are you as surprised as I am?  

patsam69 51M/51F
704 posts
5/9/2005 1:43 pm

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are you as surprised as I am?

I have noticed that there are quite a few young ones on this site. I can say young ones being the old lady about to be 40 in 6 months , that I am.

When I was 18 , I did think about sex. But I more thought about if my boyfriend loved me. If we had a future together. Not who I could score with on Saturday night! Now I know that the internet has made things a bit different than they were when I was that young , oh so long ago. (although it doesn't feel that long ago to me!)
But, I still don't think at 18 I would have been on a sex site. It kind of saddens me that these young women and young men are just looking to give it away. What do you think?

LimesMastsAvoid 70M
456 posts
5/9/2005 3:59 pm

I remember Eisenhower as President, and he gave nothing away. When Hippies and the Flower Children arrived, I thought I died and went to heaven ! Now, I'm working on "My Last Fantasy"...

LustGoddess2469 50F  
2453 posts
5/9/2005 4:57 pm

I was just thinking about this the other day. It truly is sad that they feel they have to join a sex site at such a young age when they should be out partying with friends and having a grand old time, like we did when we were 18 or 19. When I was that age, I was way too busy partying with the Coasties, Marines and Army guys from the base to be bothered with joining some sex site, if one had been available. We're becoming so dependent upon technology that it's frightening.


rm_lkndllsgrl 37F
67 posts
5/9/2005 5:15 pm

I do have to say it surprises me that a 19 year old would put an add in the personals section. I am only 25, and yes, I am on a sex site. I am not looking to "give it away" though. Just looking to find some potentials. You never know what lies around every corner, so why not shop around??


patsam69 51M/51F

5/9/2005 7:14 pm are really showing your age with those comments!

patsam69 51M/51F

5/9/2005 7:15 pm is so is not always a good thing.

love your blog by the way. I relate to many things that you write!

teachhotnique 52M

5/9/2005 7:48 pm

They start in high school and then it moves into young adulthood. It is sad really that they can't meet people the old fashioned way, you know, in bars.

Apolybear 54M

5/10/2005 8:56 am

Hey Sam. You say some of the most surprising things sometimes. “It kind of saddens me that these young women and young men are just looking to give it away. What do you think?”

You aren’t advocating teen prostitution I hope? lol. If teens stop giving it away, there’s going to be a lot of virgins heading into their twenties…

Oh, oh, oh, you mean young people shouldn’t have casual sex. You’ll be shocked and appalled to learn that I’m all in favor of casual sex with precautions. As long as everyone understands that’s what it is.

I’m teasing… (I hear that foot tapping…lol)

patsam69 51M/51F

5/10/2005 8:30 pm

hey...I am in favor of casual sex...I am on AdultFriendFinder...aren't I? BUT>>>>Not teenagers. I don't believe there are many 20 year old virgins...I just would hope they are doing it with someone who they know!

and I don't tap my foot..But I did have a look of surprise on my face!!!

QuashFugitKnurl 59M

5/12/2005 10:27 pm

It's funny, but until I was 21 I had only had sex with two women, that is, two out of the three girlfriends I had had until then. I thought I would only have sex with people I loved, and therefore looking for sex partners in a site like this would have been unthinkable. But then, as I grew older I started feeling I was really missing out. I think specially because my wife has a very low sex drive, so I decided that I would explore what is out there and that is why I joined AdultFriendFinder.

Miguel Angel

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