rude awakening  

pinkplaytoyz 50F
655 posts
2/11/2006 12:41 pm

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rude awakening

I awoke very early this morning...and encountered pure hatred.
My emotions were still somewhat jumbled from something previous, and I was not prepared to experience someone flaming my blog,Message.
I've only been the target of pure hatred once before, at work, but I was given the chance to cuff and place the inmate in segregation(or lock up). He threatened me the entire way as I escorted him. He incurred more infractions while there, and spent the remainder of his time in segregation until he was eventually transferred to another institution.

It rocked me to the foundation this time. I don't know that I've ever encountered such blackness before...Apparently I did stumble into the wrong place and set someone off...ironically so, if you consider a couple of my previous posts...He seemed to derive great pleasure from his humiliations of me. Silly me, I thought I should try to correct an error on my part, and his... But there is an absence of light in his soul.
And my soul suffered from it.
The fact that I'm alone here in my home with no one else to talk to about it has made it very hard for me to recover. So, I'm blogging it out. If we were to meet face to face, I would not be scared of him. Without sinking to his level, all I could do was ban him from my blog.


caressmewell 53F

2/11/2006 4:55 pm

Pink, I'm sorry this has happened to you. This really is not this place for such hatred.


rm_anacortes 74M
2850 posts
2/11/2006 5:04 pm

Breathe in and remember you are a GODDESS...


pinkplaytoyz 50F

2/11/2006 5:18 pm

    Quoting caressmewell:
    Pink, I'm sorry this has happened to you. This really is not this place for such hatred.
Thank you caress, it just really shocked me...I didn't expect to find it here, or stir it up.


pinkplaytoyz 50F

2/11/2006 5:46 pm

    Quoting rm_anacortes:
    Breathe in and remember you are a GODDESS...
GODDESS or not, thank you for caring.


norprin5 55M

2/11/2006 7:34 pm

taking it farther than caress did, there is NO place Anywhere for hate

*hugs* pinky

King Nor XVIII


rh20055 37M
35 posts
2/11/2006 9:16 pm

Hang in there! Some people enjoy spewing hatred, just makes them feel better. Someone needs to get a grip, instead of fuming over the net. Those people must take this way too seriously, probably fume while at work!


gnr8nrg 46M

2/11/2006 10:12 pm

Hi Pink Sorry you had such a rude awakening. Did you delete his comments? I went back a few and didn't see it. Block and delete, block and delete.


rm_molittle69 46M
117 posts
2/11/2006 10:35 pm

keep your chin up toyz...

now about this other pain issue, maybe we to explore this a little further!

hugsz mo


rm_unlistedone 65M
2718 posts
2/12/2006 1:02 am

Sorry pink... something like that shouldn't happen. Unfortunately, there are those around that think that's the way they are supposed to act. It is the exception here, not the rule.
Blogland for the largest part, is a very safe place to land. easy thoughts for you, unlisted


pinkplaytoyz 50F

2/12/2006 1:24 am

norprin-you're absolutely right!!!

rh-don't worry, I'm hanging!

qnr- I deleted his when I banned it, but it was quoted in another comment

mo-no more issues, I'm all clear now!


sweetcandyfloss 45F

2/12/2006 4:33 am

Pink, raise your head and stand tall , do not hold yourself accountable for the thought process of an individual that has no logic or reason, i read the posting in question , and i could not see anything offensive in your remark, so as to cause such a vicious
attack on your person.........Yoga , Meditation ??? i dont think this person has ever been centered in his life......a course in anger management would be better served to this individuals needs.

Big Hugs Pink
M.x


pinkplaytoyz 50F

2/12/2006 8:47 am

    Quoting sweetcandyfloss:
    Pink, raise your head and stand tall , do not hold yourself accountable for the thought process of an individual that has no logic or reason, i read the posting in question , and i could not see anything offensive in your remark, so as to cause such a vicious
    attack on your person.........Yoga , Meditation ??? i dont think this person has ever been centered in his life......a course in anger management would be better served to this individuals needs.

    Big Hugs Pink
    M.x
sweetcandyfloss- thank you so much for your words and hugs!! It was obvious to me also that his practice of yoga and meditation is a sham, no one who faithfully practices would ever behave like that...In hindsight I do see he has a serious problem, I just wish I hadn't stumbled upon it!
xoxo
Pink


Plano69 54M

2/12/2006 9:10 am

Pink, I don't see what or how anyone could hate you. You spread joy, hope, laughter... Tell us boys who he is and we'll kick his ass...
You know jerks like that do those things to hide the inadequacies they have in real life... so you're right, don't fear him. He's a loser...
Don't forget to report him to the site...

Love ya!!


expatbrit49 62M

2/12/2006 9:32 am

Agree with all above, I am sorry this happened to you, and there is no place for this, I hope you also reported him for abuse as well as banning him from your blog.

Cheer up sweetie there are a lot of people here who love you.

Thank You for Your Time and Attention


gussax 51M

2/12/2006 10:29 am

Pink: Well one of the things we all love about blogging is that we are able to open up and be ourselves, since we are blogging with people we don't know. We will post stuff that in ordinary situations we wouldn't think of saying. Unfortunately, this is a double edged sword. People will also post negative stuff that they ordinary wouldn't say. It is easy to say things when you don't know someone and there is a keyboard, computer screen, and thousand of miles between you and the person.

We also have the ying/yang factor. This type of darkness can only exist when we have the lightness that you share. You can not know love unless we also know hatred. We can not know hot unless we know cold. We can not know beauty unless we also know ugliness. Be willing to accept the hatred, for we know that the love we have will be that much more appreciated.


pinkplaytoyz 50F

2/12/2006 11:31 am

plano- I don't know what made him turn out the way he is, but I believe that once you become an adult, you are responsible for your behavior...maybe he will seek to get over whatever it is that's at the root of his anger. Thank you for your support!!!

expat-I appreciate your kind words and support!I'm much better today than yesterday

qussax-I completely agree with all that you've said, and experiencing the shock of it also gave me a greater depth of understanding/empathy with those who suffer from hate on a daily basis...we forget sometimes when it isn't our problem.Thank you for sharing your thoughts!


AGNJoe1 47M

2/12/2006 12:31 pm

Pink, although I know you could take care of yourself, people like that make me want to punch them in the face. And I'm normally a very passive guy. I'm sorry this had to happen to you.

xoxo

Joe


hooks1952 64M

2/12/2006 4:50 pm

This person is either mean or mentially deranged doll block and ignore and maybe they will just go away or be taken away.

Bless your heart.

hooks


danteszippo 52M
3891 posts
2/12/2006 10:33 pm

this guy must be a hit around the house or at social events. forget his stupidity and hate and think of us who like you.


rm_emerald6912 49M
545 posts
2/13/2006 2:07 am

Pink, sorry to hear that some lower life form has shown his true colours. Glad to hear that you have banned him, and will continue to entertain and amuse us with your fun and damn sexy writing.


benhen54 105M
2082 posts
2/13/2006 11:05 am

Hello Pink,

Just in case you did not notice, I was blasted too! And after posting what I considered a positive post (although backhanded) on BigAtitudeguy's Blog.

He took his badmouth shot on his blog, which he has the right to do. Then he made the same post on my blog as I sat trere creating it.

I really appreciate and applaud you for your response. You nailed him.

I let his post sit on my blog. However it disappeared this AM. I can only assume that the AdultFriendFinder Police removed it.

If you have not reported him(I haven't), perhaps you should. His level of hate and threats should be prohibited here!

Have a great day, Happy Valentine's, and don't let the turkeys get you down!!!!


MyRealLoverOne 46M

2/13/2006 12:15 pm

Well baby, I will give you pure love to overcome it! I love you sweetie! I will hold you tomorrow lover and make it all better.

Your Real Lover


tillerbabe 56F

2/13/2006 3:08 pm

i'm so sorry.. there are some very mean people out there! You certainly don't deserve this! I've endured meaness on here..the best you can do is keep shining the beautiful light you are!
Don't "give" to his bad energy! {=}


zorgnot2 60M

2/13/2006 3:44 pm

Wow! What an impressive flame! NOT!
You know...sometimes we can all be assholes- mostly we all have one- but that doesn't mean we need to let the asshole express itself.
I had a lot more to say but thank goodness that you can ban him,Pink, so I don't recon he's gonna hear anyone's replies!
I don't agree with word one of what he says but if there is ANY good to come of this, it's for all of us (read: ME) to realize that while this should be a light, humorous, maybe soul-searching, venting- whatever- exchange of feelings and thoughts, spoken and written words carry weight and you shouldn't point a loaded mouth (or fingers) at someone unless you've really thought things through.
I don't want to sound remotely like him, but he certainly does not sound like anyone who practices Yoga, expresses love or tries to improve themself. Maybe he should check with his therapist on the right dosage of meds.
People make mistakes but he has acted like an idiot. A mean, vicious, malicious idiot and I hope he was reported.
I'm very sorry you experienced this, Pink. You have my tender thoughts and I hope it doesn't scar you. The vast majority of us truly enjoy visiting your blog. Please continue writing.
Namaste


pinkplaytoyz 50F

2/13/2006 4:30 pm

Joe- thank you my friend, at one point I wanted to punch him in the face also, but, I try to rise above it if I can (which is easy since I'll probably never see his face!lol)

hooks -I think he's at least a little of both, and at least the rest of us know about him now, hopefully no one else will get bashed by him before he goes away--by whichever means! thank you! hugs!!

dante- yes, he probably is a real"hit", lol, I have no clue what he's doing here...or what he thinks he's doing here...

benhen- I saw you had posted a comment, but I didn't see you blasted...obviously he doesn't really want friends...he even copied and pasted his response from my blog onto his...I just hit the request review button several times (a piece) on every negative post and comment he made...thank you for sharing with us!

mylover- you always make me feel good baby!I love you too!!

tills -thank you! Hopefully, he'll just stay in his black little corner away from the rest of us until he finally sees the "light", (if thats even possible for him)hugs!!


pinkplaytoyz 50F

2/13/2006 5:00 pm

    Quoting zorgnot2:
    Wow! What an impressive flame! NOT!
    You know...sometimes we can all be assholes- mostly we all have one- but that doesn't mean we need to let the asshole express itself.
    I had a lot more to say but thank goodness that you can ban him,Pink, so I don't recon he's gonna hear anyone's replies!
    I don't agree with word one of what he says but if there is ANY good to come of this, it's for all of us (read: ME) to realize that while this should be a light, humorous, maybe soul-searching, venting- whatever- exchange of feelings and thoughts, spoken and written words carry weight and you shouldn't point a loaded mouth (or fingers) at someone unless you've really thought things through.
    I don't want to sound remotely like him, but he certainly does not sound like anyone who practices Yoga, expresses love or tries to improve themself. Maybe he should check with his therapist on the right dosage of meds.
    People make mistakes but he has acted like an idiot. A mean, vicious, malicious idiot and I hope he was reported.
    I'm very sorry you experienced this, Pink. You have my tender thoughts and I hope it doesn't scar you. The vast majority of us truly enjoy visiting your blog. Please continue writing.
    Namaste
We do have the right here to express ourselves, and vent when necessary, but most of us do it without malicious intent... and the intent is what's most damaging, not just to the victim, but to the perpetrator as well, because he/she will always reap the wrong inflicted-multiplied ... and that is the message people like that ignore! thank you zorgi, I always love what you have to say!!


Cowboy_Deluxe 38M

2/13/2006 5:08 pm

Well Pink I'm sorry to hear about this, we all have the ban power, it just sucks if we ever use it. I have not had to use it myself. There are still some of us out here that are nice and warm and friendly! Adult friendly.. Anyways have a good one.

Cowboy


rm_kelli4u2dew 41F
5220 posts
2/13/2006 9:11 pm

Honey, I know exactly how you feel.

Hugs and kisses,
Kelli


pinkplaytoyz 50F

2/13/2006 9:13 pm

    Quoting Cowboy_Deluxe:
    Well Pink I'm sorry to hear about this, we all have the ban power, it just sucks if we ever use it. I have not had to use it myself. There are still some of us out here that are nice and warm and friendly! Adult friendly.. Anyways have a good one.

    Cowboy
LOL, Thank you cowboy, the thing about that ban power is, you can undo it if you like...much the same as forgiveness--wow, we've got it all here don't we!


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