Being Ignored  

onelonelydude2 57M
12 posts
11/7/2005 6:55 am

Last Read:
3/5/2006 9:27 pm

Being Ignored


Why do people come on websites like this? To meet other people. I've notice everybody has specifics, but people are people. You have to accept who they are, no matter what they look like. Their's more to a person than a profile.As a man, I think all women are beautiful. Unlike some women in this website, I don't put down my own race(afro-american), I'm proud of who I am. I know I'm a good man with gualities and morals that most women want.But it seems a lot of women want superficial things. I personally beleive a lot of women don't know what they want. A lot of men try to be respectful and caring, but still get a slap down or ignored.You shouldn't be to quick to judge someone from a written profile.Take a hint thickgurl,katlady,candii, and others like you. People deserve a chance. If you can't answer every ad, just send a wink. At least it shows you acknowledge them.

LikeToLiquor2 57M
318 posts
11/9/2005 7:06 am

Just off the cuff...your handle onelonelydude2...negative..who wants a lonely guy? (lonely guy = needy guy)
Many of the people here want an up-lift not a downer.
I have not read your profile...I don't read male profiles.
Take an objective look at your approach... it really needs to be totally positive.
Complaining about not getting responses only reinforces the problem and advertises the fact. The women on this site have all the control you have to make yourself desirable.


rm_Mrsjones2004 55F
3 posts
11/13/2005 9:55 am

Ok.... I just read that other comment, and I totally disagree.... I like your handle onelonelydude2..... it seems very honest...and on a site like this one its hard to tell who is being honest and who is just a party animal... who wants a lonely guy???? Alot of women (me) probably do..why? Because you will probably be more intimate and honest than some of the other guys, the ones who state how great they are and how they know all...... and yet if you notice they are looking for Barbie Dolls...


rm_MsMammary 58F
10 posts
12/28/2005 6:58 pm

I agree with "LikeToLiquor2"! Your posts are negative. You turn people off. I am sorry, but you are a bitcher and whinner. I can only call it as I see it. Mrsjones is assuming you are intimate and honest. That may be true, but I have traced every single post that you have written and you complain horribly. You sent me messages back in December criticizing me for preferring white men. Many black men here at AdultFriendFinder know my preference and they have not attacked me. You have been horrible and you are a turn off. Lighten up a bit. Dont be so hostile! We are all here to have a good time.
Also, I get a lot a messages. I try to answer them all but that takes hours. But I do make an attempt. I do not ignore my messages, it just takes a while.
By the way, instead of complaining, tell us about your good qualities.


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