How are you supposed to compete?  

phillyfan76 40M
5 posts
6/22/2005 10:50 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

How are you supposed to compete?

I introduced a female friend of mine to this site. She signed on and has been playing around with everything. She doesn't take much of it seriously, but says it is a lot of fun. I have to agree with her. but it is so funny... She has been registered for (seriously) no longer than 3 days and already she has had ten times more hits than I have in two weeks. I know this because she showed me. It makes me wonder about what I am doing on this site... She showed me one of her searches (I wanted to see how my profile stacked against the other guys) and I think she got through roughly 300 gold member guys before she got to me (as a silver member). Most of these guys pictures were of their dicks and more than I thought showed pictures of their fat naked full-body nastiness. Now I know that most guys are on here for one reason (because I am one of them), but even if I upgraded to gold member status, showed all my fun parts, and describe myself as the perfect guy, I still don't think I would get much response. My friend has to delete most of the emails she gets on a daily basis because she can't read all of them and she doesn't want them to collect. And I on the other hand, have to throw my hat into that mix because most of the women on here (that fit my profile, anyway) are only standard members and can't contact me without me contacting them first. So there you have it - I can upgrade to gold, show my dick, allow standard members to view my profile, give the ultimate description of myself, and pray that I don't get deleted before I even get looked at for the low low cost of whatever that will cost me - and I should meet the fuck of my life. But hey, my friend is having a lot of fun...

IPman 60M
313 posts
6/22/2005 12:28 pm

Hey Phillyfan76.... Will T.O. return?
Or r u more into the sixers?
In which case will Andrew Tony help the team?

PS: The deck is stacked against guys on this site... its all about the ladies... LOL

magicfxs 58M

6/22/2005 12:38 pm

Your right, I not getting out my wallet. If some gal wants to contact me great.

TheDodger8 45M

6/22/2005 2:56 pm

I feel your pain man. Some of us more...respectable men have an uphill battle.. Good luck. I assume your from philly? So if I happen upon anyone from around there.. I shall send them your way. Stay cool.

sxyteachr30 46F

6/27/2005 10:38 am

Here's the reason Philly, guys are so much more open about their sexual desires than women are.That's unfortunate for some- cause I've found that the emails just keep coming for me. Women generally just tend to be much more cautious than men. We have a safety issue to deal with that men don't normally need to worry about. I'm not a trophy wife- but I'm attractive, and found the pool of interested men to be quite large.Don't get me wrong- there are a lot that contact me who are complete opposites of what I'm looking for- hence the screening process that I go thru almost daily. But after chatting with a few- I manage to find a couple who turn me on and offer what I'm looking for. I have my husband to thank for the liberation- he's very open about his fantasies and just kept putting it out there for me to take. AFter the first experience, I'm hooked. Give me sex- morning noon and night!
I say stay in there as a silver- I don't think you'll have much better luck as a gold. I tend to shy away from the standards- but as long as your willing to dish out a little cash for the membership-you're cool. Interested women are out here- we just need a little coaxing now and then....have fun!

rm_discreetnsj 50M
1 post
7/7/2005 5:29 pm

its definately an uphill battle for guys on here philly.I've been lucky to meet some really great lady friends on here and most of them tell me the same thing:its the real asshole guys on here who lie about themselves in thier profiles who ruin it for everyone else.

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