Is it real...  

ohsodelicious 57F
1747 posts
8/24/2006 4:59 pm

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Is it real...

Are we so Desperate that we see...that, which is not there...that we imagine...what we want to believe...that we feel...that, which is only in our imagination....


frangipanigal 44F
10406 posts
8/24/2006 5:39 pm

I wish I knew the answer to this question right now....

Frangi x


caressmewell 53F

8/24/2006 6:16 pm

I dunno?


dasher121 36M

8/25/2006 4:17 am

sometimes its better to imagine than to have nothing at all,

TheDude.


RockPebble 69M
2476 posts
8/25/2006 6:46 am

Most people live in their own head. They see what they want to see, they hear what they want to hear, it's all about them.

It's something about the way we are wired, anything that goes on for a while becomes 'normal' and expected even if we don't like it at first. It's one of the ways that we are so adaptable but not always a good way.

So the answer to your question is probably a sad YES.

XOXO


ohsodelicious 57F
1922 posts
8/25/2006 12:16 pm

    Quoting frangipanigal:
    I wish I knew the answer to this question right now....

    Frangi x
Frangi...You and me both! Some things seem to be way to confusing

Hugs...OhSo{=}


ohsodelicious 57F
1922 posts
8/25/2006 12:19 pm

caress...That's the problem...I dunno either What a sad predicament!

long sigh...OhSo{=}


ohsodelicious 57F
1922 posts
8/25/2006 12:24 pm

huny...Right to the point!! I unfortunately, may have recently, let my imagination run amuck. Oh! Well!! Shit happens!! I am now cleansed

hunybeehugs...OhSo{=}


ohsodelicious 57F
1922 posts
8/25/2006 12:27 pm

    Quoting dasher121:
    sometimes its better to imagine than to have nothing at all,

    TheDude.
dasher...That is true...to a certain degree. But, the real drag is when reality gives you a swift kick in the ass

grinning...OhSo{=}


ohsodelicious 57F
1922 posts
8/25/2006 12:38 pm

    Quoting RockPebble:
    Most people live in their own head. They see what they want to see, they hear what they want to hear, it's all about them.

    It's something about the way we are wired, anything that goes on for a while becomes 'normal' and expected even if we don't like it at first. It's one of the ways that we are so adaptable but not always a good way.

    So the answer to your question is probably a sad YES.

    XOXO
My Pebble...I agree with what you have said...but in some instances...I don't think it is all about 'them'...occasionally mixed signals can be sent and {mis}interpreted...and when a person realizes the signals were all wrong...they wonder if it was all in there imagination...in the first place.

Hugs...OhSo{=}


ohsodelicious 57F
1922 posts
8/25/2006 12:41 pm

ttm...and sometimes reality can be a real biotch

grinning...OhSo{=}


SirMounts 102M

8/26/2006 12:23 am

ohsodelicious...
Ah, so many questions, so few answers.
I like your blog, ohsodelicious. *smiling*


ohsodelicious 57F
1922 posts
8/26/2006 1:26 pm

    Quoting SirMounts:
    ohsodelicious...
    Ah, so many questions, so few answers.
    I like your blog, ohsodelicious. *smiling*
Sir...Sometimes the answers are hard to come by...Thank you OhSomuch I'm glad you like my blog It just makes a girl feel OhSospecial Thanks for stopping by...

Hugs...OhSo{=}


ohsodelicious 57F
1922 posts
8/26/2006 1:31 pm

cc...God, I wish I did sometimes My heartfelt, best wishes to you guys

smooches...OhSo{=}


ohsodelicious 57F
1922 posts
8/27/2006 4:09 pm

Dream...Unfortunately!! That is, on occasion, True

Long sigh...OhSo{=}


rm_ohsolustful 57M
859 posts
8/28/2006 5:20 am

WOW, your not expecting me to think so early on a Monday morning, and especially not after looking at your pic are you sweetheart??? I just cant do it...I seem, so, so, so, DISTRACTED...On a more serious note, I think we like to see the brighter side of things, we all wish our dreams will come true, and hopefully we always will. If you don't have dreams and something to aspire to then you might as well be dead, cause on the inside you are. the hard part is not letting yourself be deceived by your own mind, and still allowing your mind to be free enough to take the chance that what you seek just may be there...DAMN, your making me think after all!!! I am going back to lusting after that OHSOincredible photo of your, and thinking OHSOhappy lil thoughts...See you in my daydreams sweetheart


SirMounts 102M

8/28/2006 5:29 am

    Quoting ohsodelicious:
    Sir...Sometimes the answers are hard to come by...Thank you OhSomuch I'm glad you like my blog It just makes a girl feel OhSospecial Thanks for stopping by...

    Hugs...OhSo{=}
OhSo...
Well, I feel that at a very minimum, you are... OhSospecial. *smiling warmly*


MOfunNOWWOW 55F

9/4/2006 5:19 pm

Need more info sugar!

Love ya {=}


MOMO
just a squirrel trying to get a nut


rm_ohsolustful 57M
859 posts
9/7/2006 1:49 pm

Hi Sweetheart, was just checking in on blogland, and just had to say HI to my OHSOfavorite fellow blogger....I hope all is well with you....Hugs and kisses..............


NSAAddict 42F

9/11/2006 1:59 pm

Hi OhSo! Just checking in on my fave Atlanta buddies, it's been too long. This is a great post, I wish I knew the answers, sometimes it feels real and sometimes your'e just left wondering... I hate that! Hope all is well


cobra70118 105M

9/11/2006 3:36 pm

Ya got! People see what they want to see. People do not see what they do not want to see. You got it right on the money... it has to do with perception and what people put into their brains.


ohsodelicious 57F
1922 posts
9/14/2006 8:18 pm

M I know it has taken way to long to respond...but, figured better late than never! All I can say is...where should I begin:-v Way to much shit has been going on and it just kept piling-up

slowly recovering...OhSo{=}


ohsodelicious 57F
1922 posts
9/14/2006 8:25 pm

    Quoting rm_ohsolustful:
    Hi Sweetheart, was just checking in on blogland, and just had to say HI to my OHSOfavorite fellow blogger....I hope all is well with you....Hugs and kisses..............
OhSoL...Just knowing you care...puts a smile on my face You OhSowonderful horndog

Hugs...OhSo{=}


ohsodelicious 57F
1922 posts
9/14/2006 8:34 pm

    Quoting NSAAddict:
    Hi OhSo! Just checking in on my fave Atlanta buddies, it's been too long. This is a great post, I wish I knew the answers, sometimes it feels real and sometimes your'e just left wondering... I hate that! Hope all is well
NSA...You said it in a nutshell!! Being left wondering sucks for dazs!! Was lost in a fog of dismay for awhile, but the fog is lifting I hope all is well, in your neck of the woods too

Missin ya...OhSo{=}


ohsodelicious 57F
1922 posts
9/14/2006 8:43 pm

    Quoting cobra70118:
    Ya got! People see what they want to see. People do not see what they do not want to see. You got it right on the money... it has to do with perception and what people put into their brains.
cobra...There is an unfortunant aspect; to the concept though...sometimes people intentionally mislead, by sending out mixed signals...and our perception of the situation is thus, clouded!! Was that kinda deep...or am I just talking out my arse

grinning...OhSo{=}


cobra70118 105M

9/14/2006 10:48 pm

ohso

I wish just sometimes!

the question we should be constantly asking ourselves is,

what *out there* is objective and what is projection (mirroring)

Mysticism 101


ohsodelicious 57F
1922 posts
9/15/2006 12:07 am

    Quoting cobra70118:
    ohso

    I wish just sometimes!

    the question we should be constantly asking ourselves is,

    what *out there* is objective and what is projection (mirroring)

    Mysticism 101
cobra...I am familiar with the term 'mirroring' it is also a term used in the field of psychology. I am, however, at a loss, as far as Mysticism 101 entails...maybe, I should do some research and then get back with you on that aspect. We could compare notes...LOL I'm sure this is a subject...we could go-round-and-round about

occasionally grounded {grinning}...OhSo{=}


cobra70118 105M

9/18/2006 12:06 am

Ohso

you should... you might be suprised


ohsodelicious 57F
1922 posts
9/20/2006 8:37 pm

    Quoting cobra70118:
    Ohso

    you should... you might be suprised
cobra...cyberspace is still kinda new to me...but, give me a few...to review {basically...it 'equates' to finding what I'm looking for...Duh ha!!} Maybe, we can compare note at a later date

Smooches...OhSo{=}


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