What an awesome Day.....  

palmgirl215 58F
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4/19/2006 5:26 pm

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4/22/2006 7:51 pm

What an awesome Day.....

Had a wonderful day....Spoke at Franklin College this afternoon for a Luncheon consisting of Faculty, Staff, and Students. Perhaps I opened some eyes to the reality of Special Ladies such as myself. Was well received and left feeling very good about the experience.

Still waiting for that special man to come along and capture my full attention as well I, his. Have a wonderful eveing and hope to hear from you soon......

Namaste...My soul bows to yours....

eroticfunforall 51M

4/20/2006 8:38 am

Hi Palmgirl

I think it is fantastic that you are willing to discuss your uniqueness with others. I believe directly talking with people removes it from a label and makes it human.

In college I took a course in Sexual Psychology. It was my opening to understanding transgender issues and the fact that sexuallity does not fit into the neat little labels that most of society want to use.

I personally believe that even the labels of hetrosexual and homosexual are poor at describing humans and their relationships.

Have a great and sensual Day!

IMindyfling 51M

4/21/2006 7:12 pm

Always good to hear that our society isn't going straight to hell...perhaps we have a chance yet.

I look forward to someday being enlightened as well.

My life (almost 41yrs) has always taken others for their face values and tried not to enforce my values onto them BUT I will admit there are times when I, too, am challenged. I believe though thta I am open to learning and understanding people's differences.

We are, afterall, all are very unique in our own way.

I find that it is easier for society to place labels on different groups of like-kind individuals only so that they can be dealt with as a whole rather than as individuals.

Eroticfunforall is certainly correct with regards to removing the 'human'-ness of those we don't understand or care to attempt to understand. Afterall, it is easier to distinguish a person as black or white than as a distinctive unique person with a name, desires and values.

Sexual relationships are no different except they are basically two food groups there when in reality, as you can see from this site and many others like it, those two groups (gay or straight) are blurred.

I'm happy you are here to share, Palmgirl215, but am saddened that you feel the need to come to a unique and specialized site to feel accepted.

Just shows that our sciety as a whole isn't ready to understand everybody as individuals just yet.

You obviously have encountered some interesting people who were mentally challenged as to accepting you for you. As a member of the same race, I apologize.

I, too, am not such a stretch from them too although I'd like to distance myself from them more and more. I have hit on you with my dick in hand thinking of only pleasure and not of who you are. But like most ladies on here, I'm not too concerned about their life's trials...just as long as I can fulfill a mutual need for that period of time that we are together.

I don't want you to think that that comment is likened to me not accepting you for who you are rather than just me concentrating on your very unique (as in your age) and beautiful exterior. Not true.

Someday, perhaps you will endulge me in conversation. I have many questions. Not national geographic-type questions but 'franklin college special-ladies-type-talk' questions.

I always enjoy your chats and blogs.

Keep it up!

palmgirl215 58F

4/22/2006 3:39 am


Wow, my soul bows to yours for sure. I am first off, very touched that you took the time to write. "Imindyfling", your perception that there is more to me than my body or appearance, is awesome. I guess I also feel sad that I have shared what is so "personal" about myself with so many who don't deserve to ever know me. I do have so much to offer not only a sexual partner, but also those who consider or call me "friend". My loyalty and compassion are like no other. I would welcome and enjoy chatting sometime and questions are a means to know me completely. I have to be to work early this morning for a meeting and would love to hear from you again. Have a great and beautiful day....

IMindyfling 51M

4/22/2006 7:38 am

Well, thank you Palmgirl215.

Of course this site is about physical looks and personal gratification so...don't get me wrong about that. I've had my share of evenings staring at your pics and enjoying them very much and not a once was I thinking of your inner being.

But, this topic is a serious one and therefore I addressed it as one.

Keep in mind though that AdultFriendFinder is not exactly mensa. It is a site where people can meet people for physical gratification. Sure there is some mental stimulation in there somewhere but it is about 'getting off' in some respect.

So, don't be too hard on those whose light is dimmer than the rest. Odds are they are just jerkin-off. I'm sure that once the blood returns to their proper head they would react differently.

平和は1 つ, Palmgirl215 としてあなたの心, ボディ 及び精神とある。
((Peace be with your mind, body and soul as one, Palmgirl215.))

eroticfunforall 51M

4/22/2006 1:01 pm

Hi Palmgirl

While I have not talked with you directly I have followed your blog for some time. Anyone who takes the time to read it should see the depth of your personality. There is a soft side that is very evident. I believe that is the side you want recognized and some can not go beyond the labels. They miss out on knowing you as a person.

Even the pictures on your blog look more sensual then hard and sexual.

I am sure I would enjoy getting to know more about you.

rm_cat3572 48M

4/22/2006 7:15 pm

What I think is most interesting is that most people dont or cant put themselves in others shoes. Seems to me from reading you blogs and trying to imagine what life must have been like for the last 30 years, you have a very unique perspective on life. You have been in more shoes than Imelda Marcos! That is a very positive thing. It gives you insight into life that few of US will ever understand. So continue to grow,share and be yourself. I for 1(and I know I am not alone here) salute and respect you.

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