are you as surprised as I am?  

patsam69 51M/51F
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5/9/2005 1:43 pm

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are you as surprised as I am?

I have noticed that there are quite a few young ones on this site. I can say young ones being the old lady about to be 40 in 6 months , that I am.

When I was 18 , I did think about sex. But I more thought about if my boyfriend loved me. If we had a future together. Not who I could score with on Saturday night! Now I know that the internet has made things a bit different than they were when I was that young , oh so long ago. (although it doesn't feel that long ago to me!)
But, I still don't think at 18 I would have been on a sex site. It kind of saddens me that these young women and young men are just looking to give it away. What do you think?

wine23 30F

5/9/2005 2:19 pm

It is saddening actually to us too but looking at the matter at our point of view, it is very different. The young boys our age now are so immature, retarded and very uncool! I mean, they are not for me, (personally speaking) and it happens there are sexy men over here. We may not look for the same things but we work around it and get to a compromise. So in the end, u dont have to get sad about anything. But just feel sorry for us who have to look for what we want in different places than u did back then. But i guess the important thing is that u have what u wanted or if not, u satisfied with what u have.
Now how is that, hmm?

patsam69 51M/51F

5/9/2005 7:13 pm

wine23...I didn't mean to insult anyone. I am sorry if I did. Boys were immature when I was young also. I just had to weed through the idiots.

I was talking more about the young girls who are searching for one night stands. It happens to all of us at that age...but most of my friends when I was young, were not searching for them. When it happened we were upset. I guess times change. But for some reason that doesn't always help. Good luck to you. I hope you find the man of your dreams!

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