How many is too much?  

parcher 57M
11 posts
8/23/2005 6:51 am

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How many is too much?


Back from a long weekend out of town. Good time was had by all.
Remembering a conversation I had with my wife concerning sexual partners. I had between 15 and 25, depending on your current definition of sex, before we were married. I certainly did not think this was a lot because all I remember was the staggering number of women I would have wanted to have. And a much smaller number of women that I should have had if I wasn't so GD shy, inexperience, or downright too dim to pickup the signals when I was younger. (Of course, now I am perfectly outgoing, experienced, and atuned to the signals ) I guess this highlights the difference between many women and men.
A lot of women are apalled by the need men have for multiple partners.
Thankfully, there are some women that are looking for what a lot a men are looking for. A chance to meet new people, have some fun, share some mutual pleasure.

redmustang91 57M  
8662 posts
8/23/2005 8:04 am

women are socialized to think promiscuous sex is bad for their reputations as they fear being labeled a "slut" and becoming unmarriageable. Marriage is the only legit socially approved goal for women to express their sexuality, assuming actress or prostitute is not the goal. The official morality is of course totally out of touch with what people actually do.


justsayhi2005 51F

9/22/2005 8:09 am

mzhuny, I agree...the double standard is alive and well in the 21st century, even on The World's Largest Sex and Swinger Personals Website...haha


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