help me to increase my odds?!  

ober2004 45M
3 posts
2/21/2005 6:43 am

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3/5/2006 9:27 pm

help me to increase my odds?!


Hi ya'll. I have been on this site now for 3 months and I'm starting to get depressed. I am asking for your help in helping me increase my odds or chance to meet some of you lovely ladies. I have been polite, curtious and down right witty at times. LOL... I have sent pictures when asked and still no interest. Please let me know if I'm just an ugly bastard or if I'm not your type. At least then I'll have some sort of feed back.

I am however a gentle and very sexual male. I'd be excited at the possibility of being able to satisfy some of you lovely ladies and caress those lovely bodies.

Thank you in advance for your time and consideration with dealing with my question!!

rm_humdinger61 57M
6 posts
2/21/2005 5:23 pm

I feel your pain! I don't know the answer either. I seem to have what they are asking for, and I've been told many times that I am good looking. I am very sexual and passionate. I'v e tried pics and no pics -- no difference. I don't get it, but it is depressing!


ober2004 45M
3 posts
2/22/2005 5:55 pm

humdinger...thanks for feeling my pain. LOL. If we were women, we would not be in this "perdicament"! Hopefully for both our sakes we'll some females post some comments. My membership runs out at the end of March and if something does not change...I probably will not renew. I'm keeping my "head" up though! LOL... and looking for some good carma! Take care.


ladycat45 59F
1 post
7/20/2005 1:16 pm

oh you poor man. blue balls Ober? it really is that we have so many guys to choose from. i'm sure you're not an ugly bastard LOL. i always try to at least answer the nice emails. you didn't send me one yet. some of them can be really nasty right from the git go and I don't know if guys realize it, but just like it takes a little foreplay to get a girl going she doesn't like sleaze slung at her in the first email.


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