oraide05 50M
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12/20/2005 1:24 pm

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the year 2005 is drawing to a close....it has been a hell of a year for me and my family....we made a big move at the end of December last year moving to Florida, we spent new years eve in our new House so we could wake up and start 2005 in our home...we hadn't even unpacked everything yet!!!

I was out of work for almost 9 months...we struggled on 1 paycheck til I got a job in September.

We have been through some legal issues with our son....mainly bull shit stuff but serious.

I have been struggling with some things that are going on in my life....feelings of inadaquacy.

a little jealous of my wifes relationship with someone else.

I guess my marriage is still strong..at least i feel like it is, She is still my best friend, and I dont want that to end.

I guess I'm in need of someone to talk to about my life and I haven't really got any "friends" at least no one who would understand my situation!!

eroticneurotic 46M

12/20/2005 2:34 pm

Well, you do now. That's one of the things we're here for my friend. It sounds like you have some issues to deal with, as we all do, from time to time. I hope the new year is brighter for you, it's a good time to get a fresh start, if you can.

All legal issues are BS, no matter how serious or superficial they are. It always sucks to be involved with "the system". I don't know why they call it a system, it's totally fucked up and unfair. I hope you get things worked out with your son. That's part of raising a kid, there will always be obstacles and issues to deal with, good luck with that.

Whatever you are feeling inadequate about, just do your best to overcome it. If you want to bad enough, you probably can. Obviously, I don't know any specifics but, I do know that people can overcome their weaknesses, if they have the willpower to do so.

As far as your wife goes, I don't know enough about her other "relationship" to say much. But, I do know that jealousy will eat you up inside like a cancer, if you let it. I suggest you deal with it head on and try to stifle the jealousy before it consumes your very being. It's a terrible feeling being jealous over someone that you love, I know, it almost killed me at one point. Don't let it eat you up.

If she is truly your best friend, you should be able to talk to her about anything. Do so and maybe you will be able to free yourself of some of your angst.

Good luck my friend, remember, we are all "friends" in TASA.


oraide05 50M

12/21/2005 2:27 am

Thanks for the support EN I needed it!!!!

oraide05 50M

12/21/2005 7:53 am

Its not that kind of jealosy...Im jealous because she has someone to other than me to talk to and hang with. I just wish I could have that...I did have it before we moved...i had a female friend inOhio I could talk to about anything and she would understand and give me the advice I needed. I'm glad my wife (L4G) has found that here, I'm still looking!!!!!

And as far as the legal BS it is pretty much over now...just community service left to do...that starts in january....anyone have any ideas?

eroticneurotic 46M

12/21/2005 10:20 am

Holy Shit, what am I, oblivious? I didn't know that you were L4G's husband, I just thought you two were chummy, lol. That explains alot, especially how she managed to post a thread under your handle, LOL. I thought you were gay for a second, until I read your explanation, that she posted under your handle.

Man, I always new that her husband be one cool open minded person but, I never knew it was you. Thanks for informing me of that, I must have missed it somewhere along the way. I knew tha you two spent tome together but, I had no idea how much, LOL.

As for community service, something to help the elders would be good. It would also give your son a better appreciation of his elders, which is something so many kids lack these days. That's a lesson he could carry through life with him.


eroticneurotic 46M

12/24/2005 10:53 am



oraide05 50M

12/27/2005 2:44 pm

Thanks EN...I hope you had a Great Christmas!!!

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