Wine, Europe, and a new state of mind..  

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6/15/2005 3:11 am

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Wine, Europe, and a new state of mind..

Well.. I guess I'm blogging finally. It was just a matter of time I guess. All my friends do it and god knows I'm just a little outspoken when it comes to my opinions.

Blah. So I decided to join this site with the hopes of meeting new people who are a little more outspoken about what they want in a relationship. That's a good thing considering most people just step ever so gingerly around a subject.

It's been 11 months since I've had sex, but that has to do with my personal choice. Had that breakup from a 7 year relationship. Needless to say, it didn't work out. Could have been worse though.. Coulda been a REAL Ugly divorce, but it turned out to be an amicable breakup.

I took 11 months off to make reevaluate what I'm doing and what I want. I also wanted to make sure I wasn't going to be self depracating and get myself into a rebound relationship. No worries there considering I'm past the mourning period.

So What am I looking for? New friends, Good Times, and a potential new relationship sooner rather than later..

Really been looking thru the site and to tell you the truth, there are only one or two people that really caught my eye. I guess you could say I'm selective, but then again.. I've always been that way.

Well.. I sent her a voice message.. Something I've never done before.. Novel idea, but I'm sure she gets innundated with a million emails a day. It's been a while since I've shared a bottle of wine with someone and had some great conversation.. Wow.. I completely forgot what it feels like to just go through that whole "meeting someone new" thing.. Considering it's been 8 years since I've last experienced it. Well.. It sounds like an exciting proposition though.. that whole "Getting to know you" period.. those are the best. Now the question is.. who will share that bottle with me?

I'm definitely planning on starting up weekends in Europe again. Going to go in July to reestablish a home base there.. Probably look at getting a flat in Paris or London.. where my european friends all live.. So that should be fun.. spending 2 weekends a month out of new york..


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