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Feb 6, 2012 1:41 pm
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I have made a decision to make my posts that show my whole face visible only to my network friends. Due to the recent surprise in my Adult FriendFinder mailbox from an old acquaintance (see my gargoyle post), I have realized just how small the world can be. I enjoy being here, blogging and the freedom to explore my sexuality without judgment that this site has offered me. I do, however, have a job, family and friends who may not appreciate or accept this side of me and I think I have been taking my anonymity for granted.
That being said, while I probably will be a little more careful in general regarding what I post, there may from time to time be posts that are only available to my network friends and I have gone back and edited a few from the past to reflect this preference. If you are a regular viewer and commenter on my blog and would like to be in my friends network, feel free to send me a request. If you are a standard member and can't send an e-mail or request, let me know here and I will send you a request (or let you know why I have chosen to decline to do so.)
I have set comments on this blog not to post, so no one else will see them, so this is also your chance to talk to me privately if you so choose! I look forward to hearing from you!
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What's in my Bag!
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May 16, 2012 10:54 pm
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So the beautiful Ms Vixn_Vella just did a post about what's in her purse (Vixn's Purse!!!) prompted by a handful of other posts on the subject. She prompted others to do the same, so I decided to play along!
So What did I learn about myself from this exersize? Well, given the mints, gum, mouthwash and deodorant, we can conclude that I am obsessed with not being smelly in any way! Oh...and I have far too many keys! (Including the key cards from my Chicago Hotel Room....Miss you guys! )
What does the contents of your purse/bag say about you?
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HNW- This & That
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May 16, 2012 9:08 pm
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I know there was a scarf theme floating around for HNW, but I wasn't feeling like playing along. I have these cute panties that have yet to make an HNW appearance and I wanted to shows them off. I also wanted to smile at you all and maybe show a little cleavage. Yeah...not possible, because I may be flexible, but I am not a contortionist! lol.
Anyway, when all was said and done, I ended up with two pics, cuz I couldn't decide and I liked them both. I still didn't get any cleavage in, but whatever...page down! It is all over my blog and profile!
Happy Perving!
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Late Night Cheesecake
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May 12, 2012 12:41 am
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I am such a night owl. It is ridiculous really. I wish I could motivate to get started on things earlier in the day, but no. I have to wait to start baking at 9pm for a party I promised to bring mini-cheesecakes and cookies to on Sunday. I have to work all day tomorrow and then in the morning on Sunday, so I really want to finish tonight. I am not tired. I will be tomorrow...
So at 1:30 in the morning Jack Van Impe started to yell at me for drinking and fornicating, so I decided I needed more butter and ran to the store. Luckily I live in the city right by a convenience store that is open all night. I am not sure if it was Jack Van Impe's influence or if I was just feeling silly due to my own ridiculousness, but I decided I needed a little Cheesecake with my cheesecake!
And no...I don't usually bake nekkid with only a apron on! It is not very sanitary for one thing and there are parts I prefer not to burn! Happy perving! I have to put another batch of cookies in the oven now...
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Back to Reality...
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May 8, 2012 2:18 am
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Well, I have been procrastinating about writing this post, partly because I am still in a food, alcohol and fun induced coma from this weekend. Lethargic is an understatement. I also feel like once I write about it, it becomes a memory as opposed to my reality. This weekend was such a whirlwind for me! I met so many wonderful people! There was just not enough time to get to know them all and those I did get to spend some time with it was just too little and too fleeting!
The fun began with the drive down. As always when Gottaring and I get together, we laughed the whole way there. We got lost in the subterranean depths of Chicago in a maze of construction, while that bitch Fiona (G’s GPS) continually told us to “turn right here”. We finally found the hotel, got unpacked and settled in and broke into the gallon jug of margaritas I brought when we realized we still had to park the car. After that was finally done we really broke into the margaritas and had a nice little buzz going…ok we were kind of hammered. It was amazing that we managed to get cleaned up and dressed presentably for the night’s activities and get over to the Holiday Inn to meet the rest of the gang.
I was excited that I got to don my brand-new Otherbee T, a gift from my Gotta-girl…
So Thursday Night was a bit of a blur…dinner was yummy. Meeting everyone was yummier. We ended up at the Karaoke bar and I know I sang “Eye of the Tiger” and “Copa Cabana” among other things…with the help of new found friends…THANK GOD! I immediately adored Sonic_n_Sideshow, Vixn_Vella and TaTas. I got a fabulous hug from Charmer961. I found Just_MsRoss’s enthusiasm infectious. Everyone was so much fun and I had a blast and far too many cocktails to give a truly accurate depiction of the nights events! The only thing I was sure of was that this was going to be one hell of a weekend!
After my slumber party at Gottaring’s hotel on Thursday night and sleeping in on Friday morning, we enjoyed a day of shopping with the super cute and oh-so sweet Snugglebuni41. After which I checked into the Holiday Inn and took a much needed nap before Friday night’s event. Gottaring and I arrived at the party place early and set up the dessert buffet and all the other party accouterments. Let me tell you, the place was perfect and she thought of EVERYTHING! Of course, Lady T added party hats and condoms and lube to the décor…an absolute necessity to the theme of the night! The hometown gift exchange was fun, the food was great. (I can take some credit for contributing to that…I am particularly proud of my mini cheesecakes and key lime pies, although they were no match for G’s amazing cupcakes!)
Sailfast64 brought his laptop to cam, which definitely was a high point of the evening for me! I don’t know when I turned into such a cam whore, but I got a chance to talk to Menteluminosa while on cam…and while I have never met her I KNOW I adore her, so that was awesome. I had a blast defiling Mr. Potato Head and my very favorite part of the evening was when AlphaOmega10021 flashed his Tittays on cam at the request of the onlookers (ok…they may have been talking to me, but his man boobs are real and fabulous!) It was the most fun I have ever had on cam…and as my European fans will tell ya, that is saying something! (My cam is very big in Europe!)
So after the party, we retreated back to the karaoke bar. This time, I did refrain from singing, but had some real quality time chatting with Sailfast, always a pleasure and thatdamncat, an absolutely lovely woman, before taking the Stripper Bus back to the hotel with the rest of the gang.
Saturday morning brought the lingerie photo shoot. It came a little early at 11am, as we were all a bit hung over, but it was so much fun none the less! Lady Tatas and Vixn Vella are just hilarious! Lady T is not Just “so pretty”, but she seems to be filled with such joy! I adored her. And Vixn is smart and funny and her facial expressions are priceless! All the girls took absolutely beautiful photos, as Gottaring is quite the genius with a camera…not to mention that they were such lovely subjects! Keep eye out on their blogs, as I am sure some of the pics will show up for HNW…Indi297, PussNbooties, lasttrainhome37 all had pics taken in addition to Lady T, Vixn, Gottaring and me. Buxombbw4u was there and helped with some of the group photos, even though she declined to be in any, it was great to have her there for the fun!
After the photo shoot and chatting for a while with the rest of the girls, Indi and I decided to wander the streets of Chicago searching for somewhere to eat…who knew that would be such a difficult task! Everywhere we went, the restaurants seemed to be closed…we finally found a Panera that was open and spent some quality time talking over soup, salad and sandwiches. What an amazing woman! I was really glad to have the time to get to know her better. She is truly a great person with a generous spirit and giant heart!
Saturday night brought cocktails at a local bar with everyone. More hugs, more laughs and more fun. Eventually the group split up and most of the gang headed to Buddy Guys for blues, while Gottaring, ThatDamnCat, PussNBooties (an amazing spirit- full of life) , AgentJ (a true gentleman and a friend) and myself headed over to Fado’s, an Irish Pub to drink, dance and harass the locals. There was one poor chap, Bobbie from Kansas City that dared to try and approach our table and got much more than he bargained for…between the pics that Gottaring flashed on her I-pad and her quick wit, he really didn’t stand a chance! I may have been embarrassed if I wasn’t so busy laughing! I am pretty sure that Bobbie left believing he met honest to god porn stars, before being led out by the ear by his aunt Sally and uncle Bob.
Next Victim…well let’s just say don’t walk into an Irish Bar in a Sombrero, even if it is Cinco de Mayo and it’s a bachelor party, not when Gottaring is around! She taunted, she teased and she scored a sombrero from the incredibly hot best man! Overall it was just a blast of an evening with a terrific group of people! I am sure the group at Buddy Guys had a great time, but I really enjoyed being able to talk and laugh in a more intimate group. It was very cool.
Well…Sunday morning brought the drive home in the driving rain. We dropped ThatDamnCat at the airport along the way. My car was parked at Gottaring’s house…with a flat tire as it turned out! We found out about the flat on the way home, so it wasn’t too big of a deal. Triple A actually got there shortly after we arrived and unloaded. I drove home to find that my angry kitties decided to use my foot spa as a litter box in an effort to punish me for not daily scooping…it is in the bathtub filled with hot water and bleach, even though I am fairly certain I will never be able to bring myself to use it again! How is that for back to reality, lol!
So, while the weekend is over I am left with some great memories and some wonderful new friends! I was so glad to be a part of it all! Thanks for the memories!
Hugs and Kisses!
-Bee
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Get to Know me in 10 Days- Day 9
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May 1, 2012 1:39 am
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Day Nine: Two images that describe your life right now, and why.
These are the two images I have picked to describe my life right now.
1. The Lotus Flower. The lotus flower starts as a small flower down at the bottom of a pond in the mud and muck. It slowly grows up towards the water’s surface continually moving towards the light. Once it come to the surface of the water the lotus flower begins to blossom and turn into a beautiful flower. To me it represents endurance and strength through adversity. I have come through a difficult time in my life. I have fought through the mud and the muck and I am starting to come into the light and blossom again. So the image of the lotus flower describes me as I move into this new chapter in my life.
2. The second image is Rosemary which has long been a symbol for remembrance. I chose this image as well, for as much as I view the lotus flower as a symbol of where I am going, I don’t think we can ever define ourselves without remembering where we have been and those who have influenced us and helped to form who we are today.
So these are my images…because I endure and I remember.
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Get to Know me in 10 Days- Day 8
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Apr 30, 2012 8:11 pm
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Day Eight: Three turn-ons.
1. Confident, Aggressive, Dominant Men. I like sex that is urgent and a little animalistic. I don't want someone to hurt me, but I do want him to take me, own me, make me beg him for more...so fucking hot!
2. Kisses on my collarbone...not sure why this area is soooo sensitive, but this will totally bring me to my knees...and who doesn't like a girl on her knees...
3. Laugh with me! While I do love urgent, aggressive sex, there is also something to be said for being playful and laughing in bed. A little silliness goes a long way!
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Get to Know me in 10 Days- Day 7
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Apr 29, 2012 10:55 pm
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Day Seven: Four turn-offs.
1. Body odor. I just can't get past it...so not sexy! Sexy men smell sexy!
2. Pubic hair. I like oral sex. I don't like choking on a pub...just sayin'!
3. A bad kisser. It is like watching a bad movie trailer. After you see it you think, well I don't want to see that. A bad kiss is like a bad preview of what is to come.
4. Bad Grammar/Lack of Intelligence. I like smart men that express themselves well. I understand typos and the occasional misspelling, I do it too. There is a difference between typos and illiteracy.
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Get to Know me in 10 Days- Day 6
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Apr 28, 2012 2:48 am
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Day Six: Five people who mean a lot (in no order whatsoever)
1. My Father. Although he passed away when I was just a little girl, he had a huge impact on formulating who I am today. I will always be Daddy's little girl and I will always see my father through eight-year-old eyes with the unconditional love of a child. While I would have cherished the opportunity to grow up knowing my Dad, being able to understand and feel that kind of love as an adult is truly a gift.
2. My Mom. She is the strongest person I know. While she drives me batty sometimes, I do truly appreciate all that she does for me and it is hard to imagine my life without her.
3. My Brother. He can be a huge pain in the ass, but he has one of the biggest hearts of anyone I know. Because of him, I still believe in love.
4. My Friend Brian. We have known each other for over twenty years. Over the years he has been my sounding board, my lover, but most of all my friend. He has helped me through some tough times in my life, called me out on my bullshit and stuck by me for the long haul. I am lucky to have him in my life.
5. My long lost friend Tamara. While we no longer speak and the pain of that is palatable, knowing that she is happy and well is important to me. Friendships can be broken, but that doesn't mean you cease to care.
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Blame it on the Rain...POST 100!!!
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Apr 28, 2012 1:46 am
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“So it is 3:30 in the morning and I just got home. I walked home in the rain...it was a light rain and I held my head up high and accepted it as I walked. It reminded me of a passage in a book I read by Tom Robbins, I think it was "Another Roadside Attraction", but I have read most of his books, so it could be another one. Regardless, most of his books are placed in the Pacific Northwest, where it rains quite regularly. I remember reading a passage in which the characters from that area simply "accepted the rain". We have all watched people shirking from the rain as if they can avoid it and probably have done so ourselves. This passage was a great reminder to me to not shrink away from the inevitable, but to hold your head high, accept it and move forward...
This is my first blog post...I read the blogs and enjoy some of them...I know that this is a website based on sexual encounters, but for whatever reason at 3:30 in the morning, this is what I had to say...Thoughts?”
That was my first Blog Post 280 Days and 100 Posts ago…Yes that is correct this is my 100th post and I thought it was appropriate as the rain softly begins to fall again, to blog about the rain….
“Anyone who says sunshine brings happiness has never danced in the rain” Author Unknown
I think that the rain gets a bad much of the time. We lament its presence. We chant for it to go away. We shirk away from it in an effort to hide from it. We "Blame it on the Rain.”Diane Warren We forget that it nurtures. It cleanses. It helps things grow. We forget how much fun it is to jump in puddles and dance in the rain…letting it engulf us and wash away the airs and the pretense. Somehow it levels the playing field. No one has an unfair advantage when caught in the rain, except perhaps the person with the best perspective…
So 280 days ago I was walking home in the rain and pondering where I was in my life and where I was going and I chose to turn to this crazy little website and the pervy masses and reach out to you all. Who knew that the rain and you, my friends, would nurture me, cleanse me and help me to grow…
(Then & Now…My first Profile Picture and my Current one…a bit of an evolution…)
I came to Adult FriendFinder as a voyeur three years ago. I was a year and a half out of a difficult marriage that left me isolated and a little lost. When I left I also left the life I had spent fifteen years building in California and came home again to Milwaukee. So as a lonely girl late at night perving porn, I stumbled upon Adult FriendFinder and decided to take a very quiet look. It took me nearly six months to create an actual profile and another three before I engaged anyone. Flash forward 216 days to that same lonely girl walking home in the rain and deciding to blog about it…
Somehow with this decision this strange little place I stumbled upon in the dark became a whole new world to me. I began to rediscover my own beauty and worth. I talked through my struggles with finding myself again. I opened up, tested my boundaries and made some real friendships and bonds. So oddly enough, my presence on this pervy little sex site has been an experience that has truly nurtured me and helped me grow.
“So into each life some rain must fall.” Henry Wadsworth Longfellow The next time it falls in yours I hope it nurtures you…and I hope you dance!
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Get to Know me in 10 Days- Day 5
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Apr 27, 2012 3:52 am
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Ok, so this post was a little difficult since I tend to be a "No Regrets" kinda girl and it feels a little negative. I did delve a little deep and came up with 6 things, even though the last one was the only one that kept screaming in my head the entire time I was writing this...
Day Five: Six things you wish you’d never done.
1. Quit taking guitar lessons when I was a kid. I always wanted to learn to play the guitar and I may still take lessons some day.
2. Lose touch with my best friend from high school. She went to college in Madison and I stayed in Milwaukee and went through the broke college student without a phone phase and somehow we just lost track of each other. I learned that she passed away in 1995 (I still don't know what happened, but judging from how people have shut down when I have asked, I believe it was sudden and tragic). I do regret not having been there and not saying good-bye.
3. Lost my virginity to someone I didn't love. I am going to choose not to go into detail here, but I just feel that every girl should have a story filled with hearts and flowers for their first time...I know it doesn't work that way, but it doesn't mean it shouldn't!
4. Drop out of college. I am a smart girl and I don't need a diploma to make that so, but I wish I had the discipline to get my degree or at least get the education behind it.
5. Let my marriage cause an ir-repairable rift in a 20 year friendship. Again, I am going to choose not to go into detail here, as this is a painful one. Enough said.
6. Get married! I don't regret knowing my husband, I just regret that I made him my husband! He is not a terrible guy, but it was a terrible marriage and it took a lot of possibilities for my life and future off the table. **sigh**
I didn't like this post! Too hard and a little bit painful...
Focus on pervy picture please!!!
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Been Caught Camming...
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Apr 26, 2012 2:52 am
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Ok. I am soooo busted! Over the past weekend in a top secret covert mission under the cover of the night (and as it turns out into the early morning...) I popped my cam cherry!
I have perved the cams from time to time in the past and have always been just a little curious about what it would feel like to do it myself. So I formulated a plan to go on very late at night when the good people in my sleepy little city were fast asleep. I wouldn't do anything super sexy like masturbate to Eye of the Tiger or anything. No. I would just flash a little T&A and hopefully get a little approval from the Europeans, who were surely the only ones who would be at this hour! Not much chance of me running into one of them at the grocery store...
Yeah. Have I ever met me?!? It took me about 2 minutes to flash all my goodies and play with myself for the masses. I even took some requests, lol. Well, I do consider myself to be a "good girl" and good girls always do what they are told, right? Lol! Honestly, I had the group chat feature on and with all the comments flying at you, it almost feels like a mob mentality...I got a little swept up into it all! It was a bit of a rush!
So a couple of my blog watchers happened to catch my cam and one person called me out on my blog, so I had to come clean! Will I do it again....I think I might! Under the cover of the night! Now don't stay up too late! 
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