What is a man?  

okyme 52F
239 posts
10/12/2005 11:27 pm

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

What is a man?

This is what my version of a man is, or what kind of a man I like.

1. Strong, not necessary in strength, but to be able to be strong for me when I need extra strength.

2. Protective, someone who can protect me, make me feel safe.

3. Lover, one who pleases me as much as I can please him.( not stingy with the foreplay)

4. Clean, someone who takes pried in themselves, smells good, and is not afraid to shower more than once a day.

5. Cook, is not afraid to be in the kitchen once in a while.

6. Friend, someone to be able to talk to. A 2 sided conversation, not one sided.

7. Romantic, not afraid to make a homemade card for my birthday, or pick a flower and hand it to me just because.

8. Funny, can tell a good joke as well as take a joke.

9. Firm, to be able to stand up to me and say no, but know when to say yes.(without being a ass)

10. Provider, be able to take care of me, have a job, so I don `t have to support him (and I`m not saying he has to make boocoo money)

As much as I`ll hear crap for this, I`m very old fashion, I still believe a womans palce is in the house and a mans place is in the dog house. lol jk

Now on my profile it says a man, a real man but I don`t expect these 10 things from them....only 7 lol )
Can you add to this list? Men what do you think a real woman is?

( Ya I know Vin Deisel but hey to me he`s so hot)



onelittlesecret 33M
1579 posts
10/13/2005 8:44 am

I am so close on this...lol

(I actually kinda like Vin Diesel, well maybe not in the same way as you... )


cozy1957 59M

10/13/2005 9:46 am

I think I'm 10 for 10 but I do think a lot of myself....
What do I think a real woman is? I would take your list but reorder it some...maybe 1,8,7,3,9,4,6,5(I do like my own cooking),2,10.

I ain't no Vin Deisel....


okyme 52F

10/14/2005 8:23 am

one- you were my inspiration

cozy 10-10 ? nice

Vin deisal is only for looks not conversation lol


rm_saintlianna 45F
15466 posts
10/15/2005 2:24 am

Oky that was cute and I think all ten are perfect. I could just lick you up one side and down the other.


goddessofbitches 41M/33F

10/15/2005 10:50 am

I'll add one...

A real man will sit and cry with you when something hurts you.

Also...
A real man...the one who fits you for life...will admit you are his best friend...and no one other than his momma will come before you.

HUGS~~~MANDY

Always The Bitch


CuteAZguy27 39M
1545 posts
10/15/2005 4:02 pm

*Holds Mandy and rocks here gently in my arms and strokes her hair as tear stains fill my shirt*

-CuteAZguy27


okyme 52F

10/15/2005 8:58 pm

saint- Promises, promises
Goddess- that is ao true, but so few of them
Cute-? your a doll to comfort like that


IByerGIGG 56M

10/16/2005 12:35 am

He sounds GR8 (just like ME) LOL
Let’s round up to a dozen and add;
KIND: To the people and things YOU love; Ur kids, pets, MOM!
And just to keep the brain from shrinking;
MIND (located between his ears, not thighs): mentoring, mentally challenging w/ willing to learn, & openness to ur ideas.

P.S. I manage to keep my self out of the doghouse by making SURE she pants like a puppy & howls at moon regularly!


onelittlesecret 33M
1579 posts
10/16/2005 10:24 am

aww, shucks. *blushing*


MillsShipsGayly 51M

10/17/2005 4:58 pm

Don't settle for 7 out of 10.

Don't see any reason why someone for you shouldn't be 10 out of 10 and be willing to share a good cry at the right time.

Mike


Priapeo 46M

10/18/2005 5:37 am

No... sorry: inevitably faulty on 7th point.

Never argue with an idiot. He brings you down to his level then beats you with experience


okyme 52F

10/18/2005 5:44 pm

awwww Here I was tring to help you all out, now I expect 15 out of ten.....want to guess the last five


rm_saintlianna 45F
15466 posts
10/20/2005 6:02 pm

Damn it Okay, now where the hell are you??? I swear I am gonna have to put you on a leash.


okyme 52F

10/22/2005 7:54 pm

Sorry saint been busy with life and work, all work and no play it seems


AlbertPrince 57M

11/2/2005 1:39 am

I can lie about all 10, does that count?


okyme 52F

11/11/2005 8:31 pm

lol why sure albert


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