Questions about AFF  

NearsLapelHoops 47M
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3/30/2006 2:59 am

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Questions about AFF

I first added this as a coment but think it should go as a second post:

I have some big questions about sites like this. What truly happens? How many people are looking for long term companionship versus how many are just looking for a friend versus how many are in it for the sex? You would think that most on AdultFriendFinder are here for the sex but when you look through the listings, it seems that everyone is looking for that as the beginning of something more, a single soul mate. How realistic is that?

Also, I wonder the mix of men versus women and the range of ages. There seem to be a lot of 18-25 year olds but I doubt that they are really in that range (younger and older would seem more like it).

Anyway, the site does not appear to be that active, especially in my area. Perhaps a few people will respond. I would love to here the experiences (not necessarily graphic detail) of those that hang out here. What was the expectation and what was the result?

Sulabula 45F
12659 posts
3/30/2006 3:12 am

well...People are looking for different things on AdultFriendFinder..some people could be looking for a long term relationship or just a one night depends...I have met people, made some good friends and had good sex lol...But...U have to be aware that some people may never get to meet anyone...but you have to approach the site without expectations and all of that.

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8328 posts
3/30/2006 3:29 am

Bro, it's a wide mix.

You've got everything here, from women looking for LTR's, couples wanting to find a woman to add to their mix, single men wanting to get laid on the weekends, bored housewives wanting to play while hubby's away, lesbians looking for young curious women, adult porn stars looking for people to star in their movies, women in-between relationships looking for a quick rebound lay or two....


In my area, it's mostly been older women, cheating or not and alot of young women just looking for attention. Most of the women I've been attracted to aren't in my area which is a real dilemma.

One more thing......when you ask "How realistic is that?", let me tell you that in my experience on AdultFriendFinder, "realistic" has no bearing. Many people here are often living some fantasy, without the intention of actually meeting.

Stay here long enough and you'll have your own observations.....


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