The first guy.  

patsam69 51M/51F
704 posts
8/11/2005 9:40 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

The first guy.

I saw him again. He didn't see me...walked past me quite quickly..Thank goodness...but I knew it was him. the first man my husband and I had a 3some with. It was April of 2004. We had just joined AdultFriendFinder. He was one of the first men to contact us, and he happened to live close by. We met and did have sex. We had a good time, but have not spoken much since. He had told me afterwards, that it was a good experience for him, but he was not very comfortable in the 3 some situation. He had never done it previous to us. I have fond memories of the time we met. He did e mail me about 6 months ago or so ago with a new profile name...but I just responded generically because I had found out from a friend that he was now engaged...and I don't go there. I saw him about 3 months ago at the grocery store. I think he saw me then but didnt say anything..and was I happy cause I look as I did today. Just from the gym. Hair in a ponytail, hardly any makeup and baggy, baggy old tshirt and shorts. Why can you never run into someone you have slept with when you are freshly made up and hair looking gorgeous? GEEZ...murphy's law, I guess. What would I have said anyway? Any luck cheating on that woman you are engaged to? LOL. I have never run into anyone else we have met...but they all live a little further away.

Have any of you just happened to bump into someone you met on here? Was it awkward? No problem?

Philosophy_N_Sex 49M/47F

8/11/2005 12:34 pm

So far not yet,and hope it stays that way. awkward awkward awkward.

ByteChaser2 53M

8/11/2005 1:50 pm

Ohhhh every couple of weeks for lunch or a nooner...

Seriously... not the way you mean it here.

play4fun3642 54M/48F

8/11/2005 8:30 pm

no Sam..... I always run into a "friends" former swing partner..... lol...... go figure

AltumHunksUnite 53M

8/13/2005 9:49 am

I've had one old web programming friend and one former desktop publishing customer find me on this site. Two couples here at work also have memberships... who couple knows I know and one couple doesn't.

The couple that doesn't know I know used to spend time with a young lady I met from this site sometime in May. Oh, the stories I was told about them.

Let me drive. I like the view

papyrina 51F
21133 posts
8/14/2005 6:32 am

Not from here but i bumped into my ex fiance years after the break up in the super market,the usual stilted hi,how are you,he was with a gorgous creature and me,scruffy jeam
ns,over sized tshirt,no make up and not even my wedding band,i looked worse than i ever did when i was him, sods law and i really wanted to bump into him looking good not like a bloody slobO well,i now dress up to go super market shopping

I'm a

i'm here to stay

LustGoddess2469 50F  
2453 posts
8/16/2005 6:07 pm

Well, I haven't bumped into any of them in person, yet. But last weekend I was coming home from a date and it was late - around 2 a.m. I ended up behind a severely intoxicated driver who was all over the damn highway, and almost crashed into the ditch on the shoulder twice. I called 911 to report it, because I was sure this person was going to either kill himself/herself and/or some poor innocent person. The 911 operator connects me to the local State Police barracks, and a man answers the phone: "State Police - this is a recorded line - Trooper "Smith" (yeah, that's not his real name for those of you that may be wondering) speaking." I almost dropped my cell phone. LOL! I answered, "'Bob?' (again, not his real name). There was an awkward second of silence, then he answered "Yes?". I laughed and said "This is 'Jenn' (yep, you guessed it - not my real name lol)." "Oh, wow! How are you?" he replied. I just laughed again and said I was fine, and that I was behind a drunk driver. To make a long story short, we had met back in February and he had ended up being a one-night stand (which, by the way, I absolutely hate), but he was all happy and friendly on the phone like nothing at all had happened. Too bad, too - he was a hottie.

Oh, and as soon as a cop caught up to us on the highway and pulled in behind the drunk, he/she suddenly turned sober as a judge. Ugh! It's amazing what adrenaline can do for you. I don't know if they ever pulled him/her over, but I sure as hell hope so.


patsam69 51M/51F

8/17/2005 7:15 pm

papy...I try to never go out looking horrid...but ya can't be gorgeous all of the time!! is funny! No future dates made with the hot cop?

pakrat1 49M/48F
33 posts
10/7/2005 10:12 am

haven't meet anyone from AdultFriendFinder yet but hope too soon....would love to meet one of the guys from the second encounter but he was moving out of state soon after we were together for work

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