Maybe I do miss it a little  

patsam69 51M/51F
704 posts
10/12/2005 6:28 am

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Maybe I do miss it a little

My husband periodically hints at me that I miss swinging. I adamantly deny that I do, because that is the truth. I mean really...I no longer have to feel as insecure about my body. I don't have to worry about shaving EVERY hair off. I don't have to worry if my nail polish is chipped or if my hair looks perfect for meeting that "new" guy. It was getting tiring. It was getting very frustrating trying to meet honest men for our unique situation also. These things I do not miss.
Last night, for some reason, I signed into yahoo. I have not chat in there in weeks. Immediately 2 guys that I chat with come on. One of them we met and had a 3some with about a year ago. Really great, nice guy. We chat...he compliments me. We chat..he wants to meet again. I remind him that we stopped swinging. He says I never told him...but I know that I did. He is bummed about this. anyway, we chat for about an hour and I have to say...that is what I miss.....being complimented like that. Now....Lots of guys compliment you when you are chatting cause they want to get in your pants. But he was in my pants already....and he liked it and wants to go back.
The other man lives very local and wants to meet. I told him we stopped but he still likes to chat with me because we get along well. He likes my personality as well. As a woman, these things are nice to hear. Especially as a woman who does not think she is all that. My self esteem has never topped the to chat with men who actually like you is nice.
Yes, my husband likes me, loves me, thinks I am sexy. That is wonderful also. That we have been together for just about 20 years and he still wants me is awesome. But hearing compliments from others is nice. That is what I miss a little bit.

Have a great day and happy blogging!

Philosophy_N_Sex 49M/47F

10/12/2005 11:48 am

well I do admit you are pretty cool for a Flordia chick and all

AltumHunksUnite 53M

10/12/2005 1:25 pm

In a world where most marriages end after five or six years, for you two to be together for dang near TWENTY years and STILL wanting each other deserves a standing ovation.

Stands and ovates.

Let me drive. I like the view

hotiowastud2 53M

10/12/2005 3:40 pm

Compliments from other people definately put a spring in your step. But if you've been in bed, well that should kill all insecurity. Truthfully, I probably won't stray/swing because of my inserurities about my body. Now if I drop those 20 lbs I should, look out!

ByteChaser2 52M

10/12/2005 4:47 pm

20 years is a long time. I just went 20 with the Battle-Axe and in my perception of my own circumstances, you two have accomplished a wonderous feat!

Good on ya's both!

Oh, and I still think your boobs are SESSAY!

smackyman 46M
3845 posts
10/12/2005 11:23 pm

My only point of reference for you is what I've read here. And I like what I've read about you as a person. And then there is that damn pic of yours that just distracts the hell out of me...(I had to type that sentence three times because I was still thinking 'bout it!)Who hoo!(take that as a compliment please!)

patsam69 51M/51F

10/13/2005 5:52 am guys are so sweet. (maybe I should have written youz guyzs cause I am originally a newyorker ) I do appreciate all of your well wishes. I know that 20 years is a long time...but it has flown by for us. We feel so lucky to have this relationship when so many cannot sustain after only 5 years. I have come to appreciate it more after reading so many blogs on here about infidelity. It really saddens me that so many people are unhappy.

rm_1hotwahine 63F
21091 posts
10/13/2005 10:43 am

Yeah, I think we humans have a SONAR-like aspect to us. We need to bounce off things now and then. (I meant it literally, but I guess it's true figuratively as well, ha)

Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]

Philosophy_N_Sex 49M/47F

10/13/2005 12:14 pm

SInce you do not swing anymore do you still teeter totter and what about merry go round?/

patsam69 51M/51F

10/17/2005 4:05 am

why P N S...are you flirting with me? LOL

Philosophy_N_Sex 49M/47F

10/20/2005 8:51 pm

I am so old I do not rememebr how to flirt...

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