Guilty conscience?  

patsam69 51M/51F
704 posts
9/14/2005 5:56 am

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Guilty conscience?

When I was growing up, my mother always used to say to me..."A guilty conscience needs no accuser." Apparently I always looked like the cat that ate the canary when I got busted!
Lately when I go to the gym, there is this woman there who always smirks when I smile at her. It is not just a smirk...she actually puts her head down and chuckles slightly. The first time I thought perhaps my pony tail was lopsided...or I was breathing so heavy from exercising that I was drooling..Do I have something between my teeth? Hanging from my nose? But this was not the case. She does this EVERY time. which has probably been about 20 to 30 times. Now, either she is heavily medicated...or, my mind wonders...has she seen me on the internet? I have thought this so many times. Standing in an elevator with a few people. I think..hmmm...have they seen my pussy? If I catch someone staring at me I automatically think they have seen my profile. I know there are quite a few people in my town on AdultFriendFinder. I joke with men that I have chatted with on yahoo Im that perhaps we have stood next to each other in the gorcery store and not known that we have already seen each other naked! never know.

But this woman at the gym...she really makes me wonder if she has seen me. If she knows my secret and cannot contain herself when I say hello or smile in her direction. Or is it just my guilty conscience?

ByteChaser2 53M

9/14/2005 7:23 am

I get that from time to time too. I find that striking up a conversation with people like this usually either reveals the reason or eliminates it alltogether. Give it a try....

Philosophy_N_Sex 49M/47F

9/14/2005 12:02 pm

Hey there
Bytechaser has a good idea, why not talk to her, ask " Do I know you?" or something like that. Maybe posting this she will read it! Then you may have a new friend for life.
I have done it as a joke, see someone and giggle everytime I saw them just to freak them out, but again I am kind of a sicko And it does not help you pick up women either.

I doubt I coudl recognize you on the street so no worries.

rm_bella_ 47F
4030 posts
9/14/2005 12:39 pm

Same thing happens to me. And I have been recognized by my legs and a particular ring I wear. If she has seen your pussy she was interested in looking at it....approach braver than I am!

AltumHunksUnite 53M

9/14/2005 1:26 pm

Yes, it happens to me all the time too, and then they have to call security to get me out of the ladies dressing rooms at Target.

Seriously, women can get really catty with each other. With you and this gym lady, it could be something as simple as that.

Let me drive. I like the view

papyrina 51F
21133 posts
9/14/2005 2:32 pm

i agree with cleavis ,we women can be nasty jealous bitchesask her,if she continues to giggle and smirk like a four uear old or see who else she talks with at the gym(owner etc) and ask them,

I'm a

i'm here to stay

rm_2scout369 42M
6 posts
9/14/2005 7:14 pm

I think she did see you with someing between your teeth! Your man's cock

rm_manspace2 48M
3 posts
9/14/2005 8:18 pm

That kind of person pisses me off. Next time you see her instead of smiling at her flip her off

rm_FreeLove999 46F
16127 posts
9/15/2005 4:49 am

sounds like she is just getting off on unnerving you and i would not worry too much about it ... even if she has seen you on A F F, why feel guilty?? it's not a crime and the only way she could have seen you is if she was here herself!! if she's not on medication, sounds like she need some....!!

[blog freelove999]

abdoullah5 40M

9/15/2005 5:39 am

salut la grandeur de mon sexe t'intersse vachement belle, ca exite plus la femme?

patsam69 51M/51F

9/15/2005 5:54 am

bytechaser....I have said hello and how are you...she just smirks and walks away.

PNS...I don't think I want a friend like her! Or you either...trying to freak people out like that! LOL...weirdo...and I mean that affectionately

patsam69 51M/51F

9/15/2005 5:58 am

Bella.... be brave? can't I just go when she isn't there?? LOL...just kidding....I have tried to say hello...she just walks away...very odd.

Cleavis...don't think it is a catty thing. She is probably 25 years older than me. What is to be catty about?

Papyrina....I have seen her talking to the women who work at the gym. and she acted perfectly normal! and yes women can be nasty jealous bitches....but what is there for her to be jealous about?

play4fun3642 54M/48F

9/15/2005 6:36 am

oh sam, maybe I should meet you at the gym & we can start kissing & touching & really give her something to smirk at!!!!!

patsam69 51M/51F

9/15/2005 11:43 am

play4fun...get out of my husbands head! lol.

bigredeatsbush 51M/50F

9/15/2005 5:18 pm

Hmmm, I think you need to make this woman your "new best friend". Just start talking to her about anything, or anyone. Seek her out when you see her clear across on the other side fo the gym, follow her into the locker room. Love her to death. And if that doesn't work, play4fun has a pretty good idea

rm_1hotwahine 63F
21091 posts
9/16/2005 12:08 am

Just ask her. "Do I know you?"

Since I generally don't wear a black bra in public (just give me a few years of lost brain cells; I may then) I usually do the opposite - look at people in the grocery store and think, "I wonder if..."

Yeah, I'm still [blog 1hotwahine]

Elgin_m_4_3sum 62M

9/16/2005 6:38 am

just ignore here,

or maybe just give her a wink

Philosophy_N_Sex 49M/47F

9/16/2005 12:17 pm

And now my impression of the woman from the gym

thank you thank you very much!

TheQuietGuy2005 54M
2386 posts
9/16/2005 3:44 pm

I had the slightly surreal experience of sitting in a coffee bar next to a couple when I heard one say to the other, "so how did you come to join AdultFriendFinder then?"

There are times when you can't help but listen to the rest of the conversation!

Certainly made me start wondering just which other members I might be seeing out there in the big city

hotiowastud2 53M

9/17/2005 6:46 am

Guilt does weird things. I'm usually driving down the road when I imagine my worst nightmare coming true and someone recognizes me from online.

Maybe she did and wants to jump you and your husband!

476 posts
9/19/2005 7:55 pm

What's to feel guilty about, you like sex? OMG, she likes sex. Well, you know what they say, "Two can keep a secret only if one is dead." So if you're worried about the bitch revealing your "secret," "just do it."

ChinRyder 39M
235 posts
9/22/2005 11:58 pm

I've mentioned this in some of my blogs too. Always wondering if I'm going to run into someone from the site. I let it worry me for a little while (what would people think!) but the honest fact is, the only people that are going to recognize me are people that are already on this site. Save for a few chickens that get an account just to oggle, but even then it's not like we can be called out without someone exposing themselves in the process. So, in my opinion it probably has nothing to do with this site. To prove it, call her out in your next blog and see what kind of reaction you get the next time you see her at the gym. No sense in you showing her your cards first. Make her approach you.

But, that's probably not what this is all about anyway. I'm with Clevis. Women can be caddy bitches for no reason, esp. with each other. Don't let it ruin your gym experience. And don't be parinoid. Anyone who is a true member of this site wouldn't call another out. I'm currently on coming up with a secret handshake/catch phrase that we can all use out in public to let others know we are of the "secret society." I'll keep you all posted.

Finally, patsam69, thank you for all of the attention you've paid my blog lately. I've appreciated every word you've written and I look forward to many more.

rm_cuddleboy75 41M

9/23/2005 1:16 am

Hi patsam6! I think you should engage her in conversation by making sure that you corner her in an elevator or stairs and compliment her on her jovial nature. Probably tell her that she sounds very familiar and if she is part of your group on yahoo or If she was here and recognises you from here obviously she is going to show frayed nerves, If not even then she will be more careful in future about the way she bwhaves, as your confronting her would make her think twice next time. Best of luck

P.S.: Most of these kinds are chicken in public and purring pussies in the bed room.

patsam69 51M/51F

9/23/2005 6:08 am

hey chin, thanks for stopping by. I havent seen her at the gym lately...and she doesnt ruin it for me. Just wonder every time she smirks at me!
Secret society handshake huh? lol very interesting.

MiAmore62 49M

9/23/2005 5:40 pm

Sorry im off subject here....but everytime isee this fucking pic of you iwant to help you suck that hot hot cock! Grab your rotch and smile next time she loks at you.... and everytime you can...get her eye and grab your croych and smile...she'll go PLEASE can i suck that with you!?

rm_pchamp012004 55M
2672 posts
9/23/2005 6:08 pm

Strike up a conversation with the woman, she will probably fess-up, or run away.

Virginisland0 42F
1 post
9/24/2005 1:21 pm

Don't be ashamed of your sexuality, embrace it. So wat if she's smiling, yea you look like you could suck a mean dick, and if there's a problem let me know I'll help you, i'm sick of these woman who tell us to b ashamed of our sexuality. Because without us who'll will keep their husbands, fathers, and brothers happy. p.s. don't think much of it but can we b friends? -

cram64 52M
17 posts
9/28/2005 2:46 am

lol...if she has seen you on AdultFriendFinder whats the big deal? i mean to have seen you here would indicate that she is here as well....

i actually DID runinto someone i had seen on a website (not this one) at a job fair. she was working it and as i handed her my resume, i addressed her by her screen should have seen how red she got!

Marc, the insomniac!

m14692u 58M

9/30/2005 1:42 pm

Hi Patsam69, Take a photo of her and post it. You'll find out very quickly if she's looked at your blog. I love your photo, but then again any blowjob pic does it for me.

MillsShipsGayly 51M

10/2/2005 7:46 am

agree with Pchanp.

Just strike up a conversation ... allow her to mention it or not. She will either fess-up or shrink away

cram64 ... that is soooo funny .. I would just cringe if someone did that to me ... ooops wait my screen name is my real name *knucklehead*

patsam69 51M/51F

10/5/2005 7:26 am

wow marc.....what did she say?

Lol Michael

M14692u....uh,,,I dont think they allow picture taking at my they allow it at yours?

pakrat1 49M/48F
33 posts
10/7/2005 11:27 am

ever think she may have seen you and is bi of bi courious but shy about it...she could really want you sam....

MillsShipsGayly 51M

10/10/2005 6:39 am

Sge WANTS you sam , pakrat may be right

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