Shallow?  

pinktaco315 40F
45 posts
4/25/2006 8:30 am

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Shallow?


Ok...so I got into a heated debate with a few people in the chat room. One thing a person notices about me is I speak my mind. I jokingly made a remark that "I need to be able to look at you while fucking you", meaning that I personally feel that there needs to be some physical attraction. OMG...you'd think I said the Pope is Satan or something with the reaction I got. I was called shallow and full of myself and that there is more to a person then looks. Yes...I agree with this...to a point. When I first lay eyes on someone...I'm not thinking to myself...Wow...he has a great personality! No...I'm thinking about his appearance because that is what I notice first. There are tons of sexy guys out there that are absolute assholes and wouldn't get a moment of my time. But to call me shallow? Come on....people are lying if they say that NEVER have they turned someone down based on looks. Give me a break. The only people I know that don't turn people down based on looks are hookers...and they are paid to fuck you. So how does that make me shallow? Because I actually have the guts to admit it out loud? Oh...meet my friend George...he's 400 lbs, balding, smells real bad and needs a shower....but he has a GREAT personality. Why don't you fuck him? Come on people.....lol. I just feel that there has to be some intial physical attraction for you to even consider getting to know someone. To tell yourself otherwise I think just makes you full of shit. Oh...and the person that called me shallow also said I was full of myself. I said that I feel I have the right to be picky and selective with whom I meet. I'm not going to fuck someone just for the sake of fucking. Yet that makes me full of myself and she said "so that means us ugly girls get the rejects from you?" LMAO Now if that isn't insecurity I don't know what is. EVERY person has the right to be selective...but if you feel that you're lucky for anyone to fuck you...that's your problem, not mine. And I met this person at a party....she's as much of a bitch in person as she is on chat. Oh well...I don't care much what anyone thinks or says about me. I just found this whole thing amusing.

whatulike2006 44M

4/26/2006 8:56 am

I don't think it's being shallow because you want to see who you're getting it from. I think that's one of the most intense parts of getting it on, seeing their expressions while you're both hard at it. So no you're not shallow at all. We all like what we see and go further to investigate for further interaction. I think the person who called you shallow needs to come back to reality, real soon.


frmore 70M

5/2/2006 9:13 am

I have been with women who were absolutely beautiful and terrible lovers and I have been with very average looking women who were fantastic. But I have never been able to go to bed with a woman who did not visually attract me in some way. That was what caused me to break the ice or vice versa. And by the way you have a beautiful butt.


rm_What14802 37M
1 post
6/26/2007 8:35 am

***"I need to be able to look at you while fucking you", meaning that I personally feel that there needs to be some physical attraction. OMG...you'd think I said the Pope is Satan or something with the reaction I got.***

Duh! Yes, looks are going to grab a person's attention, it is the rest of the person's attributes that determines what you do later. There was a recent study that showed most men looked at the face first when looking at nude photos. I do agree looks to make most people want to approach that person. Then, personality determines if you want to stay with that person or not.


cowboy652009 51M
27 posts
10/24/2010 6:35 am

EVERY PERSON HAS THEER OWN QUIRKS AND THAT IS FINE IT IS WHAT MAKES YOU WHO YOU ARE


MCheart86 30M

10/25/2010 4:51 pm

There is nothing wrong with how you think. I know I would not want to have sex with a woman who I was not attracted to. So don't let it get to you if people don't like what you think than they can fuck off.


djdballz 36M

1/4/2011 7:43 am

its the ugly people that get upset by that!


RoostGuavaHemin 56M

1/5/2011 6:11 am

I totally agree with you, I need to have a physical connection with any one who I may be interested with. I am very selective but that is my choice, call me shallow but it is what it is. I need to feel attractive to make that connection. Any one could have a great peronality but was hit with the ugly stick one too many times. That does not mean I going to bed them down. I find it intriguing to be with someone who physically turns me on. I rather not waste my time with someone who turns me off, if I did then that is being shallow. I am very attracted to your physical traits and your mind, which is the best turn on someone could get.


Jose_sev 43M
5 posts
1/20/2011 5:51 am

Ohh! for a long time since I saw a girl talk so loud and clear. I think the world is full of superficial people, yes. Personally I think that in this world, as you well say ... must be some physical attraction, if not, could not have anything. Happens to me I'm a kid sometimes I like to get beyond people like me admire apart from physical, to see that I can contribute positively.
Your physical is beautiful, but I like him na, I would like to know more ... amuch I think we can be good friends, you tell me?
thousand kisses beautiful


uup4it315 44M
24 posts
4/8/2011 6:23 pm

I agree with the study that men look at the face first. As far as personality goes my best friend has a great personality thus he's my best friend but I sure as Hell ain't gonna fuck him!!


MyHotKisses 51M

4/18/2011 12:03 pm

You hit the nail on the head when you said there has to be at least an initial attraction. It garners interest so that someone will look further into whether there's more commonality worth pursuing.

Granted, I have had lovers that I wasn't necessarily turned on by their initial physical appearance, but after having gotten to know them for sometime, I grew attracted to them. I have to admit that in such cases it takes a bit longer for me to "warm up".

That being said; the combination of physical and intellectual attraction is like magic to me.


heynow426 40M
6 posts
8/17/2011 9:53 pm

If no one went on looks and started there then why would have have pictures on their profiles. It is sad that someone could not admit that they also go by looks. It is funny how the lady said that she gets the ones that you reject. She was mad because she feels that she doesn't have the choice that you do. That comes down to her settling then. She should look at her choices before getting mad or jealous of someone else for choosing to do so. It is very nice that you can be yourself and express what you feel and think. It is not something you hear all the time. People can be fake like the woman in this article and say what they think others will want to hear or not say anything in fear that someone might have other thoughts and look at them differently.


viajomucho 41M
24 posts
11/14/2011 1:48 pm

It's quite clear that we could have the opportunity to choose. I think that we are one step ahead animals. But attraction is somethings appart from beauty. A great body could be very attractive, a long hair, the way that see looks at you, the hands, the smile... Attraction is also very important for me.

When I see your photos, I feel attraction. Even without seeing your face. Your body tuns me on.

75 milles of dis-attraction...


rm_NaturallyDom 59M
53 posts
4/28/2012 5:28 am

Seems to be a long time since you were active on this blog... but in case you tune in... I love looking into a womans eyes when we are fucking... I want to see the passion inside of her... and the eyes say so much... The expression on her face and the passion in her eyes when she feels my hot cum filling her... tells me how much she is truly into me and what we are doing!!


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