ps I forgot to mention  

photoslayme 50M
56 posts
5/19/2006 4:43 am

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6/8/2006 4:32 am

ps I forgot to mention

Further detail for my last blog, Passionate flames .

I forgot to mention that she also lives 1372 kms away from me in Brisbane.

Could I make it anymore difficult if I tried?

wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
5/19/2006 11:02 pm

oh tricky.....been reading...sometimes you need to stop and make a decision....

what is your marriage worth to you?

are you saying

I deserve more I deserve to be happy

or are you saying this fleeting pleasure is not worth my marriage????

thats the difference if you are saying the later I would advise

ditch the friend take a month or so work on your marriage it has its rewards....then start fresh but don't follow tempation if you arent willing to pay the price of doing so....


photoslayme 50M

5/20/2006 8:49 am

I know where you are coming from but I feel it has gone on too long.
I have endured more than my share of abuse and hurt over the last few years and I think I am at the end of my tether.
How much more can I take until it becomes bitter and hurts more than it needs to. We have a little girl to consider.
Should we stay together for her or just say enough is enough.
It may be a fleeting pleasure but it is the fact that I feel this way not with who that matters.
I will consider everything before I decide and it may take a while.

wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
5/21/2006 2:36 pm

you just answered the questions....

your marriage is already over

even with children

knowing your marriage is over work on ending it amicably rather than going out with a bang like boney did....

thats the best advice I can give


photoslayme 50M

5/22/2006 4:29 am

And that is what I am trying to do and make her think it was her decision.
I am not being nasty just trying to work an angle.
It's not that I don't want to make the decision but with her emotional state it will be better for her to think that she left me and not the other way round.

wyvernrose 38F
3895 posts
5/23/2006 2:44 pm

fair enough


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