were truly unhappy you would have left by now,there is something you like about your arrangement.

sandcastle22 63M

2/5/2006 1:55 pm

If he can't stay faithful to you, then dump him. There are many more guys out there who would love to be with you. Just tell him you're busy next time he comes a knockin'... see how he feels about that.
Your families will always love you, that's what family is all about, unconditional love.
Start again, I did and although it has taken time, it is well worth the effort.

playwithme372 59F

2/5/2006 9:16 pm

Thank you for the advice...it's sound. I just want to be happy. Right now not looking for anything serious right away but it sure is nice to know that there are good folks out there -- thanks.

rm_Grantman007 59M
1 post
2/6/2006 6:42 pm

Playwithme you are atasty looking lady.You have no problem baby,NEED to get out of town.

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