The Domme and her 1st experience on the receiving end.  

ohcurious14 59M
1225 posts
5/28/2006 8:09 am

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The Domme and her 1st experience on the receiving end.

At a recent Meet & Greet, I also had the honor of giving a Domme her 1st ever spanking. Before we started, as we sat on the bed, My sweetie (Naughtyblonde), Mistress Nessa, and myself discussed what was going to be our safe word and let her voice any concerns she had.
After all was agreed upon, I placed the cuffs on her wrists and ankles and then had her lie face down on the bed. I had placed the wrists cuffs and ankle cuffs on tightly and she noticed that and i think she mumbled something like' "Oh no."

Next I took out my ropes as she lay there contemplating, What the hell am I, as a Domme, doing in this mess look on her face I began preparing my ropes to tie her down tightly to the bed. Once I had her secured, I placed a blindfold on her and made sure she was comfortable. Once she was I asked her if she was prepared and she replied meekly that she was. I began by turning on Enigma on the cd player as this is my play music.

I began by warming her ass up with my hand, spanking her, but not real hard. I warmed her ass with my hand for an entire song. As the next song started,I switched to the thinner,lighter,flogger.
I was careful not to go too hard too soon as this was her first time and I wanted her to get pleasure from this more than feel the pain.

As I took her through a series of hits with both floggers, I also did some sensory play with her as well. I got out my leather strap and doubled it up and went up by her head and cracked it and she flinched. Noticing that she was laboring on her breathing, I climbed over her and softly told her to relax and to try to control her breathing.

Now her response surprised me when I asked her if she understood. I had said
, "Do you understand?" and she replied, "Yes." I said, "What did you just say?" Then she said "Yes Sir." I said, "That's better."

I started spanking her again and switched to the riding crop. beginning slowly at first then increasing the force of the blows. As I was watching her body movements, I began to be aware of the intensity that made her react and focused on keeping the blows at a constant level of intensity. Typically I spank in somewhat of a rhythm and can be easily anticipated but I don't like it if my sub leans into an anticipated blow.

I noticed she was beginning to anticipate and said , "You know what i'm going to do next don't you?" She replied, "Yes Sir." I dropped the riding crop and gave her a double hand hard blow to the ass and said "No you don't know." With the blindfold on , me doing that to her really got to her, both in fear and it broke her concentration. I then told her, "Don't you ever anticipate my moves, cuz if you do and I see it, you'll not like what you get, got it?" This time I got an emphatic, "Yes Sir."

Continuing to spank her some more, I went back to her ass and got it nice and red and knew she would be calling yellow shortly. A few more harder blows and like clockwork she did indeed call yellow. I had given NB my wide rubber band and had her put it up to the air conditioner to chill and she gave it to me and I placed it on her ass and she reacted very well to that.

Next I decided to let her spanking feeling rest for a bit and I performed some sensory stuff on her back and ass. She responded very well to sensory and there is no better feeling than to see a body respond like hers did. I got the leather strap out next and warmed her ass and hit her back with it. She reacted alot more intensely to the strap and soon called yellow again.

This time as I awaited a green signal from her I rubbed her back and ass and she reacted to the touch quite well. I told her, "Now when you get to yellow this time i'm not going to stop and am going to take you red."

This would be the last step and i chose the wooden hairbrush as my choice of weaponry. She gave me the green and I hit her with semi forceful swing upon her left ass cheek then the right one.
Her breathing was shallow and rapid. Had I put fear into her of her hearing me mention the word red?

I spanked her maybe 7 or 8 more blows along with some intense sensory touches and she called red.
I went up to her and lay next to her and ask if she is ok? She says she is and I remove the blindfold. She was looking to her left as I removed the blindfold and she was looking in the direction of NB. What we saw on Mistress Nessa's face and eyes was the ultimate compliment. It was a look of bewilderment, a look of total pleasure, a look of Wow, WTF, and where are we, all mixed into one.

I untied her and and she said a very nice Thank-you. I am honored you allowed me to do this Mistress Nessa. I cannot wait to do again. Hmmmm and to think her birthday is coming up too.



ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
5/28/2006 9:43 am

Wow Lil Squirt, That was pretty heavy but unfortunately you have made alot of assumptions. Now I don't know if you are in the BDSM lifestyle or not, but this post was done for the benefit of the person I had this play session with. You are right in one assumption. There was no sex and none was expected either. This woman is my friend first and foremost. Secondly, she wanted to see the other side of the lifestyle, the side she had always been the giver of. I was honored to of done what I did. In the lifestyle, there is no greater gift than having one submit to you, if you are the dominant. All is discussed, talked about, understood and mutually agreed upon. As far as me being sexless? LMAO I am far far from that. In my blog opening, I have stated to give your opinion's, say what you want,and I may or may not agree with anything anyone says, and that is ok. I don't know wether or not I am being judged or that of the lifestyle. Either way, unfortunately it is in my opinion that you have made your on conclusion and that you feel I am weak. I am a Dom in the lifestyle, I have a very open-mind, am very sincere and am proud of what I do. Thank-you for voicing your opinion.


ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
5/28/2006 11:14 am

You are entitled to your opinion Lil Squirt and I commend you for speaking up. You , and i am going to assume you are not lifestyle, have touched on something that people in the lifestyle will back me up on and will support me, nor will I, in no way argue nor will I disagree with you as to the point you made about weak men. Even I will agree that there are these types but you'll have to look in a different area to find that as they are an entity themselves. I feel if you choose to voice your opinion, that you understand the lifestyle side of this and understand for yourself that there is a difference. I thank you again for replying.


fancy_for_you 39F
3014 posts
5/28/2006 12:34 pm

Ok first let me say....OC great timeline of what happened. Wish now I had fought my past and stayed.

Now Lil Squirt, I can understand your way of thinking but before you Ass U Me things you should know.....

First: Mistress Nessa is not a weak of fucked up woman. She happens to be a very strong and straight forward woman who knows what she wants and goes after it. She also doesnt take no shit from anyone. She will NOT let any man put her into a position she doesn't wish to be in.

Second: Oc is a very nice man. I myself have been beaten by a man and am very uncomfy with certain things. Because of this I think OC takes a special stand with his communication with me. He knows I find his lifestyle intrigueing but he doesn't push me into anything. Infact he has actually told me to really think about it and read about the lifestyle and then come talk to him and he will answer any questions for me. With me he has become a protector I believe and a very nice friend who is giving me hope that there are some good guys left out there. And he would never ever put a woman into a situation like this without her WANTING to be there.

Third: Believe it or not there are women who get very turned on by this and need it to become aroused to be able to have sex. While nothing sexual happened in this story that doesn't mean it won't in the future. I will be the first to say it's hard to get me to feel anything so if this would wake my body up so I can feel during sex then who knows maybe someday I will try but not till I FEEL I AM READY....not when some man tells me I am. There's something that thrills me about the idea of being blindfolded and having things done to my body that I can't see. It's like laying in bed and closing your eyes and then being able to feel the breeze from the fan on your body, or hear the dogs in the other room playing, but then you can also hear your breathing, and the creak of the matress under you, and you can feel yourself relaxing.....as you can probably tell I am thinking more and more about certain things.

You can bet that when I decide to try this that OC & NB will be who I go to. I trust them completely. I know if I say stop they will stop. I know if I can't take it and start having flashbacks to another time they will be there to comfort me. I also know that even if I think I am ok but they don't think so they will stop.

OC hun I know you didn't need defending but I just couldn't help it. As I said I enjoyed the reinactment of the events. I so have to watch a session all the way through now.

Hugs & kisses

Fuzzy


~~Fuzzy~~


ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
5/28/2006 3:48 pm

Fuzzy you may say whatever you like here hun. This is a sounding board and everyone doesn't see eye to eye and that's ok too.Everyone is entitled to there own opinion but would prefer that they have the facts before barking.


Mistress_Nessa 40F

5/28/2006 7:01 pm

First of all, I'd like to thank OHC for taking the time to write this, I really appreciate it. Thanks hun!! I loved it!

Second, LilSquirt, I'll have you know that I am in NO WAY weak and helpless, this was not something he talked me into, or something that he convinced me to do. This is something that I WANTED TO DO, so I did it. And guess what? I want to do it again, and I'm going to. You think this is abuse?? Honey you haven't SEEN abuse. When you have a guy shove a gun into your mouth, and have his buddies touch your body and be told that if you even move, your brain will end up splattered all over the damn bed, THEN you've seen abuse. And that's something that will NOT EVER happen to me. It almost did once, but I am not weak, and I am not fucking stupid.

I have my own slaves, that I perform some of the things described above... And I really should tell you that NOTHING they don't want is done to them. Just like I wasn't forced into anything. I can honestly tell you that I didn't get NOTHING I DIDN'T WANT. This is something I choose to do, out of my own free will, because I wanted to experience the other side. Not because I'm some poor little woman who people take advantage of. Furthermore, Yes, there was no sex involve at the time... Except for that wonderful encounter with NaughtyBlonde (which I also can't wait to repeat). But that doesn't matter, because that doesn't mean there won't be any sex in the future, and even if there wasn't. The thrilled I received from this experience was... Amazing!! It wasn't short of anything, didn't lack anything, didn't need anything else.

I understand your issues about abuse, and I will be the first one to back you up on any type shape or form of abuse. But this, isn't abuse. I would suggest that you try reading some about the subject. It will perhaps enlighten you a bit... I remember I was once like you... Once upon a time.

OHC & NB Thank you so much for that wonderful unforgettable experience!

Love Always,

~ Nessa ~


Nightguy_1961 55M
4866 posts
5/28/2006 11:20 pm

It would appear that, once again, someone has taken the stereotypes of BDSM to heart.

We are not abusers of women...far from it. I would cut off my arm before I would hurt my Alpha submissive deliberately or accidentally.

We treasure submissives and the gift they give to us...submissives give us their submission; we don't force it from them...

And...if you think that submissive women are weak, then I would invite you to talk with my lady about that....but watch out, with her Cajun temper, you might get more than you bargained for...

Granted, there are abusers who hide in our ranks....just like they hide in the vanilla ranks.....

You call us abusers...and that is your option......but what if others called you a slut, because of your preference for MFM activities? It is a little different when the barrel of the gun is pointed in the other direction, now is it not.....?

Before you poke your finger in my eye, make sure your own fingernails are clean....thank you.

I would invite you to go to such sites as DifferentEquals or GallahadsSafeHaven and read about the romance of BDSM before you throw out the abuse label.....because for over 20 years, I've heard that label being bandied about.....and I am tired of it.

Sorry, OC....didn't mean to hijack your blog...my apologies....

NG61....storming back into the darkness as the thunder rolls and the lightning flashes....


ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
5/29/2006 12:49 am

    Quoting rm_mzhunyhole:
    I have read the story and comments with great interest.I have been reading Nightguy's blog for sometime now and he has given me great insight on this lifestyle.Although I am not sure that it is for me..I am not about to judge those that do enjoy it.
Well MzHuny, I know for a fact that NG amd I both respect you as a fellow blogger and the fact you do not judge WIITWD. Your words speak volumes here and are most appreciated . Thanks for your words.


ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
5/29/2006 12:59 am

    Quoting Nightguy_1961:
    It would appear that, once again, someone has taken the stereotypes of BDSM to heart.

    We are not abusers of women...far from it. I would cut off my arm before I would hurt my Alpha submissive deliberately or accidentally.

    We treasure submissives and the gift they give to us...submissives give us their submission; we don't force it from them...

    And...if you think that submissive women are weak, then I would invite you to talk with my lady about that....but watch out, with her Cajun temper, you might get more than you bargained for...

    Granted, there are abusers who hide in our ranks....just like they hide in the vanilla ranks.....

    You call us abusers...and that is your option......but what if others called you a slut, because of your preference for MFM activities? It is a little different when the barrel of the gun is pointed in the other direction, now is it not.....?

    Before you poke your finger in my eye, make sure your own fingernails are clean....thank you.

    I would invite you to go to such sites as DifferentEquals or GallahadsSafeHaven and read about the romance of BDSM before you throw out the abuse label.....because for over 20 years, I've heard that label being bandied about.....and I am tired of it.

    Sorry, OC....didn't mean to hijack your blog...my apologies....

    NG61....storming back into the darkness as the thunder rolls and the lightning flashes....
First and foremost NG, you may Sir, at anytime post anything you wish or link anything you so desire to my blog or mine to yours. I knew you would have a great deal to say about WIITWD and the judgers who don't know WIITWD. I thank you for reiterating the fact that submission is given freely. There was no need for you to apologise either. Just the fact that you commented is an honor. Thanks and welcome back to you and your Lady.


ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
5/29/2006 7:15 am

    Quoting PassionsWine:
    I am a loyal and respectful reader of Sir NG and His Lady as they know I am not in the life style, do I have curiosities or peaks of interst Yes. Do I judge MOST CERTAINLY NOT.What two people desire between them is up to them as long as they do not hurt anyone in return and as long as it is between consenting adults. Do your desires make you any less of a person MOST CERTAINLY NOT

    This your space and although everyone is entitled to their opinion , no one has the right to flame your blog in such a manner .

    P.W
Wow Passionswine, You have deeply touched me in your words and am so glad you visited and voiced your opinion, one that is most appreciated. Please drop in anytime.


GoddessOfTheDawn 105F
11238 posts
5/29/2006 8:48 am


ohcurious, thank you for sharing this experience with all of us. I must say I hope lilsquirt returns here to see the different viewpoints of the ladies involved and others that have the utmost respect for those involved in the lifestyle, even if not fully understood (yet we are all educated by sharing of things like this post and yes, the blogs of NG and his lady and their friends too ....)

~ sighz ~ so much to learn, so many to teach


ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
5/29/2006 10:00 am

Well Goddess, that was very eloquently said and I wish for the same. Your support means so much and I give you a very deeply, heartfelt thank-you.


Twister2bed 47M
617 posts
5/29/2006 10:17 am

"WEAK" MEN try to "make themselves feel strong" by playing into the "Weak"nesses of others... and cleverly use words to make themselves believe it is ok to abuse, and worse, to play into and thus increase the weaknesses of others ... usually someone 1/2 their size.

Hmm you don't understand the lifestlye Lil.
Its not done out of abuse or anger its done for pleasure for both the Dom and the sub.
I'll admit I don't get into it but I respect others choice to do so.
As for the Weak Men comment you do realize Women are Doms as well right? And theres probably a thousand guys on here who would love to be spanked by MN or NB But hey although it has some appeal like I said I don't get into it. But I at least respect everyones own choice of play.
Read up a little on BDSM before you condem others.


wickedeasy 66F  
25468 posts
5/29/2006 10:21 am

it has been said and beautifully - but may i reinforce.......

a Sir/Dom does not abuse, does not do anything not already negotiated and bears the physical and spiritual and emotional wellbeing of the submissive as a constant

this may not be for everyone - neither is swinging, or a menage a trois. but no one seems to judge that on AdultFriendFinder. i would expect the same consideration for WIITWD.

sighs

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


ButteryDelight 58F

5/29/2006 12:31 pm

I hope a rank newbie can say something here. Well here goes..* takes a deep breath.

First, comments like those from Lil Squirt just confuse me/us who generally want to understand and experience BDSM. Yes, I don't understand all of the lifestyle at this point. But, I hope to some day. I hope to experience it in real life too. Secondly, even though I don't understand it all I don't judge and condemn those that do this. Third and lastly, it's a great big world out there with lots of different people and lots of different needs. All should feel free to discover and meet those needs.

I will hush now. But, it just seems to me that a little more tolerance of said differences is what is needed.
ButteryDelight


GB_Cple 66M/55F  
3038 posts
5/29/2006 12:36 pm

Not wishing to comment, on the other comments, We just want to say , that we love spanking , and it is very offen used as forplay, for some very heavy sex.

We avoid the BDSM scene, but that doesn't mean we don't enjoy ourselves ,

loverly written piece


ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
5/29/2006 2:34 pm

    Quoting Twister2bed:
    "WEAK" MEN try to "make themselves feel strong" by playing into the "Weak"nesses of others... and cleverly use words to make themselves believe it is ok to abuse, and worse, to play into and thus increase the weaknesses of others ... usually someone 1/2 their size.

    Hmm you don't understand the lifestlye Lil.
    Its not done out of abuse or anger its done for pleasure for both the Dom and the sub.
    I'll admit I don't get into it but I respect others choice to do so.
    As for the Weak Men comment you do realize Women are Doms as well right? And theres probably a thousand guys on here who would love to be spanked by MN or NB But hey although it has some appeal like I said I don't get into it. But I at least respect everyones own choice of play.
    Read up a little on BDSM before you condem others.
Thanks twister for your support and opinion. You know actually this is as simple as explaining thr reasoning as to why you go to one movie over the other. It is done by choice, not by force and just because I choose not to see the same movie doesn't make me weak, I just have different preferences in taste.Thanks for visiting and do come back often.


ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
5/29/2006 2:37 pm

    Quoting wickedeasy:
    it has been said and beautifully - but may i reinforce.......

    a Sir/Dom does not abuse, does not do anything not already negotiated and bears the physical and spiritual and emotional wellbeing of the submissive as a constant

    this may not be for everyone - neither is swinging, or a menage a trois. but no one seems to judge that on AdultFriendFinder. i would expect the same consideration for WIITWD.

    sighs
Wicked, I knew I would be able to count on you and I thank you so much. You were the sounding board who gave me the push to not give up at the beginning and oh what a long trip it's been. I kindly and humbly thank-you for your continuing support.


Cowboy_Deluxe 38M

5/29/2006 2:53 pm

Ohh this is a different kind of seduction thing. I don't really think I could do that to a woman. I don't mind it myself though. I have had women do this to me, not quite as extreme, and I never begged for them to stop, not once. They never drug it out that long.

I do however think it is great that you made the woman comfortable every chance you got. Guess I'll leave that all like that then.


ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
5/29/2006 3:54 pm

    Quoting katsback:
    I WAS WAITING FOR THE SEX, HMMM DISAPOINTED,,,LOL
It will be coming hun, was actually even thinking of including you in the story with your permission of course.


ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
5/29/2006 4:00 pm

    Quoting ButteryDelight:
    I hope a rank newbie can say something here. Well here goes..* takes a deep breath.

    First, comments like those from Lil Squirt just confuse me/us who generally want to understand and experience BDSM. Yes, I don't understand all of the lifestyle at this point. But, I hope to some day. I hope to experience it in real life too. Secondly, even though I don't understand it all I don't judge and condemn those that do this. Third and lastly, it's a great big world out there with lots of different people and lots of different needs. All should feel free to discover and meet those needs.

    I will hush now. But, it just seems to me that a little more tolerance of said differences is what is needed.
    ButteryDelight
Buttery, Your voice is always welcomed here hun. Feel free to comment or ask anything you want anytime. As a lifestyler who is dedicated, we are alays willing to share and discuss any thing one might think of. There are many sights on web that can help you understand more. NG has mentioned a couple in his blog and one . there are many things you can learn from going to that site. Thanks foposting and feel free to visit often.


ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
5/29/2006 4:05 pm

    Quoting GB_Cple:
    Not wishing to comment, on the other comments, We just want to say , that we love spanking , and it is very offen used as forplay, for some very heavy sex.

    We avoid the BDSM scene, but that doesn't mean we don't enjoy ourselves ,

    loverly written piece
Thank-you GB cple. Your honesty is appreciated and there is nothing at all wrong with what your doing. Spankings can be made to be so much fun...


ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
5/29/2006 5:12 pm

    Quoting Sensuous_Salz:
    So much misinformation and uninformed belief here, I cannot begin to think where to start.

    I will most likely be back after I have time to calm myself and write out a reasoned, intelligent response.

    I do have to say right now though, that I am NOT weak, I am NOT a person lacking in self-respect and I am NOT a doormat.

    I AM strong. I AM intelligent. I AM articulate. I AM giving. I AM loyal. I AM mentally healthy. I AM SUBMISSIVE. I do NOT give the gift of submission to just anyone. I only give it to the one that earned the TRUST and can handle the level of RESPONSIBILITY such a gift requires.

    If it is of any interest to you, I have been in an abusive relationship many years ago. I was married to a WEAK man that was a CONTROL FREAK. He was most certainly not a DOM. Far from it.
    I was STRONG enough to walk away with 2 children under the age of 4. How dare you ASSUME that I am weak and being abused because I CHOOSE to be controlled by my DH in my personal life?

    I suggest you do some reading and learn what we are speaking of before you go throwing stones.

    Salz~a STRONG SUBMISSIVE~
This humbled Dom is honored by your prescence, and proud you stand behind WIITWD. I thank you kindly.


ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
5/29/2006 5:14 pm

    Quoting Cowboy_Deluxe:
    Ohh this is a different kind of seduction thing. I don't really think I could do that to a woman. I don't mind it myself though. I have had women do this to me, not quite as extreme, and I never begged for them to stop, not once. They never drug it out that long.

    I do however think it is great that you made the woman comfortable every chance you got. Guess I'll leave that all like that then.
Your thoughts and feedback are most appreciated Cowboy.


complexlysimple 34M

5/29/2006 7:05 pm

Hmmm, I don't mean to offend anyone, but what if both sides are right?

Me being me, BDSM and abuse can seem somewhat similar physically ...the largest difference seems to be the relationship and emotional aspect of it ..and that seems like it could be a very fine line, especially to someone on the outside..

Depending on how you want to look at it, both Dom and sub could be seen as weak, or strong ..

The "sub" being weak by not wishing to inflict pain on one they love, but being strong by being able to relinquish control and accept.

The "dom" being weak by not ready to that much control, but strong by having the self control to inflict moderate amounts of pain on someone they care about without causing harm -not an easy task from where I sit.

Then again I really don't know for sure...


LustyTaurus 48M  
21253 posts
5/29/2006 8:03 pm

Thanks for posting the story ohcurious...i am COMPLETELY unfamiliar with the BDSM lifestyle beyond an intellectual acknowledgement that it exists. You are both willing participants who obviously share something that I would view as profound and I have a little more understanding now..TY

I have started folowing NG recently and haven't dived to his posts on this subject..I think I will now.

lustytaurus


OboesHonedIambs 62F

5/29/2006 10:14 pm

Uh, Lil Squirt, I'm a pretty vanilla kinda gal, but please, show a little courtesy and grace here. You're the visitor here and ohcurious14 is our host.

The participants were willing, they played by their rules and got what they wanted. I get it mixed up but what do they say, "safe, sane, consensual???" And what did ohcurious14 write? "At a recent Meet & Greet, I also had the honor of giving a Domme her 1st ever spanking. Before we started, as we sat on the bed, My sweetie (Naughtyblonde), Mistress Nessa, and myself discussed what was going to be our safe word and let her voice any concerns she had.
After all was agreed upon,...." As the narrative continued, use of the caution and safe words was respected throughout. If the Lady had an objection to him pushing past the "yellow" with her, she had the choice of using the safe word then and there and thus ending her spanking scene. Key words: " had the honor of giving a Domme her 1st ever ...", My sweetie (Naughtyblonde), Mistress Nessa, and myself discussed..." "after all was agreed upon...". You gotta read for the content and the context.

Their choice is not yours or mine, but please don't make the mistake of assuming that people who play in the BDSM world for THEIR pleasure are screwed up and "shouldn't oughta do that stuff." And since when is SEX ever just about sex, anyway? You can run into some pretty twisted fucks who only do vanilla sex.

Stuff the feminist cant when you're visiting a dom or domme's blog. If you can't read what they say with an open mind then have do the "oops, I-seem-to-have-the-wrong-room-thing" and excuse yourself quietly and go back to your comfort zones. It's simple, I promise.

Instant Human -- Just Add Coffee


PurplePeach72 44F  
9199 posts
5/29/2006 10:30 pm

I won't give the ignorance spouted earlier any more air time.

I do want to thank you for posting this. We are new and exploring this lifestyle, with me being the Dom. I'm considering taking some personal lessons, but have been told the best way to learn is to take lessons as a sub. I'm very intrigued and want to learn more before I go for my lessons. Definitely wan to be a good girl for this hottie! Getting wet just thinking about it!
Thanks {=}LeeAnn & steve


Kisses,
LA


ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
5/30/2006 5:09 am

    Quoting Sensuous_Salz:
    Oh my. I have realized that in my heated defense of WIITWD, I neglected to send my sincere thanks to you for posting this wonderful story of your shared experience.
    I very much enjoyed reading it. The experience of not knowing which is coming next is one I enjoy greatly. My DH often varies the intensity and strives to not have a pattern for me to anticipate. I 'fly' much better that way, as a predictible pattern seems to inhibit me from reaching sub-space.

    Salz~again, thank you for sharing~
It's ok Salz, I totally understand. I am happy you enjoyed the story and look forward to you visiting often.


ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
5/30/2006 5:19 am

    Quoting complexlysimple:
    Hmmm, I don't mean to offend anyone, but what if both sides are right?

    Me being me, BDSM and abuse can seem somewhat similar physically ...the largest difference seems to be the relationship and emotional aspect of it ..and that seems like it could be a very fine line, especially to someone on the outside..

    Depending on how you want to look at it, both Dom and sub could be seen as weak, or strong ..

    The "sub" being weak by not wishing to inflict pain on one they love, but being strong by being able to relinquish control and accept.

    The "dom" being weak by not ready to that much control, but strong by having the self control to inflict moderate amounts of pain on someone they care about without causing harm -not an easy task from where I sit.

    Then again I really don't know for sure...
Thanks for your comments and I understand the point you are trying to make however the point your missing or the fact that you just don't know is this. In a Dom/Sub relationship, nothing is ever done that is not of mutual agreement. It is common knowledge in the lifestyle that play is never entered into unless both parties are in a sane state. The Dom has to be in total control at all times otherwise the Dom/Domme could put the submissive in a dangerous position of being hurt. To make sure that don't happen, a safe word is commonly used. This gives the submissive an out. So from that standpoint i'll have to disagree with your opinion.


ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
5/30/2006 5:28 am

    Quoting LustyTaurus:
    Thanks for posting the story ohcurious...i am COMPLETELY unfamiliar with the BDSM lifestyle beyond an intellectual acknowledgement that it exists. You are both willing participants who obviously share something that I would view as profound and I have a little more understanding now..TY

    I have started folowing NG recently and haven't dived to his posts on this subject..I think I will now.

    lustytaurus
This lifestyle is not for everyone but I can assure you most in the lifestyle will help anyone understand WIITWD. Feel free to ask any ???? anytime and hope you visit Ng & my blog's often. As you can also see, the BDSM Community of bloggers, definately standup for what they believe in and are willing to support anyone .


ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
5/30/2006 5:36 am

    Quoting rm_Jeff196892:
    Wow OC, that was quite the story, as I have been becoming more and more interested in the lifestyle, I appreciated every word of it. Not sure if I completely get it, but here goes anyway, I am guessing that this lifestyle is all about respect for each other, and the feelings and emotions (all types of emotions, not just the same ones that everyone shares at some point) that you can share together.
    Am I at least in the ballpark?
I tell you what my friend. We will discuss this in great detail next time we see each other. In my opinion, lifestylers are or seem to be more in touch with their emotions and are more open-minded. Gather up a list of questions and we will discuss this soon.


ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
5/30/2006 5:42 am

    Quoting OboesHonedIambs:
    Uh, Lil Squirt, I'm a pretty vanilla kinda gal, but please, show a little courtesy and grace here. You're the visitor here and ohcurious14 is our host.

    The participants were willing, they played by their rules and got what they wanted. I get it mixed up but what do they say, "safe, sane, consensual???" And what did ohcurious14 write? "At a recent Meet & Greet, I also had the honor of giving a Domme her 1st ever spanking. Before we started, as we sat on the bed, My sweetie (Naughtyblonde), Mistress Nessa, and myself discussed what was going to be our safe word and let her voice any concerns she had.
    After all was agreed upon,...." As the narrative continued, use of the caution and safe words was respected throughout. If the Lady had an objection to him pushing past the "yellow" with her, she had the choice of using the safe word then and there and thus ending her spanking scene. Key words: " had the honor of giving a Domme her 1st ever ...", My sweetie (Naughtyblonde), Mistress Nessa, and myself discussed..." "after all was agreed upon...". You gotta read for the content and the context.

    Their choice is not yours or mine, but please don't make the mistake of assuming that people who play in the BDSM world for THEIR pleasure are screwed up and "shouldn't oughta do that stuff." And since when is SEX ever just about sex, anyway? You can run into some pretty twisted fucks who only do vanilla sex.

    Stuff the feminist cant when you're visiting a dom or domme's blog. If you can't read what they say with an open mind then have do the "oops, I-seem-to-have-the-wrong-room-thing" and excuse yourself quietly and go back to your comfort zones. It's simple, I promise.
Very good comments and they are appreciated very much. I have made reference many times as to the number of narrow minded people who only focus on what it is that they personally believe in and believe all others are whacked. Again, well spoken words from you. Thanks


ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
5/30/2006 5:56 am

    Quoting PurplePeach72:
    I won't give the ignorance spouted earlier any more air time.

    I do want to thank you for posting this. We are new and exploring this lifestyle, with me being the Dom. I'm considering taking some personal lessons, but have been told the best way to learn is to take lessons as a sub. I'm very intrigued and want to learn more before I go for my lessons. Definitely wan to be a good girl for this hottie! Getting wet just thinking about it!
    Thanks {=}LeeAnn & steve
I am glad you liked the post and I will continue to post stories like these. As far as taking lessons goes, rgat is great as long as it works for you. I, myself was introduced into the lifestyle by a local in town here and as I slowly became more involved, I was able to meet more and more people in the lifestyle and gained a great deal of knowledge from them. I am also honored to have 2 mentors, a Dom/Submissive couple who have mentored me and gave a full scale dungeon in their basement. I was blessed to learn from the beginning from this couple and we are the best of friends. In whatever you decide to do or which way to go, Communication is vital. You'll be amazed where you can go. You two are only limited by the desire and needs you have and all should be mutally agreed upon and do wharever works the best for you both, together. I have even learned alot from NG's wisdom and reading anyone's blog here who I know to be lifestyle. Best of luck in your quest.


ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
5/30/2006 6:04 am

    Quoting PurplePeach72:
    I won't give the ignorance spouted earlier any more air time.

    I do want to thank you for posting this. We are new and exploring this lifestyle, with me being the Dom. I'm considering taking some personal lessons, but have been told the best way to learn is to take lessons as a sub. I'm very intrigued and want to learn more before I go for my lessons. Definitely wan to be a good girl for this hottie! Getting wet just thinking about it!
    Thanks {=}LeeAnn & steve
One thing I did forget to mention was To visit Nightguy_1961 blog and also my soon to be collared submissive's blog, naughtyblonde78
She has posted several of our play sessions there.


Bladesong 40F
476 posts
5/30/2006 11:50 am

    Quoting LilSquirt_4mfm:

    yer really brave with defenceless lil females ... some questions

    WTF does this have to do with sex?? .. appears, nothing!!

    .. .are you sexless yourself ? and doin this stuff is a way to hide it??

    Lil♥Jessica♥SQuirt
If you are asking this question then you shouldn't be looking at this post. This has to do with a BDSM relationship and is much more than you can even imagine or experience.

~It is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved!

Be Good to those around you!

Blade


Bladesong 40F
476 posts
5/30/2006 11:54 am

    Quoting LilSquirt_4mfm:

    again, i just cry for those who have no self respect and i know that some "very weak men" will "USE" them. ... and "justify it" because it is "voluntary"

    ...... and that they will even spring to defend their abusers

    again!!!, "REAL & Strong" MEN play into Strengths in others, or help instill strength in other people, not take advantage of their weaknesses

    "WEAK" MEN try to "make themselves feel strong" by playing into the "Weak"nesses of others... and cleverly use words to make themselves believe it is ok to abuse, and worse, to play into and thus increase the weaknesses of others ... usually someone 1/2 their size.
Actually it takes a lot of self respect and trust to be able to give control over. Just because you can not and want to make others think they are less because you can not does not mean your anymore right then them. These were two people who were sharing their beautiful experience together and well many thank them. If you don't like what they have to say then stop reading the thread. You just want to stir trouble.

~It is better to have loved and lost than to have never loved!

Be Good to those around you!

Blade


ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
5/30/2006 1:59 pm

    Quoting rm_silkditty:
    I'm reading your post late, brought here by GoddessoftheDawn.

    Amazed by the carelessness and vitriol of Lil Squirt's assumptions.

    I am very new to D/s BDSM. I always felt a little horrified by it

    until I stepped through the door

    It's like anything in life that you pre-judge or fear when you don't understand it. Once you step through the door, though, all of your thoughts and perceptions change with understanding.
I am so glad you dropped by and posted Silkditty, I do hope she has learned from this and if not then she will in all likeliness feel alot of heat from those in WIITWD... Again I thank you and feel fre to visit anytime.


ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
5/30/2006 2:06 pm

    Quoting Bladesong:
    Actually it takes a lot of self respect and trust to be able to give control over. Just because you can not and want to make others think they are less because you can not does not mean your anymore right then them. These were two people who were sharing their beautiful experience together and well many thank them. If you don't like what they have to say then stop reading the thread. You just want to stir trouble.
Bladesong, I thank you also for your kind words and for your support.
Being a new blogger, I am touched by the caliber of bloggers who have stepped up in support and deep down within, I am honored that you all have made your prescence felt and become voices of reasoning on the sounding board. Hope to see you here visiting on a regular basis as well.


HBowt2 58F

5/30/2006 4:48 pm

Thanks for the post...I really enjoyed reading it...I'm a great believer in everyone to their own and what they are comfortable with....


complexlysimple 34M

5/30/2006 7:01 pm

    Quoting ohcurious14:
    Thanks for your comments and I understand the point you are trying to make however the point your missing or the fact that you just don't know is this. In a Dom/Sub relationship, nothing is ever done that is not of mutual agreement. It is common knowledge in the lifestyle that play is never entered into unless both parties are in a sane state. The Dom has to be in total control at all times otherwise the Dom/Domme could put the submissive in a dangerous position of being hurt. To make sure that don't happen, a safe word is commonly used. This gives the submissive an out. So from that standpoint i'll have to disagree with your opinion.
I agree with your statement and am fairly aware of what you're saying... so I'm not sure where we would be disagreeing if you see teh point I was making.

I guess what I don't understand is why defend BDSM to someone who doesn't understand it ...I figure something of value should be able to stand on it's own.. so perhaps I posted more in reply to other comments made than the actual post.

My sincere apologies.


ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
5/30/2006 7:48 pm

    Quoting HBowt2:
    Thanks for the post...I really enjoyed reading it...I'm a great believer in everyone to their own and what they are comfortable with....
Thanks HBowt2, I'm glad you enjoyed and feel that way.Hope you visit often as well.


ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
5/30/2006 8:04 pm

    Quoting complexlysimple:
    I agree with your statement and am fairly aware of what you're saying... so I'm not sure where we would be disagreeing if you see teh point I was making.

    I guess what I don't understand is why defend BDSM to someone who doesn't understand it ...I figure something of value should be able to stand on it's own.. so perhaps I posted more in reply to other comments made than the actual post.

    My sincere apologies.
Thanks for responding back Complexlysimple, In actuality I was only trying to clarify why I disagreed with you in the first place. Based on how Lil Squirt chastised WIITWD, and you had stated that we are both perhaps right, I was trying to give you some common background information so that you may understand how it would be impossible for us both to be right. Lil Squirt chose to chastise the lifestyle and since she bit before she barked she now has created quite a predicament for herself. That's what happens when one assumes. She unfortunately chose to use my blog and question my integrity and chastise not only me but the lifestyle in general and she knows nothing about it. She should of created her own post in her own blog voicing her displeasure with men and women that are abusive. The BDSM lifestyle is , in no way abusive when what is done is communicated beforehand, mutually agreed on, and the submissive for the most part has the opportunity to stop play at the call of a safeword. Now I will acknowledge that during a punishment, there is no use of a safeword but it is in the Dom/Domme's hands and the knowledge of the person's body that is being punished to know when enough is enough.There are also Dom/Domme/Sub relationships where the safeword is not used and then that becomes the sole discretion of the Dom/Domme to stop and one needs to know that person's body reactions and tolerance level in order to do this. In abuse the recipient is given no choice period. I hope this makes this all a little clearer for you.


ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
5/30/2006 8:07 pm

I guess what I don't understand is why defend BDSM to someone who doesn't understand it ...I figure something of value should be able to stand on it's own.. so perhaps I posted more in reply to other comments made than the actual post.

My sincere apologies.


There really is no need to apologise. I take no offense whatsoever for any of your comments. I'll never prevent you from voicing your opinion.


complexlysimple 34M

5/30/2006 8:51 pm

Seems to be the case quite often -very fine lines separating things on seemingly opposing ends of the spectrum ... but I definitely enjoyed the post it really confirmed a few things for me about BDSM -in a good way.


ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
5/30/2006 9:48 pm

    Quoting complexlysimple:
    Seems to be the case quite often -very fine lines separating things on seemingly opposing ends of the spectrum ... but I definitely enjoyed the post it really confirmed a few things for me about BDSM -in a good way.
I am glad that it did and should you feel the need to ask any others questions or concerns please feel free to do so.


Nightguy_1961 55M
4866 posts
5/30/2006 10:30 pm

Hmmmmmm....after all the good points and counterpoints.....and the lady declines to return and debate the point....typical....

NG61...disappearing back into the darkness...


fancy_for_you 39F
3014 posts
5/30/2006 11:46 pm

Yeah ain't it funny how they tend to do that NG? Maybe some people should learn to be prepared to back up their statements before making them.

Fuzzy

~~Fuzzy~~


ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
5/31/2006 10:10 am

    Quoting Nightguy_1961:
    Hmmmmmm....after all the good points and counterpoints.....and the lady declines to return and debate the point....typical....

    NG61...disappearing back into the darkness...
Well NG I can't actually say i'm really surprised either. She must of realized that not only did she bark up the wrong tree but must of also realized she was in the wrong neighborhood as well. Thanks again my Friend!!!!! You have humbled me.


ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
5/31/2006 10:11 am

    Quoting fancy_for_you:
    Yeah ain't it funny how they tend to do that NG? Maybe some people should learn to be prepared to back up their statements before making them.

    Fuzzy
Open Mouth, Insert Foot sure comes to mind.


OboesHonedIambs 62F

5/31/2006 12:54 pm

    Quoting Nightguy_1961:
    Hmmmmmm....after all the good points and counterpoints.....and the lady declines to return and debate the point....typical....

    NG61...disappearing back into the darkness...
Heh, I think that's what they call chickenshit!

Instant Human -- Just Add Coffee


ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
5/31/2006 1:18 pm

I'd have to agree with you on this.


ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
5/31/2006 1:21 pm

    Quoting rm_mzhunyhole:
    And now ya can go back to your regular blogging..supported by your real friends.
And Oh what a great group of friends I have too. It is amazing how sidetracked I got dealing with this but by the same token would not want to let anyones comments go without responding back to them, appreciative of their kind, thoughtful words.You all have humbled me.


wann69u 38F

6/2/2006 9:06 pm

Well Looks like I came in at the end of this whole thing, but just wanted to say something quick and make my first post on ohc's page. When i chatted with OhC this stuff came up. I am unfamiliar with it and he directed me to his and NB's blog and said to read about it there.. which i did. I was chatting with him and never came back to chat, not because if freaked me out, but turned me on, I couldnt stop reading about it and needless to say i went to another room in my house with all kinds of thoughts running in my head. As much as this is a mental turn on for me in my mind i dont think it is something i could do or experience with anyone. Like it has been mentioned by others, TRUST is a big issue with this. And trust is something that i have a hard time giving others. Just wanted to say Ohc and NB and everyone else, i have not experienced what you talk of, but have total respect for people that participate in it. It says alot about a relationship and the understanding and trust they share.

J


rm_lookiing4 40M/40F

6/8/2006 11:34 am

i see you either like real strong men or you dislike weak people in genral.


rm_iwannatellu 45F
933 posts
6/9/2006 10:49 am

Well, I found the story most interesting, and enlightening. Very "educational"...

Look forward to another


ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
6/9/2006 3:44 pm

    Quoting rm_lookiing4:
    i see you either like real strong men or you dislike weak people in genral.
I think you might of missed the point here but if you would please restate what you meant so that i may understand.


ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
6/9/2006 3:46 pm

    Quoting rm_iwannatellu:
    Well, I found the story most interesting, and enlightening. Very "educational"...

    Look forward to another
Thank you for visiting and I am glad you enjoyed.


Mistress_Nessa 40F

6/10/2006 8:41 pm

    Quoting LilSquirt_4mfm:

    Interesting that Each and every one seems to instinctively know that "female demeaning practices" sure !!! NEEDS !!! a lot of defense.....and predicatably rushed to do so .... especially the recievers of demeaning practices.

    That merely a simple few words "calling it what it is" (i will restate those words at the end here in as it seems everyone missed the main premise i wished to state) would draw defenders out of the depths ... or maybe i should say the dark dungeons ...... tells a huge story.

    ?? Ever notice? that those who know they have a Solid Premise in any aspect of life instintively know that it doesn't NEED defending, at least not verbally, ..........and Especially not needed to be defended from a non believer. ??? ... ... hmmmmmmmm ..
    (I really try hard to monitor myself when I feel a need to defend a belief of mine, because if I am really sure of my beliefs, I would never feel a need to defend them ... from anyone)

    Many sprang to defend a "practice" BUT conveniently "danced around" the real premise itself ......(more effort wasted "dancing around" the point than in making a point)

    NOT ONE challenged the "central" original premise, that:

    1. "REAL & Strong" MEN play into Strengths in others, or help instill strength in other people, not take advantage of their weaknesses

    2. "WEAK" MEN try to "make themselves feel strong" by playing into the "Weak"nesses of others.

    so i guess it stood for itself, unchallenged, as, of course, it should ...... that it is solid, is pecisely why i put it forward in the 1st place

    This became another "classic" thread on the "why's of" and the so predictable "panic in" ....."Defensive Behavior".
Lilsquirt,

Again, apparently you have completely missed the WHOLE point. It is quite apparent that you are unwilling to even try to understand the whole idea of it. Being I have absolutely no patience when it comes to ignorance, I won't waste my time trying to help you see the light. There are, however, a few things that I'd like to address about your last post.

1.- "Female Demeaning practices" -- You used that phrase a few times in your post, so I'm wondering, are "Male Demeaning practices" ok? I personally didn't find ANYTHING demeaning about what happened with Ohcurious14, apparently you did, and I will respect your opinion. However, I have slaves/submissives also, do you find that demeaning too? I AM a Mistress, and my slaves/submissives are BOTH male and female. I'd appreciate it if you take that phrase out of your vocabulary when addressing this subject.

2.- IF you actually READ every post on this thread, you will see that there were ALL kinds of people giving you their opinion on this matter, even non practicer's, it is my personal belief that YOU were the one who danced around and didn't bother to read some of those posts. They were NOT defending it, they were stating FACTS, facts that you seem to have missed.

3.-You say: "REAL & Strong" MEN play into Strengths in others, or help instill strength in other people, not take advantage of their weaknesses 2. "WEAK" MEN try to "make themselves feel strong" by playing into the "Weak"nesses of others." This statement in itself says a lot about you, and I feel I should retract my previous statement when I said you didn't have a clue about what abuse is. It is quite apparent that you've had quite a few "WEAK" MEN in your life, who apparently "made themselves feel strong" by, perhaps, putting you through some of those "Female Demeaning Practices"

That would answer the "why's" many people have at your apparent "panic" towards this lifestyle. Don't get me wrong, if that is not the case, then my apologies. However, should that be the case, I can understand why you would have such ideas towards this, but even then, I still say that you shouldn't judge a book by it's cover.

Sincerely,

~ Mistress Nessa ~


Nightguy_1961 55M
4866 posts
6/11/2006 9:12 am

    Quoting LilSquirt_4mfm:
    Totally Amazzzzzing!!!!

    1st - If any of you had even moderate degree of confidence in what you say, every one of you would have "brushed me off in a nanosecond" ....however, you didn't!!! ........THAT tells a lot, but i kinda knew a lil abt that before.

    I previously knew that there was "a" need to defend their belief ....... I had encountered that beast a lot in the past ......but the depth of that insecurity amazed even myself .

    2nd - However, the extent of the inherant "Gang or Pack Mentality" was a surprise even to myself. After a reply or 2, i really thought they / you would move on, "confident that they had nothing that required them to defend". What in all those people drove them to pile on??? ........what in them made them continue???? .... why did ANYTHING i said even MATTER to you all???? .....sheesh, why continue ... ???especially when i did not feed into it ????

    I would never have interfered if I had any idea of the extent of the insecurity present and so blatantly demonstrated here. ........Nor, did I did know that "Pack Mentality" was such a powerfull component of the practice. The thread itself blatantly demonstrates that it is. (anywhere else, the thread would have died at the 3rd or 4th entry ... likely triggering a blush and apology from me ......but this Pack here??? WTF)

    The thread speaks for itself. A "Pack" .......One fed the other ........as one fed the other .......fed the other...... fed the other ....... fed on the other .......... ad infinitum. (None "moved on", confident in their own thingy).

    This thread would be classic meat of a great thesis on Pack Mentality in action .. . It also is very scary to see how a "pack" can happen when one hits into a vulnerable area of insecurity .........how that can trigger some individuals to "pack" together... ....(b]rather than just curse momentarily, ...and quickly move on with their lives. ..... I DID NOT FEED IT ... you all did ... check the thread ... i was absent till today, when friends told me about the Pack in action. .... and the weak area i seem to have poked.

    Still, no intent to comment on 1. or 2 is there??? , of course not . ........and yes, of course I apply the same for women, especially including myself.

    Totally Amazzzzzing!!!! why did ANYTHING i said even MATTER to you all???? Again, If any of you had even moderate degree of confidence in what you say, every one of you would have "brushed me off in a nanosecond[/b

    Now, will you all move on confidently ?? ....or.....does the "Pack" still feel threatened by lil ole me ..... and require more self-justification??? If you need the latter, I will stand aside and let you continue to "Pack" and gorge yourselves until you satisfy your mysterious need .... or look at yourselves, ......or exhaust yourselves.
First off, I had a lot of confidence in what I do and who I am. I don't need to justify my actions to anyone, unless they ask me about WIITWD (What It Is That We Do).

Seconde, I was not trying to brush you off, I was trying to address and correct a misconception that you obviously had with the BDSM Lifestyle. Unfortunately, you have chose to stay on the attack and sling mud. So be it...

You are obviously insecure in who and what you are. Is your life so shallow and meaningless that you feel that you have to resort to slandering other individuals' choices to express their sexuality in order to make yourself feel like a better person? If so, then I feel sorry for you, I really do.

If you don't understand our lifestyle, either ask questions or back off. Life is too short to deal with little minded people like yourself.

and by the way, I don't follow any 'pack mentality'...I walk my own path in my own way...if that scares you, get off my path

Endgame.....little girl....begone.

NG61.....getting a little tired of dealing with children and their childlike ways....


wickedeasy 66F  
25468 posts
6/11/2006 9:28 am

i don't defend WWITWD - there is no need. I would reiterate what has been said by others - if it bothers you, doesn't suit, then you have the option of leaving and not listening or responding to the broader discussion. when, however, you choose to engage - my one recomendation would be that you do so with respect.

if you can't show respect, at least do try to to write soemthing of substance. it is difficult to argue your points when they are substantive.

y'all have a lovely day

WE

You cannot conceive the many without the one.


ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
6/11/2006 12:19 pm

NG with Abraham Lincoln's blessing and your use of this as well, I choose only to use this Quote, "It is far better to remain silent and be thought a fool, than to open you mouth and remove all doubt!" Some people just don't get WIITWD?

Again your response is on the money NG. This Sir nods in approval.


fancy_for_you 39F
3014 posts
6/11/2006 2:56 pm

Oh geesh squirt why don't you make like a banana and split already. Enough is enough. I am not in the BDSM lifestyle but I don't go to peoples blogs and stir up shit about it. And that is because wether I agree or disagree with the lifestyle it's THEIR choice so let it be. This is about as bad as arguing about religion or politics....time to move on. I won't be back to this particular post because of you.

Sorry OC just enough is enough lately ya know. I will still read your other blog entries though.

Fuzzy

~~Fuzzy~~


ohcurious14 59M
1683 posts
6/11/2006 5:19 pm

    Quoting looking19632008:
    I just wanted to stop by and say though I'm not into the lifestyle, I enjoy learning about all aspects of life. I thank you for this glimpse into your world.
I am glad that you have and please do feel free to stop in and visit anytime.


BadAssBlonde1 56F
4989 posts
6/24/2006 12:00 pm

Well, as usual; I missed the comments from lilsquirt. That is more than likely a Good Thing. Great Story!

Cordially,
Lady Hunter


After all the sex is gone, there is the mind - Lady Hunter / BAB

Copyright © House of Lady Hunter 1998-2009


rm_mydeal1970 46F

7/25/2006 8:00 am

So? When do you get the crap beat outta you? You are a weak man for even considering this although you were asked to do this. Do you ever think this may come back to haunt you? Which i m sure it will later in your life. TP you are a very sick puppy with no bang..........


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