picksie 54M/51F
123 posts
10/6/2005 2:46 pm

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I had wrote somethings yesterday about people meeting on here and only one reply but thats ok.My next question is how many people feel bad afterwards if you don't hear from them for one reason or another?Are you either the one who doesn't call back or have you had another person that hasn't called back.Just wondering thats all.Sometimes I guess I like to get into peoples head to see what makes them tick.Also is it the thrill of the chase that gets us all excited and once we have them we're done.I guess i'd rather meet one special person or a couple then have a million one nighters. After all of this I think it can be rather stressful I don't know about you but I'm looking to relieve stress not take more on.So for my next question do you all think its worth it?I know my silly thinking, I guess today Im feeling kinda of let down my all of this and I'm hoping somebody can tell me something that makes it worth it.

rm_wb202 66M
3 posts
10/14/2005 10:12 am

I think many on here are here just to look, not act. I have over the years met several people, has relationships, and enjoyed each one. There have been a few problems, as is the case with most relationship situations, but overall, has been rewarding. As I get older, it always becomes more difficult to find partners, especially ones who aren't put off by age or other situations. Keep trying-it will be worth it.......oh, and would LOVE meet/greet, or one on one meeting. Your ad is appealing.


picksie 54M/51F

10/14/2005 3:46 pm

Thanks wb for the comment on this i'm glad you put some light into I will keep trying and I hope your right that it will be well worth it.

rm_Funguy82000 69M

10/15/2005 1:39 pm

Am the new guy on the block, and I have gotten a few replies and it looks promising. Well, check in later with your blog's and keep you informed.

I have notice that the younger that you are the more scatter brained some people are.


picksie 54M/51F

10/16/2005 10:18 am

thanks funguy for the input I hope everything works out for you. Yes please let me know. I'm more disappointed then I was on this site. Like Wb said I think most people just want to look at the pics and see how many people they can get on there friends list. Thanks again for the reply.

XysmaSkimsOsier 54M
2 posts
10/29/2005 4:46 am

It seems like many people really get off on that rush you feel when you're with somebody for the first time. Then it seems to feel stale to them after that. I think as people get to know eachother and find eachothers "hot buttons" and know when to push them, things get better and better.

As far as the stress. I agree 100%. I need stress relievers. What nobody needs is more stress.


picksie 54M/51F

10/29/2005 7:34 am

Hi Dan, thanks for the reply on that but I'm not sure if I total agree with you on that about...I think if your with that person all the time you do get to know where there hot buttons are but when your just meeting somebody once in awhile for sex I don't think that person turely cares where they are maybe on the first visit lets say but I think after that its more of a rush kind of thing lets do it and get it over at least thats been my experience. It hadn't got better. Then you have lets say some people on here that rush into it to quickly and don't really find out what that other person wants and dislikes are just as long as there getting sex it doesnt matter we'll call them the smooth talkers those people I totally do not care for the ones who want to hook up right now after talking to them once...Don't get me wrong i'm not looking for love or anything on here but I am looking for some sort of friendship I guess along with the sex and I hope I do get to the experience the better and better part of getting to know somebody better..I guess this went totally in a complete different sorry...again thanks Dan

rm_CpuDocMi 67M
38 posts
11/13/2005 2:26 pm

picksie... (BTW. . I enjoyed our chat today. Hope to have more)

Friendship then sex?....or sex then friendship?

I have to vote for #1. I don't have to be in love with someone before we have sex, but who would want to go to bed with someone they don't even know or care about. That is just silly. Sex should be something that goes WITH, not stands by itself. I guess that divides this site. There are some here who's attitude is like Ferret1947 above..."Let's hook up!!!", and others, like the majority of the posters in this thread, who encourge you and open a little of themselves to us.

So, don't give up. The disapointments focus us. That they work at all tells us the next one will work better.

picksie 54M/51F

11/13/2005 5:50 pm

Hi CpuDocMi, yes I enjoyed our chat also..I haven't give up yet near it but not completely.Maybe I'm just to hard on myself I'm not sure what I'm looking for I guess, as you can probably tell.When I find it I'll know. Thanks for the chat and I will chat with you soon.

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