In the mind of a Game Player  

parcher 57M
11 posts
9/22/2005 12:52 pm

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In the mind of a Game Player

I've read many blogs and comments here from women that claim to have been stood up by guys met through AdultFriendFinder. If I take the claims to be truthful, (no need to bend the head around women gaming the game) then what would make a guy do that. What would make him say he'll call after a meet and never does, or not even show up for a meet when he promised he would. To those women who have been stood up, rejoice the man was not playing a game with you, you just ran across a coward. I have never met a man that plays games, men are too simple for that. Men have no desire to be drama queens. I have met plenty of cowards. I have met many men that explain their cowardly behavior as game playing. Don't believe it. Have I ever acted cowardly? Yes, in my early 20's I did some coward things that I wish I hadn't done. But I learned the benefits of confronting issues head on. ----item deleted for brevity sake--- It's like taking off a bandaid, one fast pull and it's over. May hurt for a second but then its over. I would like to see any man that has stood up someone from AdultFriendFinder explain themselves. Never happen though.

And now for something completely different. Saw a repeat of some reality show about plastic surgery. A young woman (19-20)was getting her pussylips cut back because they were too big. What the hell is up with that. Either I missed it or they didn't say how she came to this conclusion. They did show a picture of her in a bathing suit before. There was nothing there that looked particularly alarming. Nothing that you wouldn't see on any given day at the beach. Did she have a boyfriend that told her they were ugly. Does she show them often. Did she look at the airbrushed babes in Playboy. They of course did not show her after the surgery, just her walking bow legged out of the hospital saying she was happy. Christ.

nietchze 43M

9/22/2005 1:53 pm

I've heard that alot too. While I find this behavior hard to explain, I did come up with a weak theory that might be true. Most guys in order to even get a woman to look in his direction might, well stretch the truth a little. like use a pic from 4 years ago when they were sans beer-gut, or perhaps forget to mention their receeding hairline, or whatever. when it comes time to meet they actually realize that they aren't exactly as they described. And so rather go through the humiliation of having a woman take one look at them and turn around and walk away, they simply chicken out and don't show. It's a lame theory, but I really can't think of anyother reason a guy wouldn't show up for some sweaty lovin, can you?

parcher 57M
14 posts
9/23/2005 8:09 am

Your theory tends to support my theory that these guys are cowards.

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