What are Women looking for in a Man?  

oceanblue777 36M
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10/22/2005 7:06 am

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What are Women looking for in a Man?

What is it that women are looking for in a man?

Comments welcome.

DesiresMoreOften 60F  
168 posts
10/22/2005 9:47 am

That depends on the woman.....many these days want what most men want. Sex and no strings. Come and go as they please and do who and when/where ever they want.

Some women still only want 1 sexual partner at atime. Someone they can get to know and be at ease with. Those women think sex with someone they know and have a connection with is alot better than just doing any and all.

oceanblue777 36M

10/22/2005 1:07 pm

You know what...
There are sometimes guys who are exactly the same. Who only want one sexual partner at a time.
The only problem is two things
1. Guys got Testosterone which is nature's natural sex-stimulant
2. Guys who are like that are generally looking for a decent girl who wont be like the typical guy jumping into bed with every second person.

The problem with the last one is that the more "decent ladies" tend to be cold and totally unsexual. If not before marriage, then afterwards. Although I would figure the first, but I could be wrong.

I mean, I know that ladies have generally more values than guys. Which I dont have a problem with. But having to live with a stiff upper lip kind of girl for the rest of your life because society taught her that "decent girls shouldnt enjoy sex" because it is "dirty" and "unladylike"

Now, where does a guy like this go then?
You want a more decent girl, but definitely dread ending up with a totally cold wife.
Guys are guys after all!

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