Strippers/Dancers  

openmindchicago 43M
36 posts
5/4/2006 6:58 am

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6/1/2006 2:50 pm

Strippers/Dancers


Here's something else that I'm wondering about, so those of you who have first hand knowledge of this subject, feel free to chime in.

I'll admit, I've been to a few strip clubs in my days. It started out by going to these "fashion show" bars where women walk around in underwear and give you a dance in the corner for $10 or something. Not a bad experience overall. It's nice to have a few drinks and look at pretty girls. I've only gotten 1 dance from a place like that. I think it's kind of weird to have a bunch of dudes staring at the girl grinding on your stuff and have them getting off on your dime. Though I would pay the same rate to have them hang out with me for a while. Normally they grab a drink and spend an hour or so with me even though at first they wanted to charge the ol' $10 per song rate. After a few minutes they just like to hang and chat and normally forget all about the money. The advantage of this for me is that everytime I go now, I have a bunch of friendly cute girls who hang with me the entire night, and even a date for a late night snack after the bar closes.

On to the real deal. Strip clubs are fun, but expensive. They are fun because you suspend reality and get to freely oogle naked women, then have them dance for you in private if ur so inclined. I have had a similar experience as the bars in these strip clubs.

As a result, I am friendly outside of the clubs with several dancers (fashion show or strip club). I have even dated a number of strippers. Lets face it, they are normally very pretty. I have found this to be true though...kind of a razors edge with most of these girls. They are either playing a bunch of guys for attention and/or money or they immediately cling to you. WIth this said, let me tell you that I have never slept with any of these women specifically to avoid the emotional aspects that go along with that. On top of this, I would guess that 80% of the girls that I have dated are single moms, which adds a whole new layer. My brother tells me to fuck these girls and let them go, and while I am an evil person, I cannot get that evil, probably having to do with the way that I grew up.

Anyone out there have similar experiences or have you found them to be much different?

openmindchicago 43M
24 posts
6/1/2006 2:50 pm

I will say this about dancers...more often than not they are very attractive and also, 80% of the time very personable. They have to be friendly as it's their job, but i think that profession must attract certain people with certain personalities. It's probably either do or die for them when it comes to being nice, but you can normally spot a fake from a mile away. I have spoken with some girls and all they are out for is the money...well, most of them are all out for the money, but some of them hide it better than others. I cannot resist a pretty girl, so they usually take a good chunk of my wallet. I'm interested to know if there are any dancers out there reading this and what your take is on the guys that you talk to on a nightly basis is?


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