|Blogs > PeterPiper2020 > Practicing hard|
How to start?
How to start?
Well now, here's a new thing.
Here's a way to put my inner-most thoughts & feelings out into cyber-space for all & sundry to read & comment on!
Will it make me a better person?
Will it change my life?
Will anyone bother to read it?
I've enjoyed reading some of the other blogs on here so I thought I would give it a go. Post some random thoughts, release a bit of tension that sort of thing.
Anyway, where to start?
At the beginning I suppose!
Just over a year ago I joined AdultFriendFinder, was a standard member for 24 hours, realised how difficult that made things & up-graded to Silver.
Time for my first opinion!!
Gold members are trying too hard!
I really do not see any real advantage gained by paying the extra money. Why women do it is beyond me.
After a couple of weeks of, naively, sending out 'winks' & waiting for all of these horny, sexy women to contact me (yes, yes, I know, but I was new, remember) I re-wrote my profile sorted some pictures & started to send messages out.
Some of the women I wrote to back then are still on the site, I've written to them a couple more times but you only get one chance to make a first impression!
Finally, I received a reply, A REPLY!!, now what?
Trying so hard not to blow this oppourtunity I replied and received....nothing! For a week.
In her next message she gave me her msm address & we chatted on-line.
She was, and probably still is, a gorgeous woman. Alas we never got to meet, something always went wrong, we had long periods of no contact (because I didn't want to appear 'pushy') and the next thing was a testamonial on her page, from some other man, praising her oral skills. I was devastated - that should have been me, I was the 'one'.
How stupidly naive was I?
It was a good lesson learned!
Fortunately, while all of this was going on, a woman wrote to me.
Now, being a person of sound morals (when I started here anyway, lol) I had avoided 'married/attached' women (more naivety!) but this one was married & I mailed her back asking if that was true. A very sharp reply was received asking if it mattered! I relented, we chatted on-line & by phone.
Less than a week later I had a married woman, at my home, for a nsa sex meeting.
Despite my 'outofpractice-ness' - it had been 8 1/2 years since I last had 'proper' sex! we had a great time that Saturday afternoon & a week later on the Sunday afternoon & the following Friday evening! A couple of other meetings followed but it sort of fizzled out. We've stayed in contact & I would love to see her again but we'll have to wait & see.
That was the start. There is more, much more, to tell. Stories of frustration, success, failure, ecstacy & disappointment.
So, dear reader, if you are new to AdultFriendFinder & especially if you are male, frustrated by the fact that you 'ain't getting any' my advice is: Be patient. If it can work for a dubious looking herbert like me, it can work for you!
Worryingly normal, Frighteningly sane and Intriguingly different!