Orgasm dream  

patsam69 51M/51F
704 posts
9/27/2005 7:14 am

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Orgasm dream

Last night I had this dream where I wanted to masturbate, but could not find a place to do it. I was in a house that was unknown to me. The room that I was in had doors that seemed to be everywhere, and apparently they did not close because I did not try to close them in my dream. I was just frustrated that someone may see me through the doors, and I did not want to get caught. I walked to the next room, but the same thing doors. eventually I had built myself into a mild frenzy and I touched myself, and heard someone approaching, so I stopped and walked away, but as I did the friction of my legs as I was walking made me orgasm. weird, huh? O.k. you may say no...BUT this adds to my Unable to dreams. Let me explain.
For years I have had dreams where I need to urinate quite badly, but every toilet I get to is either disgustingly dirty, or there is no door on the stall or the stall is very low so people could see over it...and there are always people around.
My other unable to dream is.....I need to take a shower, but someone is using the shower, or there is a glass wall and people can see in, or there is no curtain and people can see in. and again...people all around. sometimes there are people that I know in the dream...sometimes strangers. But the scenario is the same....people will I cannot do what I desperately need to do.
Any thoughts on my psychosis? LOL. I am sure many of you have a thought, so please share and please , as always, be honest. Thanks!

redmustang91 57M  
8657 posts
9/27/2005 7:55 am

sounds frustrating! I think it means you need more sex. Try it twice a day and see if the dreams disappear. If not, you will still have more sex!

maybebaby33 45M/45F

9/27/2005 8:15 am

Your subconcious (sp?) mind may be rebelling against your naturally voyeuristic tendencies. You have very nice posted pics here, yet you dream of being shy. Go figure.

Just my version of dime store psychology and post-modern psycho babble. I need a cup of coffee...

Charlotte_baby 37F
1 post
9/27/2005 8:22 am

In my opinion, I think you are just sexually deprived

AltumHunksUnite 53M

9/27/2005 8:49 am

You could consult with a book on dream interpretation.

My untrained opinion is that you think you're being crowded, or that the world is getting more crowded. Still I think one part of your dreams is true... with the exception of the ones at the Disney parks, many public toilets are just downright scary.

Let me drive. I like the view

Philosophy_N_Sex 49M/47F

9/27/2005 1:03 pm

Yaaay Patnsam wrote something woo hoo happy day

I agree with Cleavis, get a book. Your might feel life is blocking you from things!

rm_FreeLove999 46F
16127 posts
9/27/2005 1:26 pm

your inability always seems to be related to other people being around. perhaps --- flying guess here --- you feel you cannot be yourself when you are with other people? it also seems that you lack privacy? a third possibility is related to your previous blog on guilty conscience -- you are afraid of what others might think?

[blog freelove999]

smackyman 46M
3845 posts
9/27/2005 7:43 pm

I agree with the general thought that people can see what you are doing in your dreams - but I don't believe you mind is focusing on the people that you are involved with. More so everyday society seeing what you are up to and subconciously you are afraid that you would be judged harshly by society. Like what FreeLove999 suggested. Maybe I'm just reading too much into your last post about the woman at the gym.
By the way, missed being able to read anything in you blog for the last few weeks. (Same sentiment as Philosophy N Sex - less sarcasm!*grin*)

TheQuietGuy2005 54M
2386 posts
9/27/2005 10:03 pm

Trust me, you wouldn't want to know!

cram64 52M
17 posts
9/28/2005 2:40 am

hmmmm...everytime i have a dream about having to urinate, it means i had better WAKE UP because i am about to do it in bed. my subconsious is warning me....

Marc, who shouldn't have had that last beer.

patsam69 51M/51F

9/28/2005 4:00 am

redmustang....the orgasm dream probably did mean i need some more sex, as I usually only dream of sex when hubby and I don;t have as much time for it. But I don't think sex is related to my other dreams.

maybebaby....that is the funny thing, I am NOT voyueristic. sure, I post my naked self on line...but obody knows who you really are on here.

charlotte...same as redmustang

patsam69 51M/51F

9/28/2005 4:06 am

Cleavis....I may try the book thing...have wanted to for years. Have been having these dreams forever!

P N S ...Awwww did you miss me? have been super busy and blogging had to take a back seat. It gets way too time consuming.

Freelove.....well, I definitely lack privacy! those 3 young kids did it to me! LOL I don't think it has to do with my last blog as I have had the dreams for many many years....way before I started on the interntet. and I am ususally myself around other people. I dont believe in being a gets u nowhere in the end.

patsam69 51M/51F

9/28/2005 4:09 am think P N S was being sacrastic? I am gonna have to get him for that! I KNOW I would be judged harshly by society if they knew what Iwas up to. But, I have been having these dreams for many year...way before my secret internet life. are probably right!

rm_vixenflir 58M
295 posts
9/28/2005 6:43 am

I agree with freelove - I think you are affraid of what others will'll find that as you get a bit older, you stop giving a crap what others think of you because its what you think of yourself that counts and then life becomes more fun (and your case, orgasms will flow more freely!)Wait and see!

beewulf9 38M

9/28/2005 1:50 pm

You ever feel that you don't want others to see intimate details in your life?

patsam69 51M/51F

9/28/2005 2:22 pm are funny. as a matter of fact, whenever I have the ..I can't find a bathroom that is good enough dream.. I ususally wake up and have to go REALLLLLY bad!

patsam69 51M/51F

9/28/2005 2:28 pm

vixenflir.....I have been working on that over the past few years....and am about to hit 40, and I need to care about what I think ...not so much what others do. I am making progress!

beewulf9...thanks for stopping by...of course I do! only my husband and a friend of mine and her hubby know that we are on AdultFriendFinder. I am a pretty open and honest person...but there are certain things I wouldnt want people to know.

rm_1hotwahine 63F
21091 posts
9/28/2005 5:06 pm

They all have to do with your physical body being seen in a way that is not considered "right" to be seen by others. So what the others said, but with a specific physical self focus.

And yeah, for me...what cram said.

Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]

hotiowastud2 53M

9/28/2005 7:36 pm

Hmmmm I wonder what my running around in my underwear dream means?

patsam69 51M/51F

9/30/2005 4:11 am

1hotwahine.....hmmm...interesting...I have always had a poor body self image. My Dad told me I was fat frome the time I was about 9 years old, and I was not fat then...but I am now! He was right in the long run...I told him that I wish he would have told me constantly that I was rich,,,maybe that would have come true!!

hotiowastud2.......THAT is a whole new can of worms!

rm_gent258 68M
486 posts
9/30/2005 2:51 pm

I have always loved horror movies. Sometimes, I have nightmares about creatures or monsters. One reoccurring dream is that a monster is after me, but I can't move. I try to run but I can' gets closer and closer and closer...Then, I wake up in a cold sweat. In another dream, I meet a beautiful young woman. We are attracted to each other and want to have sex,but everywhere we go there is someone in the room...these are frustration dreams. I wonder what Freud would make of them?

bigredeatsbush 51M/50F

9/30/2005 4:17 pm

Hubby 1/2 here - I have the "can't pee" dream when I'm sleeping and the bladder pressure is trying to wake me up. If that holds true for the "can't orgasm" dream, that means you must be squeezing yourself close to orgasm in your sleep. Ergo, needs/wants more sex. I don't think that means your not getting enough, I think it just means you want more.

Dv8_LA 36G
9 posts
9/30/2005 8:16 pm

Looks like you blow brains very well

MillsShipsGayly 51M

10/2/2005 7:48 am

I think it means .................. nothing


It could mean ..................... everything


Most likely, it is ................ a sign

THAT you want attention and this place is just the spot for THAT

pakrat1 49M/48F
33 posts
10/7/2005 11:35 am

did you have these dreams before the woman at the gym..just wondering if your mind is still concerned about someone seeing and watching you....just a thought cause I know nothing about other thing...I gotta say that I love your blogs...have spent many hours reading them and repling to a few since finding them the other keep blogging and I'll keep reading them

rm_Moonboy25 40F

10/10/2005 9:05 am

I think you are sexually depressed .you need it more may be there is a barrier to that .
Hope u will figure it out more accurately

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