It's so sad....  

patsam69 51M/51F
704 posts
4/4/2005 6:51 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

It's so sad....

today I didn't feel i slept a bit after the kids went to school, and then I read some blogs. I am reading some of the male blogs. Some interesting, some not as much. I read a few though that kind of upset me. Men talking about the great sex they had with their wives. Explicit detail of their encounter. Seems like they love them...But then...another post in their blog about a woman they want to fuck. HMMM I think...this is a male blog ..not a couples blog. So I look at the mans profile. Sure enough...married and looking for a little extra on the side. Why, I ask? If you are getting this great mind blowing sex at home that you write about in your blog...Why do u need more on the side?

I think the internet has made cheating so freaking easy its not funny. The divorce rate is something like 60 percent. I can ALMOST understand when the marraige is sexless. U are getting nothing that u need physically. But when you are...when is enough enough? I wonder how these men would feel if they found their wifes profile that says...Need discretion..not getting enough at home...I bet that would piss them off greatly. A huge blow to the ego. We have sex with each other..why does she need more?? Well thats how she will feel when she finds out..not to mention betrayed and deeply hurt. How about approaching her about swinging?
tell her its a fantasy. Tell her how sexy it would be to see her with another man. Try that. stop cheating.

Apolybear 54M

4/14/2005 9:20 pm

Women need to understand that men are biologically driven to want multiple partners and crave sex. It's all the testosterone They can learn to be monogamous, but it's really not a natural way for most men to live. That's why they can love their wives and still have affairs. To them, it's not really cheating because it doesn't mean anything.

patsam69 51M/51F

4/15/2005 12:17 pm

well...Its cheating to the woman!!! I know you have a different lifestyle than most, and I do respect that. It works for you and that is wonderful. But to the woman, and even the men, who are being deceived,,,It is horrible.

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