Why pictures?  

playin6886 48M
9 posts
1/4/2006 11:30 am

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Why pictures?

Yep, that's right..an answer to a question that everyone wants to ask...
(OR why people keep passing me by...)

(1) Where is your face picture?
A: I work in a rather conservative business and while they don't mind what I do on my own free time, they do frown on anything that could draw negative publicity to the organization -- hence, no picture out for everyone to see. I have them and i do send them out, BUT only after I am sure the others can be discreet.
I always wonder about the need to see a picture..I mean if we are only playing and having fun, then we should use our imagination, etc. I understand that their could be some, shall we call them, not so mentally straight people who want to do strange things, but if you are careful...you can notice a few things without getting into trouble.
So there you have it for today...
I've given you my thoughts...now share yours...

rm_hazelblue72 44M
5 posts
1/4/2006 11:56 am

I gues I would have to agree with you it doees leave a little mystery to the game and that being part of the problem its a game to many people I personal am here to meet people not say to fond my forever after that might be setting my goals to high

Ladyblue85 58F

1/4/2006 1:21 pm

Well honey, as a woman, even if i was just looking to play sexual games (that men seem to prefer) I always insist on seeing a pic UP FRONT, simply because I know what kind of guy I am attracted to. Not necc. based on a perfect 10 and 6 pack abs... I have wasted SOOOO much time, chatting with a lot of guys, who insist they don't have pics or dont know how to post pics..... when I have gone to meet them -- NO WAY! Just as many men complain that many women here misrepresent themselves, it's probably worse for women. Come on guys, installing cam software is easy!! Wouldn't u rather just get declined online than in person?? I know it doesnt matter to most men just looking to get laid, but I have to not only click on a friend level but have some kind of attraction to a guy before I jump into bed.

redmustang91 57M  
8662 posts
1/4/2006 2:24 pm

I think a pic is needed to feel a connection to the person you are chatting with and trying to meet. Unless you feel attracted to the person it is not going to happen in the real world. If you want to cyber only you can use a pic of a model or actor I suppose for extra benefits!

Darkpassion 57F

1/4/2006 2:26 pm

Everyone is attracted to different things and I for one wouldn't meet anyone without seeing a face pic. Firstly I think it's a safety issue and secondly why waste time if you just know they are not your type.I can understand not wanting all you work collegues to see you on here but when a face pic is requested I think it should be forth coming.

playin6886 48M

1/6/2006 9:31 am

Thanks for the input...I apppreciate you all taking the time to comment..I do send pics but as I said only after I am sure things can be discreet...

ErosHunger 47M

1/23/2006 4:39 pm

I need to be discreet as I am in a very strange marriage right now. A house of cards at home. Also, in my job I deal with the public a lot and I don't want this job, which has become my life, destroyed because of some mispervieved online scandal. I had a profile on another website and had to remove it because I was getting matche dup with women I knew from work! Close call!

I'm willing to trade pics with those I trust...I may even get brave and post a pic soon anyway, but it's a HUGE risk for me.

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