What is a man?  

okyme 52F
239 posts
10/12/2005 11:27 pm

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What is a man?

This is what my version of a man is, or what kind of a man I like.

1. Strong, not necessary in strength, but to be able to be strong for me when I need extra strength.

2. Protective, someone who can protect me, make me feel safe.

3. Lover, one who pleases me as much as I can please him.( not stingy with the foreplay)

4. Clean, someone who takes pried in themselves, smells good, and is not afraid to shower more than once a day.

5. Cook, is not afraid to be in the kitchen once in a while.

6. Friend, someone to be able to talk to. A 2 sided conversation, not one sided.

7. Romantic, not afraid to make a homemade card for my birthday, or pick a flower and hand it to me just because.

8. Funny, can tell a good joke as well as take a joke.

9. Firm, to be able to stand up to me and say no, but know when to say yes.(without being a ass)

10. Provider, be able to take care of me, have a job, so I don `t have to support him (and I`m not saying he has to make boocoo money)

As much as I`ll hear crap for this, I`m very old fashion, I still believe a womans palce is in the house and a mans place is in the dog house. lol jk

Now on my profile it says a man, a real man but I don`t expect these 10 things from them....only 7 lol )
Can you add to this list? Men what do you think a real woman is?

( Ya I know Vin Deisel but hey to me he`s so hot)

onelittlesecret 33M
1579 posts
10/13/2005 8:44 am

I am so close on this...lol

(I actually kinda like Vin Diesel, well maybe not in the same way as you... )

cozy1957 59M

10/13/2005 9:46 am

I think I'm 10 for 10 but I do think a lot of myself....
What do I think a real woman is? I would take your list but reorder it some...maybe 1,8,7,3,9,4,6,5(I do like my own cooking),2,10.

I ain't no Vin Deisel....

okyme 52F

10/14/2005 8:23 am

one- you were my inspiration

cozy 10-10 ? nice

Vin deisal is only for looks not conversation lol

rm_saintlianna 45F
15466 posts
10/15/2005 2:24 am

Oky that was cute and I think all ten are perfect. I could just lick you up one side and down the other.

goddessofbitches 41M/33F

10/15/2005 10:50 am

I'll add one...

A real man will sit and cry with you when something hurts you.

A real man...the one who fits you for life...will admit you are his best friend...and no one other than his momma will come before you.


Always The Bitch

CuteAZguy27 39M
1545 posts
10/15/2005 4:02 pm

*Holds Mandy and rocks here gently in my arms and strokes her hair as tear stains fill my shirt*


okyme 52F

10/15/2005 8:58 pm

saint- Promises, promises
Goddess- that is ao true, but so few of them
Cute-? your a doll to comfort like that


10/16/2005 12:35 am

He sounds GR8 (just like ME) LOL
Let’s round up to a dozen and add;
KIND: To the people and things YOU love; Ur kids, pets, MOM!
And just to keep the brain from shrinking;
MIND (located between his ears, not thighs): mentoring, mentally challenging w/ willing to learn, & openness to ur ideas.

P.S. I manage to keep my self out of the doghouse by making SURE she pants like a puppy & howls at moon regularly!

onelittlesecret 33M
1579 posts
10/16/2005 10:24 am

aww, shucks. *blushing*

MillsShipsGayly 51M

10/17/2005 4:58 pm

Don't settle for 7 out of 10.

Don't see any reason why someone for you shouldn't be 10 out of 10 and be willing to share a good cry at the right time.


Priapeo 46M

10/18/2005 5:37 am

No... sorry: inevitably faulty on 7th point.

Never argue with an idiot. He brings you down to his level then beats you with experience

okyme 52F

10/18/2005 5:44 pm

awwww Here I was tring to help you all out, now I expect 15 out of ten.....want to guess the last five

rm_saintlianna 45F
15466 posts
10/20/2005 6:02 pm

Damn it Okay, now where the hell are you??? I swear I am gonna have to put you on a leash.

okyme 52F

10/22/2005 7:54 pm

Sorry saint been busy with life and work, all work and no play it seems

AlbertPrince 57M

11/2/2005 1:39 am

I can lie about all 10, does that count?

okyme 52F

11/11/2005 8:31 pm

lol why sure albert

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