nycsfinest_in_tx 35F
16 posts
12/9/2005 9:16 am

Last Read:
3/6/2006 9:33 am


Why is it that some older men use younger women as their trophy instead of an equal person in the situation. Example if a much older man gets with a much younger woman he has to let it be known to everyone "his boys and peoples" that she's his "young thang" Sometime to the point were he is no longer embracing the female but almost makinging it seem as if he owns or rules her because she takes care of his wants and needs.

kats60 56F

12/9/2005 9:58 am


joystick390111 51M
19 posts
12/9/2005 10:13 am

I can say that it would not be the case with me....I have never shown off the woman I was with to the point that I think I own her. I have even babysitted for her so she can go on a date with someone else(if u wanna call it a date)...Even though I said I would not do that again, I loved her so much to give her that freedom...even though, I wondered what they were doing.....mind does play tricks on ya.......I still think about her to this day........Some guys may have genuine feelings for the young woman not to act as a show off...Be confident with what u have without beeing a show off.....

rm_goddess1946 106F
13518 posts
12/9/2005 10:15 am

when i was younger...........wayyyyyyyyyyy younger chronologically....i only dated older men. the young ones
bored me silly as their idea of a great evening was to party
hardy at the fraternity house, drink more beer than their brains
could dance with and i could learn very little from them.

ohhhh how times have changed....

Just a little food for thought.............
If you really want to be happy, nobody can stop you...

rm_eight91121 37M

12/9/2005 2:56 pm

There is alot of truth to that statement, I think sometimes there is an insecurity in the man, dealing with his one age, that he wants to be young, and uses the female to make him feel secure about his age. But this is what I think, I am still young enough to not be concerned about age yet. And I hope I am mature enough then as I am now to accept my partner and serve them as I would have them serve me.

rm_jack991966 34M
1 post
12/11/2005 12:27 pm

I agree with eight in part about the insecurity, because that is the root problem. I see the classic "old man-young woman" thing as self congratulatory, yet not in all cases. In the scenario you pose, however, the man is simply looking for a physical, quantifiable testament to his vitality and fleeting youth in order to best his peers. He would be considered shallow and, most likely, heartless by the norm of society.
But then again, that's just what I think.

Become a member to create a blog