I think It might be possible!  

patsam69 51M/51F
704 posts
9/8/2005 8:21 am

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I think It might be possible!

News flash! Last night I ALMOST had an orgasm during intercourse! Yes..yes...so what you say. But for me , that would be a milestone. It has only happened to me about 3 times in my 22 years of having sex. It doesn't bother me a great deal, but it would be nice if it happened occasionally. Actually, I could never cum with ANYTHING in me. Whether it be penis, finger or toy. Even with clit stimulation. If I was close to cumming and something went in....I didn't get off! But over the past year, that has been changing. I have been orgasming with fingers in and clit stimulation. That alone was pretty exciting. Then , over the past couple of months...I have been able to cum twice in a few minutes. THAT hardly ever happened before. And let me tell you, It is quite nice. .
Now last night...hubby and I were having sex and he was on top of me stroking me with his cock very slowly at the opening of my pussy. MMMM...It felt amazing. He wanted to pick up the tempo, but I asked him to keep going the way he was. I felt like I was on the edge of an orgasm. Just hanging there. It was bliss. I knew he was hanging too...I dared not look at him too directly, and I definitely tried not to moan cause I didn't want him to cum! We did this for probalby 30 or 40 minutes. I would feel like I was going to cum, and then the feeling would go and then return over and over again. I knew my husband wanted to cum and I didn't know if he could last much longer...so I finally rubbed my clit a little and I came with his cock in me! I had him stay really still and he said he could feel me pulsing around him. It was awesome!

I know most women say they orgasm during intercourse, but I have read that actually only 20 percent do. Well, for me, it is something I hope to achieve eventually...and I will have fun getting there!

bigredeatsbush 51M/50F

9/8/2005 10:11 am

I am with you, I am hoping some day to achieve that orgasm during sex. We have recently found my G-spot, and that is incredible itself, but I have always wanted to go off with my husband in me and no rubbing of the clit. 20% is a low number, I guess I hope to be one of those numbers.

patsam69 51M/51F

9/8/2005 11:30 am

Big red....Congrats on the G spot find! I even have a book and am not sure where mine is...LOL. Actually I think I know where it is...but it seems to be a bit different than where the experts say it should be. so we are working on that!

rm_1hotwahine 63F
21091 posts
9/8/2005 11:54 am

I can if I've already had one. That's something to consider!

Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]

rm_FUQANDUS2 42M/43F

9/8/2005 12:03 pm

I really don't know what to think of this. I have only ever been with 2 men. First one, I was with for 6 years - never once had it happen. Second one, my husband I have been with for 10, piece of cake! It happens every single time, and more than once! For me it is about letting myself go. I totally lose myself when we are together. If he talks to me, I can't tell you a word he says, I just focus on how amazing it feels!

Philosophy_N_Sex 49M/47F

9/8/2005 1:03 pm

Hello Baby

I m looking for a few female friends to show them a good time so if u are looking for some wild n wet times contact me soon so we can get it on with each other.

Now I want each woman here to think about what I have to offer her, we are going to meet some where to talk then while talking I will be feeling u up n getting u to a point where all u will want is to feel me up too.

after we both have the feeling out of the way we will decide where to go n get it on with each other, we go there when we get there I would remove her clothes then work my own into laying down so u can mount urself on top with ur kitty in my face n ur face between my legs.

after some licking u decide that it is time to do some riding so u mount ur kitty on my doggie to get some riding in for u are so wet u need to have me drill u out of control.

after some riding I would lay u down and mount u for some drilling of my own while I am drilling I would be sucking on ur nipples trying to make them milk if no milk there I know u will be cumming all over my doggie bathing him with ur love juices.

then when u think u have had it all I would get u on ur knees drill u from behind maybe u are a woman who likes to have ur asshole drilled as well then we would go back to the beginning where u suck me I eat u until u cant take any more.
Please contact me here so we can meet n see how long u can cum with n on me......... PNS

Philosophy_N_Sex 49M/47F

9/8/2005 1:07 pm

Sorry I could not resist!

Many of us guys do not understand how it can take a lady years of sex to truely cum and experience the big O

It is nothign against the male lover, it is just how some ladies are. I am lucky I have always been able to find out what makes a woman tick. but it often takes time..

hope your day is going well as your night

rm_vixenflir 58M
295 posts
9/8/2005 1:13 pm

Congrats! and go with your bad self girl! The secret is to keep practicing. The more you have it, the more you know how to get there. Steve

rm_FreeLove999 46F
16127 posts
9/8/2005 3:06 pm

wow! can't say i've ever had this problem. guess i'm just lucky, but glad you are finding your own way!

[blog freelove999]

expatbrit49 63M

9/8/2005 3:29 pm

Oh you lucky thing

Thank You for Your Time and Attention

bigredeatsbush 51M/50F

9/8/2005 5:54 pm

Mr Red here - Wifey forgot to mention that for years she only has real good orgasms when there IS something in her (i.e. My member) We have been working from the other side in the opposite direction, now that it has been easier for her to go off with just my fingers in, it has become possible to figure out where to hit the "Spot". I can say being on AdultFriendFinder and sharing our fantasies more with others and each other has help make the "sexual environmnt" better for good orgasms, I'm sure you guys already know that! Her g-spot is a lot lower than the books describe also, it actually made finding it take longer! Good luck!

patsam69 51M/51F

9/9/2005 5:55 am

P N S....I do have the big O. Been having it since I was 13! LOL. THAT is not the problem. I just don't have it while having intercourse. Give me a good tongue or a nice hand job...and I am there!

Oh...and athanks for that wonderful letter. Ihope you only sent it to me? You can drill me anytime!

patsam69 51M/51F

9/9/2005 6:01 am

vixenflr....ah yes...practice makes perfect...that is what my husband tells me!!! LOL. You men all stick together, don't ya?

Bigred...o.k. I am confused...the Mrs. says ...I am with you, I am hoping some day to achieve that orgasm during sex. and then you say....Wifey forgot to mention that for years she only has real good orgasms when there IS something in her (i.e. My member) If you are inside her and she cums....wouldnt that be an orgasm during sex? Help! LOL

patsam69 51M/51F

9/9/2005 6:07 am

P N S ....I do have the big O. Been having it since I was 14! THAT is not the problem. I Just don't have an orgasm During intercourse. Give me a good tongue or a hand job and I am there!

And thank you so much for that nice romantic letter. I hope you wrote that for only me. You can DRILL me any time baby!

papyrina 51F
21133 posts
9/9/2005 6:34 am

well done hun
Like you i'm still looking for the mythical g spot i know where its supposed to be but i think its broken

On intercourse i used to finish all the time internally and not external,now with lovers ,external not internal and with hubby it depends on how drunk or relaxed i am.

our hormones and moods play too big a roll in all of this

I'm a

i'm here to stay

patsam69 51M/51F

9/9/2005 9:06 am

papyrina...It is so true...hormones and mood do play a huge roll. I think that I may have a mantal block about having an orgasm with a penis in me! LOl. It has happened on such a rare occasion that I feel that it won't happen. So even when it feels like I will...It doesn't. SIGH. It is so easy for people to SAY "just let go" It will happen". DOING it is a whole new story!

goddessofbitches 41M/33F

9/9/2005 12:24 pm

I don't orgasm unless I am stimulated before hand. What I mean is...if we decide to have sex...and then he goes right for penetration...then I usually don't get off. But if he rubs my clit...goes down on me...or has me play with my clit a little while I am sucking his dick...then I can usually get off at some point.

I know what you are going through. Up until I met my husband...I had only had one orgasm, and that was through oral. I just couldn't seem to accomplish the deed period. It takes time and eventually you will be in bliss everytime....



Always The Bitch

hotiowastud2 53M

9/11/2005 8:20 am

Our neighbor friend can't have one during intercourse either. By the way...I'm back (old teachhotnique). She's like you. My wife, however, well I fairly sure it's about 1/2 the time. The other times it "feels good". Good thing I'm going down on her frequently again.

patsam69 51M/51F

9/11/2005 12:13 pm

hotiowastud2...Hey how have ya been? missed ya! hope all is well with you. Yes...it always feels good...Just dont cum with it in...LOL.. Oh well I suppose there are worse things!

Priapeo 46M

9/12/2005 3:34 am

Sorry for asking but... what do you think made the difference this time? Duration? Passion? State of mind?

Never argue with an idiot. He brings you down to his level then beats you with experience

AltumHunksUnite 53M

9/12/2005 6:59 am

Yup, many women need clitoral stumilation during intercourse for it to happen. Hey, whatever it takes, right?

And the pulsing feeling around the cock when it happens... just wonderful.

Let me drive. I like the view

Elgin_m_4_3sum 62M

9/12/2005 7:16 am

Don't forget a lot of sex is in your head..maybe all or most of it...so if your partner can help you visualize your body and what parts are sensitive... i.e. talk a lot first.

Just a thought

patsam69 51M/51F

9/12/2005 10:52 am

Priapeo....I really don't know...perhaps passion and my state of mind would be good indicators. It seemed he just kept hitting a good spot!

luckywithladeez 49M
266 posts
9/14/2005 2:19 am

OK, you've read the techniques, you've read my articles, you've taken everyone's advice, and you are there, you just don't know it.

Look me in the eyes and repeat after me, "I am going to orgasm, I deserve it! This is my time!" [and it truly is!]

The next time is when it happens. Time your ovulation cycle, and take a few days off from sex beforehand. Just do something else and don't worry about it, it's going to happen. Kiss your husband. Kiss him again. And again.

On the day, don't be in a hurry, and dress especially nice, both of you. Have a relaxed evening away from the kids (no kids in sight this night) and light some candles, cue up some smooth jazz (or some other appropriate music), and dim the lights.

Kiss him. You know you wabnt him. He knows he wants you. It's time to let the animal out within you!

Engage in foreplay, but...NO ORGASM ALLOWED...tease each other mercillessly...but be sure you cease well before you feel your legs involuntarily shaking! Tou're so hot now, even I can feel you, clear over in Washington State!

Now is the time for him to take you...and take you again...and again...and again...you know you want him...you know you need him...beg him mercilessly to never stop...faster...faster...let go...again...and again...and again...breath fast smooth and deeply...you're felling flush, your body is tingling...and...and...and...and...and...

mnfun952 102M

9/25/2005 1:38 pm

the fun is in the practicing... it's not the destination...it's the fun you have along the way... I think you see what I'm getting at....

have fun,


cram64 52M
17 posts
9/28/2005 2:35 am

JEEZ...doesn't EVERYONE have the right to an orgasm??? there ought to be a constitutional ammendment!

Good Morning, and Good Night


pakrat1 49M/48F
33 posts
10/7/2005 11:15 am

very glad you got to the big O with entercourse....MY wife never had an orgasm til our second encounter with a mmfm and it was with a finger(been married 18 1/2 yrs)...over and over..bet she had 5 that night...was so glad it had 2 double beds cause 1 bed was soaked lol....just 2 months ago she had her first with sqirting with just penatration...I love the feel of the tighten up and liquid squirting around my cock...soaked me...hopefully there will be many more to cum

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